kvijay

@kvijay (16)

India • Age 38

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How do you say no to the people?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 4 Feb 07

People borrows your things and they do not return back. Sometimes you cannt ask to them because of feeling destroying a relationship. How do you say no to people about the things you don't want to give? Will that make a person...

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kvijay evrbdy goes thru these kinds of situations.....the worst case s wen somebody loses our thing or still worse s somthing that we ourselves hav borrowed ...this usually hpns with the case of dvds n books....so my take on this issue s never lend nor borrow 2 b on...

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Do you send more e-cards than real paper cards?

ShadyGrove @ShadyGrove (996) • United States 3 Feb 07

I used to buy so many paper cards and send them all the time, but now they are so expensive! Some of the Hallmark cards are $3 and $4 for a pretty card. I have been sending e-cards for years now - and those cards have gotten...

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kvijay This s all bcos of the changin life style....but i wud always prefer a hard solid greetin card 2 a musical flash ecard... this s cos tangibl things stay 4ever than these ecard fads....ther was a time wen phonograms wer sent instd of greetin cards but greetin...

4 Feb 07

Do you use alcohol to numb your pain?

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 2 Feb 07

Right now, yes. I am off my face drunk, trying to forget about all the bad things in my life. I know it isnt responsible, I know it isnt right, but havent you ever got to a stage when you have had enough and dont know wat to do?...

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kvijay tats very bad 2 hear.i mean look drinkin in a social event s acceptabl but bein addicted or drinkin 4 ur said reason s not acceptabl

3 Feb 07

is kissing your lover important in an affair?

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 31 Jan 07

To be honest iv never kissed or been kissed.Im to say that im a 100% unadultrated virgin.Most of my friends tell me that they have always kissed their partner before when they fell in love and every now and then.When I say,iv...

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kvijay well.........t all boils down to the way they r brought up...but yes i've heard many of my frnds say bout their adventures 2 me but still t s their surroundings n the way they r movin..........

1 Feb 07

All the Smokers out there, Talk to me!

jess368 @jess368 (3368) • United States 17 Jan 07

So almost all of the cities around me have gone non-smoking! here's the deal, restaurants have smoking and non-smoking sections. if you dont want to be around it then dont sit in the smoking section! if the servers dont want the...

restaurants

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smoking

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kvijay well.... i must accept that this smokin phobia s a bit 2 much. but still ther r others in restaurants who don wanna take risks in life 4 whom the consideration has 2 b definitely gvn.but bannin smokin in bars s outrageous since people take in more harmful...

18 Jan 07

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Who to turn to?

Chey1970 @Chey1970 (1186) • United States 19 Feb 08

Everyone once in a while needs a shoulder to cry on. Who is it that you can always turn to no matter, for that shoulder? For me, it's my husband. He always listens when I need to vent or even rant. He will give his input if he...

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kvijay Everyone once in a while needs a shoulder to cry on. Who is it that you can always turn to no matter, for that shoulder? For me, it's my husband. He always listens when I need to vent or even rant. He will give his input if he thinks I needs it, or just...

19 Feb 08

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Rehab of hardened criminals - something to ponder??

Modestah @Modestah (11179) • United States 13 Jan 08

Is Rehabilitation possible when you consider the following? All during history, from the time of Cain and Able all the way to our modern world criminals have had one thing in common - they all ate bread, and they all drank...

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kvijay Is Rehabilitation possible when you consider the following? All during history, from the time of Cain and Able all the way to our modern world criminals have had one thing in common - they all ate bread, and they all drank water. no exception to be...

13 Jan 08

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Why is that the baddy has to always lose to the hero?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 14 Jan 07

In every film ever made in any language, it is the right and virtuous hero who wins in the end though the baddy's got a whole lot better arsenal than the hero?

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kvijay Wat u say s tru...

15 Jan 07

I hope they are wrong

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160708) • United States 23 May 18

My first husband's younger half brother is being tested next month for the same illness that killed him, and their grandfather. I hope whatever trouble he is having the neurologist figures it out. And I hope they are wrong.

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kvijay My first husband's younger half brother is being tested next month for the same illness that killed him, and their grandfather. I hope whatever trouble he is having the neurologist figures it out. And I hope they are wrong.

23 May 18

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What book(s) are you reading now?

miakakiri @miakakiri (57) • United States 13 Jan 07

I'm just trying to start some kind of discussion, so I figured I'd ask something fairly innoctious. (Please excuse spelling errors.) So, what book or books are you reading right now? As in, you have a bookmark in it because you're...

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tamora pierce

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kvijay Im currently readin Michael cricton's Timeline. ts a wonderful book thats got everythin frm scifi,romance,sacrifice,history,ambitious boss,etc....a must read un...

14 Jan 07

Why is that the baddy has to always lose to the hero?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 14 Jan 07

In every film ever made in any language, it is the right and virtuous hero who wins in the end though the baddy's got a whole lot better arsenal than the hero?

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How wud u react if u met ur first crush after 8 years?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 10 Jan 07

hi frnds i'd lost touch with my crush bout 8 yrs ago n got back in touch just 2day thru orkut.how wud u react or wat wud be ur 1st response other than the regular 'howz life' or 'pleasant surprise'?

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kvijay oh tats good 2 hear ya

14 Jan 07

How wud u react if u met ur first crush after 8 years?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 10 Jan 07

hi frnds i'd lost touch with my crush bout 8 yrs ago n got back in touch just 2day thru orkut.how wud u react or wat wud be ur 1st response other than the regular 'howz life' or 'pleasant surprise'?

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kvijay luckily in my case both of us r not married yet.but still i can understand how excitin t wud hav been...t was all nostalgic with old memories whirlwindin around us....

14 Jan 07

Does age really matter for love?

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 14 Jan 07

My dear friends.I dont understand why to most parents and our people esp elders,age really matter for love.why does the girl have to be always younger than the guy and it is the same with marraiges also.What harm is going to come...

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kvijay In countries like India wher most of the marriages r arranged by parents the things they look b4 marryin off their daughter 2 someone s the social status of the bride, the kind of job the guy's doin,whether he'll be able 2 provide 4 the family,etc...4 a man 2...

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How wud u react if u met ur first crush after 8 years?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 10 Jan 07

hi frnds i'd lost touch with my crush bout 8 yrs ago n got back in touch just 2day thru orkut.how wud u react or wat wud be ur 1st response other than the regular 'howz life' or 'pleasant surprise'?

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kvijay oh baby t was a good relation but got cutoff cos v had 2 mov 2 diff places n she told me that she'd been lookin 4 me all these years n finally got me.now im jus excited n nervous n not able 2 handle the situation quite normally........

13 Jan 07

How wud u react if u met ur first crush after 8 years?

kvijay @kvijay (16) • India 10 Jan 07

hi frnds i'd lost touch with my crush bout 8 yrs ago n got back in touch just 2day thru orkut.how wud u react or wat wud be ur 1st response other than the regular 'howz life' or 'pleasant surprise'?

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