kuberselvam

@kuberselvam (46)

India • Age 77

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Responses (34)

kuberselvam's Responses

Best Response to new member on the second day of posting Response in Mylot.

buchi_bulla @Buchi_bulla (8298) • India 30 Jul 09

My sister is a new member of Mylot and she started posting Responses since two days. Today one of her responses is selected for Best Response. We are so thrilled. Has any of you secured Best Response within short span of time on...

best response for a new member

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kuberselvam oh great!!!!!!!! She must be really knowledgeable. She might turn out to be an active 'forum poster'. I wish her happy posting. Let her earn more best answers.

30 Jul 09

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How many children do you have or would like to have or both???

UmmZahid @UmmZahid (324) • United States 29 Jan 07

OBVIOUSLY it really isnt our choice god controls all, but how many would like to have me at this point !! i would love to eventually have 4 a boy then girl then boy then girl!!! so it would be evened out!! what about you???

had children

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kuberselvam We have three children.Parents have the right to choose how many they would have.Giving birth is not enough.Parents have the first responsibility to help the children grow up in a congenial environment.They should grow up as responsible citizens and a human...

30 Jan 07

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Is it always going to be this way...

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 29 Jan 07

Okay, before anyone makes this comment "well he's just being a typical teenager"...please read this BEFORE you make that comment. He's not a typical teenager by any means, shape or form. He's ADHD, also has Oppesitional Defiant...

parenting

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kuberselvam It is quite possible that some children behave that way . You have done the right thing by consulting the Counselor.They act very mean , don't listen to our words,treat us as their enemy etc., etc.,But I thing lovable words can make things better. Better...

30 Jan 07

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Loving your children on equal footing... is it true?

g_aileen09 @g_aileen09 (1354) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

Are parents just trying to "play safe" by not telling who their favorite child is? What can we say on this?

home

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kuberselvam This sort of feeling of favoritism is prevalent among most of the kids. As parents we never indulge in that sort of treatment of our kids.Most often the girls feel that they are not treated as well like boys.It may be true in some societies. but we should not...

30 Jan 07

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Were you spanked as a kid?

nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Were you spanked as a kid? And how many of those spankings do you actually remember? I remember maybe a handful of mine, but I know I was spanked a lot more than that... Anyone have opinions on why (if this is the case with you)...

childhood

memories

spankings

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kuberselvam I grew up as a nice & obedient kid.But I too had been spanked a few times both at home & school.One day my Mom was going out shopping & I created a ruckus at home shouting that I too be taken along.My Dad spanked me real good & my whining increased. My father...

30 Jan 07

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5 year old boy going to public restroom by himself

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am a mom of 2 beautiful kids..my son just turned 5 three days ago and my daughter is almost 3 yrs old. My husband travels all the time with his job so he is never around when we go shopping or anything. I have always taken my...

boy in womens restroom

boys bathroom

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kuberselvam Once the boy is aware of the difference of being a boy, I thing that is when one must know that the boy is just old enough to go to the "men's'.... but more appropriate step would be to teach & train the kids to use the right rest room.

30 Jan 07

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My son is being bullied Help!!!

serenae @serenae (161) • United States 24 Jan 07

My 10 yr old son is getting bullied in school. I have gone to the school, and talked to his teacher and the vice principal. They have talked to everyone in his class about bulling. Well he is still being bullied. One kid even...

bullies

kids

school

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kuberselvam Bedtime stories on Heroes from the history will help. He is bullied because he presents a picture of weakness. Put him on an Exercise regime to build his self confidence level.Teach him to do household chores.Take him out in the open regularly and make him...

27 Jan 07

school age is better than college

balaji_civil @balaji_civil (190) • India 24 Jan 07

can u agree...tell your own views

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kuberselvam Certainly so.We are young in age & HEART.We are simple & plain speaking.We are neither wicked nor crooked. As we grow up we pick up so many unwanted & harmful pretenses. One must learn to look back & introspect to move forward.

27 Jan 07

my favourite cricketer is yuvraj singh, who is your???

jatindavey @jatindavey (128) • United States 11 Jan 07

hi to all, my favourite cricketer is Yuvraj singh. the best thing i like about him is his batting and the way he times the ball. i can boast to say that he has the best timing in the indian team right now. apart from that he is a...

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kuberselvam My favourite is Rahul.He is a cool headed person.Takes right decision at the right moment. He is calm,composed and a picture of self confidence. I don't remember a single occassion when he has played for himself. He has been playing for the team and the...

27 Jan 07

Are you happy that sourav ganguli is back in the Indian cricket team?

hirals @hirals (1736) • India 26 Jan 07

Are you happy that sourav ganguli is back in the Indian cricket team? Yes? why? n if No then also specify the reason.

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kuberselvam There was no need to have dropped him.he is an experienced player and many a times proved his mettle. He has also been one of our successful captains.Our selecters and those at the helm of affairs should better be advised to decide on merits. I welcome ''come...

27 Jan 07

" Stop Pointing Fingers To India " Enough Of It !!

jaizdeep @jaizdeep (397) • India 26 Jan 07

For the past few days i have been continuously observing that people are posting topics blaming either Indians or India.... Either its about them smelling bad , Girls being aborted by pregnant women, Indians spamming, playing...

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kuberselvam I haven't so far come across any such comment. India is a tolerent country. We INDIANS are proud that WE are tolerent too.....otherwise somany religions would not have flourished in our mother land. There is no need for us to win an arguement. We need...

27 Jan 07

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Would you rather be self-employed or company employed?

angelmae @angelmae (351) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

I'd rather be self-employed. Being my own boss. How about you?

boss

employment

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kuberselvam I would rather be self employed.It saves time. I choose my timings.I am my BOSS.Working for somebody means earning for them and I get a paltry income making some others RICH.I can work to earn multi streams of Income.I am completely independent to do what I...

26 Jan 07

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Working from Home

kdarrell @kdarrell (1562) • Canada 26 Jan 07

Does anyone here work completely from home off the internet? How did you take the plunge from working outside of the home to working at home? Was it a difficult decision to make? In June, I will not have a babysitter anymore,...

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kuberselvam I am working from home. There are many things one can do to make a living by working from home.I am handicapped .After a fruitful service for thirty years in Insurance Industry I desired to go on my own. Hence I am here working from home.

26 Jan 07

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Do you feel free in a country where there is democracy?

wasim989 @wasim989 (2298) • India 26 Jan 07

I live in India and I feel good that I am living in a free country but am I really free because deep down my heart I still feel that I am not free because we are still exploited by rich people and politicians which is only making...

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kuberselvam Freedom , Liberty , Independence...... very interesting words. Very appealing too. When more than half of the world's population live in poverty,misery,hunger,malnourished.... what is the meaning of freedom ?

26 Jan 07

Have you undergone plastic surgery to make yourself look better?

marief2rnurse @marief2rnurse (2704) • United States 25 Jan 07

Did it turn out the way you wanted it to? Would you do it again? I would like to have a dimple and will get one when I can afford it.

plastic surgery

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kuberselvam No I have not . But I feel every thing is OK for me .moreover it is very costly and what is the guaranty that corrected surgery will not lead to further complications?

26 Jan 07

why do woman makes plastic operation?

AdsenseGuy @AdsenseGuy (31) • Lithuania 24 Jan 07

Today, i went to my girlfriend, she looks amazing btw, so she is telling me: BOOBS OR LIPS? I have chosen none. Then we had a long chat, i think i managed to change her opinion and do not spend a cent on any plastic surgery....

breast implants

girls

plastic surgery

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kuberselvam Beauty is relative. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Life is GOD's gift. He has made us like we are , may be , with a purpose.I do not have any right to tamper with his creations.Some girls may feel that they do not look beautiful. But the external...

26 Jan 07

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Would you have plastic surgery for your husband? (I wouldn't under these circs!)

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 25 Jan 07

Oh my gosh. There is a story in the news today about a Chinese man who has persuaded his new wife to have plastic surgery so that she will look like his first wife, who died in a car crash. I really think that this is sad. As...

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kuberselvam I wouldn't do that . I wish to have my partner the way she is.Otherwise there is no meaning of love or belonging. I love her for the way she is . That will be for ever.

26 Jan 07

myLot Reputation

myLot! @myLot (127) • Kansas City, Missouri 9 Jan 07

We are pleased to bring you more exciting innovation from our team here at myLot! We have developed a new algorithm that now ranks a myLot user’s reputation. The myLot reputation rating takes into account various factors...

reputation

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kuberselvam I think it is the best way to improve the quality of the discussions posted on the forums.It also helps to motivate all to discuss qualitatively rather than quantitatively just to increase the no., of postings. I welcome this rating system.

26 Jan 07

Child Care

suman76 @suman76 (648) • India 5 Jan 07

Today when the wife and husband is going for work and nobody is in house to look after the child. What should we do. Is is good to keep a maid in the house alone with the child when we are daily watching TV and awaring the people...

child care

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kuberselvam We have faced similar predicament when our children were very young: my parents had to re locate to my sister's place and we were perplexed : we decided to engage a house maid and fortunately for us she turned out to be a wonderful person: but we never...

5 Jan 07