Ansen zhu

@mac_fish (723)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Think positive thoughts before sleep

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 7 Sep 11

Before I head off to sleep at night, I try and detach myself of all of the negativity that I had to deal with during the day, no matter how much it is weighing down on me. After all stressing over things is counterproductive to...

positive thoughts before sleeping

sleeping

stress

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Ansen zhu I seldom get insomnia for the work or the business I handle with during the day,but the emotional tangle is an exception. I usually get sleep as soon as I head off my bed,cause I feel so tired to think about my work when I leave my office,I'd like enjoy my...

8 Sep 11

Common Sense is the Most Essential Quality for Parenting

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 7 Sep 11

Many times, not having common sense is something that can lead to us having a lot of issues. One of those issues is naturally when any parent is trying to take care of their children or really for anyone who is watching children....

children

common sense

parenting

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Ansen zhu I do admire that take care of kids well isn't a easy thing as turn ur palm over,I also begin to understand why people call us freshman when we married. It's a turning point when our babies come to earth,we are supposed to grow up with kids...

8 Sep 11

How would you explain the difference between being wise and being smart?

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 8 Sep 11

Do you believe a person can be very smart, yet not be wise? If so, why to you believe that? Can you give an example of someone who is smart but not wise?

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Ansen zhu Hi, It's hard for me to list any example here,cause I haven't found anyone is wise surroud me. In my opinion,smart means she/he is clever,involved with IQ,sometimes it's just born,sometimes we could get smart by getting education.... And wise is much more...

8 Sep 11

How would you explain the difference between being wise and being smart?

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 8 Sep 11

Do you believe a person can be very smart, yet not be wise? If so, why to you believe that? Can you give an example of someone who is smart but not wise?

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8 Sep 11

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What would you do when your heart is broken?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 9 Mar 11

I have come across many discussions in mylot about love affairs that have gone astray. Those brokenhearted need pacifying words from the experienced and seasoned lotters who have experienced such bitterness in the world of love....

broken hearted

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Ansen zhu Hi,zandi Well,I'm not afraid the heartbreaker,the heart-broken is not a big deal for me ,I think I could walk through it easily. When ur heart is broken usually means the disaster of emotion and love ended,and there is something new waitting for u,and u have...

10 Mar 11

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Would you quit your job to follow your passion, or is that being selfish?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 7 Mar 11

I have a great hubby and 4 amazing kids (3 of my own and a step son). I have a good job and i must admit I make pretty good money. I like my job, I just know it's not what i want to do for the rest of my life. I am working on...

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Ansen zhu Well,it's a really hard decision to make.Apparently,there's a big contradiction between clothing and feeding ur family and living on ur own way with ur own business,u possibly have to abandon one of them....... I'M a homesick guy,and I'M willing to work and...

8 Mar 11

Sunday eve and oh myG Its raining again, pounding, fl;ash flood type raining

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 2 Jan 11

Oh my g I just do not believe it its raining again here in o range county and in Laguna Beach they are still trying to recover after mudslides have damaged artists homes and now damage in this one city is in the millions. our Ca...

no longer funny

very serious

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Ansen zhu Hi,Hatley Fortunately,it's been sunny for around one week though the temperature is quite low here. Honestly,I'm not adapted to the big big sun in winter here,the brighter the colder......So I find I'm always played by the fake appearance when I wanna go...

3 Jan 11

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MyLot and offline friends

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 27 Dec 10

Some weeks ago I was talking to a friend, and I told her that I had been working on online money making sites for a while. I mentioned MyLot and told her that it was a disussion site where we get paid for our participation. She...

mylot

offline friends

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Ansen zhu Hi, I'm always unwilling and embarrassed to be asked to leak my personal infor from others,even from my partner. About username and password of mylot,it's pretty personal stuff.Here,I take as my own backyard and I usually post something I don't talk with my...

28 Dec 10

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Family:Togetherness.

alokijon @alokijon (665) • Malaysia 14 Dec 10

I always believe in a quote saying that the family that prays together stays together. Prayers are the glue that bind things together. Yes there are times when we feel that we just cannot get along with some of our family members...

family

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Ansen zhu Hi,there Same as many families in my nation,the members in the whole big families are pretty less than that in 60's and 70's,the DADDY-MUMMY-KID is the ordinary model of family unit nowadays,what' more,I do have some relations as uncle,aunt,nephews and nieces...

15 Dec 10

see you

sophia10 @sophia10 (86) • China 10 Dec 10

Dear friends,I will go home to attend my cousin's wedding,celebrating New Year together and then Spring Festival.So I will leave mylot,leave you several months.Hope you have a good time here,and see you that time when I come back...

festival

see you

wedding

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Ansen zhu Hi.Sophia U are welcomed whenever u come back here,my friend

12 Dec 10

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sophia10 @sophia10 (86) • China 6 Dec 10

I had a interview today,Its feels so complicated.After 4 years college life,there are still lots of problems for me to find a good job.I took a few short tests this noon and I felt a little down.Fortunately,I konw myself better...

interview

searching works

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Ansen zhu Hi,sophia It's really a long long time since I read ur post last time,so how are u and everything goes well recently? I'm totally attracted by the title here,Chinese!!! How amazing!! So who are the audience u mean to have??? Well,I've had the...

6 Dec 10

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How do you find Chinese Language?

prateek149 @prateek149 (590) • India 5 Sep 10

Currently I am learning Chinese language. Its fun learning at the begining hope it will be the same in future. Most of them says Chinese language is the hardest language so I am bit afraid. There are two subtypes in chinese...

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Ansen zhu Actually,it's incredible for me to hear so many people around the world here wanna learn Chinese.Prateek,I'm curious that why u make such a decision.Well,I'm a Chinese. Will u come to China for a pretty long time in the future or just be intersted in Chinese...

6 Sep 10

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Putting in more work than what the actual grade was worth.

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 24 Aug 10

There are times where I felt like I had to put in an insane amount of work for an assignment that might have been only worth about two percent of the grade. There was some research involved and several hours of time out of my...

assignments

low point values

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Ansen zhu I spent around 1 hour to send a e-mail this morning before my laptop........The essence of the mail was just notice some supervisors to be present at an open meeting from SGS that wanna audit the OHSAS18001 of the whole enterprise........ I spent 1 hour on...

24 Aug 10

Do you really believe that love in a couple will last forever?

smallsaozhou @smallsaozhou (827) • China 19 Aug 10

It is thought by many people that after marriage for quite a long period of time,passion in a couple will disappear mostly.Then the most reason why we still stick to the relationship is such as sense of responsibility,our children...

relationship last forever

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Ansen zhu Hi,there Well,I do admire the phenomenon u refer here,the passion and greeness between new couple are doomed to fade away as time goes by,love usually transfer to responsibilities of the entire family for the transition has passed.However,I dont think the...

19 Aug 10

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Which things would you do more often if you didn't have to worry about money?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 10 Aug 10

In what ways would you change your life if you didn't have to worry about money? There have been plenty of discussions like: "What would you do if you won a million dollars?" but this discussion in not about a million dollars or a...

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Ansen zhu Well,I would resign my job ,quit from the daily busy life I have which drives me crazy everyday,spend much much more time withmy family. Maybe I wanna be back to my hometown,indugle myself in the lazy life with my parents,far far away from the urban...

10 Aug 10

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