lvyanyan

@lvyanyan (42)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What hurts?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 15 May 09

I think that we all have a nagging little pain of some kind. It's part of being a human to hurt and the pain can be big or small. My neck and shoulders bother me the most. Some people don't have anything physical that bothers...

hurts

pain

physical or not

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lvyanyan it give me a hit when i found that my boyfriend did't keep his promise and get in to love with another girl. my heart was deeply hurt. it was a hard time for me i even wanted me to be hurt physically rather than emotionally.

20 May 09

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What is your definition of success?

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 19 May 09

Dear All, What is your definition of success? This is the question my friend asked me when we were having breakfast. I thought for a while, and then i told him that, "self-worth and satisifactory of life". Then he tell me about...

definition

key elements

success

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lvyanyan as far as i am concerned, success means a lot to me! doing one thing with hard work and the result make everyone happy, get honor and respect from my peers, actually success do not indacate finishing something successfully, if the process makes eneryone happy,...

20 May 09

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What do you do when you cannot sleep? How do you deal with insomnia?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 24 Apr 09

What do you do when you cannot sleep? Its one of those nights when it is becoming hotter. I cannot close my eyes and I ended coming back on the computer. What would you do on such nights? How do you tackle lack of sleep?

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lvyanyan Sometimes i can't sleep too.that often happens when i have something unsolved, at this time ,the best thing is no longer to think about that.I always relax my body,taking deep breath. then I will get sleep very soon. try that,it is usefull!

25 Apr 09

How can I change my bad emotion into good?

Braveheartok103 @Braveheartok103 (380) • China 24 Apr 09

I have bad emotion these days cause I am losing my job and i can not find one within 2 months, although my husband has never complains at me, but i still can not be happy every day. So what should i do to change my...

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lvyanyan There must be something that confuses you,so you should find the reason thich makes you angry.maybe you shoud find some entertainment to relax yourself, then move on,beleive that chance belongs to people who have prepared for it.Good luck!

25 Apr 09

Are you more emotional before and during the monthly period?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 23 Apr 09

I have noticed I'm easy to get grumpy before the period, during the period, I'm fine and normal. But I just feel grumpy, uncomfortable, sore body within the week before it comes. How do you mentally and physically feel before...

emotion

monthly period

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lvyanyan Different people may suffer different feelings.befoue my period, i have the same situation of you, i will be get mad even for such a small stuff,i try my best to control my temper,but i can't.that is out of my control.i aslo have a pain on body,but all the...

23 Apr 09

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Is there a ban on plastic bags? Share your opinions too!

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 20 Apr 09

Dear friends, We know that Plastic is used worldwide for packaging of medicines, life-saving drugs, packaging of food items and a wide range of personnel care products. According to experts use of plastic may creates some...

ban on plastic

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lvyanyan Last year our country(china)made a ban on plastic bags,at the beginning,the supermarkets,the dining hall,the small stores all refused to provide customers with plastic bags.customers can bring a cloth-bag from home.aslo some factories make bags using other...

21 Apr 09

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what do you usually do during weekends?

jheLaichie @jheLaichie (4438) • Philippines 20 Apr 09

weekends... that the very best day of my life... because i could just sit down and relax... and rest whole day thru... with a very hectic work during the week days, a nice week end of rest would be a way to go... but sometimes i...

rest day

tv marathon

weekend

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lvyanyan I am a graduate now, weekends are aslo the best time for me to relax myself,usually i go to dance on friday evening,i like dacing very much.i have mastered many kinds of dancing.this makes happy and helps me to keep healthy. I go to climb mountain with some...

21 Apr 09

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Is this love or an obsession?

Curlann @annierose (21570) • Philippines 19 Apr 09

Good day to all mylotters. I just want to start this topic because it is bothering me so much.I hope you can give me a help on this one. There is this guy who always send me messages on my email and on my phone. He keeps on...

conflicts

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lvyanyan All the words that i said is my own opinion.If i were you,i will not give him any reply.Though he is a good guy,he loves me,I do not stay with a man who i do not love him,that is unfair to both of us.Love is mutual.I will tell him that we could be good...

19 Apr 09

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Are you always doing house work?

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 19 Apr 09

No, I am rarely doing housework. I know I am wrong. When people tell me need to do housework, I will feel not very well. Because I don’t want someone know I don’t do housework. I like to do it when my mood fine, I can wipe...

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lvyanyan Though i do not have my own house now, i like doing house work.I will clean my house everyday when i have one.Doing housework do not depends on my mood,i feel uncomfortable if i live in a dirty house.

19 Apr 09

relationships as a daughter to mother or father

roadkilldxh @roadkilldxh (35) • United States 18 Apr 09

i know, for me, i have always been closer to my mother. my parents split up when i was two and my dad wasn't around again until i was 14, so there's a whole lot of time there that he wasn't there for. i know he regrets every...

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lvyanyan People say that daughter will be closer to father and son will be closer to mother.Sometimes I do not think so.Maybe mother seems to be a little more weaker,so we want to protect her from hurt.But i think you shuld think about your father's advantages,his...

19 Apr 09

Do you learn more when you study alone or when you are with a group?

Curlann @annierose (21570) • Philippines 17 Apr 09

In relation with my study habits before, I prefer to be alone.I usually stays in my room with all my notebooks and books everywhere.I can say that I am the type of person who is a lover of books. I very much love learning and it...

study habits

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lvyanyan I think studying alone is s style used when you are young, group studying is a style used when you grew up.when we were little girls or boys,we did not know something around us,so we learn from books,from our parents.the knowledge we acquired is something...

17 Apr 09

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Your opinion, should girl still work even if she has family?

charlenmendoza @charlenmendoza (922) • Philippines 17 Apr 09

Nowadays woman are working even if she is married. And man now are really expecting that his partner will work and share with the expenses. So what is your opinion about this? For me, woman should really be working. Why? I don't...

family

father

mother

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lvyanyan I agree with you,I do not want to depend on my husband in future,I have not been married now,but i will have my own carrer.I think it is comfortable to spent money earned by myself.

17 Apr 09

How big your family?

hanah87 @hanah87 (1835) • Malaysia 17 Apr 09

I have a big family.We have 7 members.My father is a teacher.And my mother only a hosewife.So sometime we need to spend money carefully to avoid a waste.But my friend always say i am a lucky because they think the teacher's salary...

big family

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lvyanyan I have a big family too.but a little smaller than yours.I have two young sisters and a young brother.Yes,it is hard for our parents to raise so much childern,my mother was a teacher,but she passed away several years ago,my father does his own business to earn...

17 Apr 09

How to trust again after they've cheated

Soulstar24 @Soulstar24 (17) • United States 17 Apr 09

so I have a friend, who loved her man so much. she would share stories about their love, experiences, ups and downs etc. One day she came to be sobbing her eyes out saying he cheated. I was shocked. About a month went by and I...

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lvyanyan That depends on different things and persons.If he cheated her for some kind reasons,I think she shoud forgive him.Every one of us may make mistakes for some certain reasons.But if he did that for selfish, she should consider the thing from beginning.I think.

17 Apr 09

How could I make my life happier?

cencenmaggie @cencenmaggie (45) • China 1 Apr 09

I've found most of my time is not happy. It seems that I have many things to be worried about. The friends around me always look happy. So sometimes I'm thinking why such a things happens to me. Sometimes such situation remins me...

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lvyanyan Actually,I am in the same situation like yours.Maybe we are too negative,but now I am trying to regulate myself.I do not know why you always feel unhappy,I myself think it is related to your experience.I have many sad memory,so what I could do is to forget...

1 Apr 09

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I feel bored, how about you?

dik_an @dik_an (475) • Malaysia 27 Mar 09

Hello lotters! I'm very busy this week. You know, the final exam is coming and I have to make my self focus. I miss mylotting sometime and I just visited the main page, take a look for a while and then leave without any comment...

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lvyanyan You think you are too busy to resbound to mylot,I think you should make a plan to divide your time.what time you should do what things,that you will do everying proficiently,you could have a look at mylot at a certain time,that is mt suggestion.control your...

28 Mar 09

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Warning: Cigarette smoking is dangerous to your health.

cupcyke @cupcyke (363) • Philippines 25 Mar 09

What is the use of the written warning in the cigarette box if people still smoke. they know what would might happen if they still continuing smoke. the nicotine can really give bad effect to your lungs. its just wasting money, if...

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lvyanyan Smoking is not only dangerous to the person's health,but also to others who spare the room with you.I hating people around me smoking,because I could not stand the smell,I fell sick when I smell the smoke.

26 Mar 09

What will you do when people doesn't return the money you lended?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 24 Mar 09

Sometimes we can't ask our friends the money back they have rented believing that they will return very soon. Sometimes we will be very shortage of money and when we ask them the money back, they will say they will return very...

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lvyanyan Sometimes we will be shamed to ask fou money back from your borrower.but if you do like that ,the person who you lend money to will do the same the next time.I could forgive him or her once,but I will not lend him or her money again.Because I do not believe...

25 Mar 09

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