maiann

@maiann (29)

Philippines • Age 53

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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What can make a relationship long lasting?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 25 Apr 09

"Till death do us part", I just got married last year. I want to know what is your idea on how to keep a marriage for a lifetime.

forever

lasting

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maiann I think the most effective one is not to be in the same situation like for example if your husband is having a bad day dont add up more to it...you must be cool and have all the temper you need for it ..... it is advisable to both parties ,,,, never have the...

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What is your favorite movie?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 25 Mar 09

I love Serendipity, movie of John Cusack & Kate Beckinsale. It romantically done with humor. I like the message of the story about fate//destiny. It should not be seek..for if its truly yours, It will find you.

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maiann I love Pretty Woman, movie of Richard Gere & Julia Roberts. Its a fairy tale like movie in our present world ....... it doesnt matter who you are but its how the person see you as you are ........

29 Apr 09

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Is it OK to work in the field you have not studied

thanusha85 @thanusha85 (532) • Malaysia 25 Apr 09

Hi everybody I am a graduate in Biotechnology and are currently working in a call centre as a customer service execustive. Basically I choosed this job while waiting for a job related to my field of study. However it has been 2...

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maiann you will have a hard time getting a job with the same paying benefits you had with the all center ..... the reason why you are being turned down by the prosective employer you are encountering is that maybe because of your previous high salary that they think...

25 Apr 09

Good pay or enjoyable work environment?

Aprillynn1 @Aprillynn1 (225) • United States 25 Apr 09

I am curious... What is more important to you: A job that pays well or a job that you enjoy? Do you work at your current job because it pays well or because you like the job and work environment?? Personally, I think it is most...

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maiann i think a job that you truly enjoy will make you stay with the company longer but we need a high paying job to live ...... Personally as long as you enjoy what you are doing even if it not a high paying job is more than enough rather than having a high paying...

25 Apr 09

Do we have to find a place for happiness or is it within us?

Soniasony @Soniasony (1827) • India 20 Apr 09

Its a small bit of argument that happened b/w me and my friend.. She wants to go on a vacation .. I asked the reason(?)for vacation She tells she is in search of happiness ..So I had an argument with her saying happiness is...

happy

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maiann no actually it would really depend on the person ..... how do she/he defines happiness is it through material things or just within .... me i prefer serving my own family even if it means giving up my time with friends ..... i think that serving my husband &...

21 Apr 09

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How often do you change your bedsheet?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 8 Apr 09

It is really so nice to lay our body after a long day on a clean and new bedsheet. But practically, we cannot change our bedsheet everyday. I am just curious how often do you change your bedsheet? I am used to changing it every...

changing bedsheet

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maiann well yes you are right if only we can change it everyday or as more often as you can much the better .... we do it every two weeks ..... because we do the laundry all by ourselves ...

21 Apr 09

is your bestfriend just like you or opposite

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 20 Apr 09

my friends are usally alot different then me. some people are more comfortable being around others that are just like them. they like all the same things, dress alike, etc. my friends on the other hand usally like different music,...

bestfriend

friends

likes

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maiann well i think that my bestfriends are not usually just like me.... we are more on compatible with each other ....... barely seeing you or talking to you they know if you are in trouble or not ..... we understand and feel each other even without telling the...

21 Apr 09

What do you drink with your meal?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 12 Apr 09

We have different preferences when it comes to drinks - water, soda, juice. I basically enjoy my meal with any of the following drinks: water, coca cola, ice tea. How about you?

drinks

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maiann well we both enjoy the same .... water, coca cola, ice tea ......

21 Apr 09

Are promises really meant to be broken?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 18 Apr 09

I guess if we know that we cannot do what we had promise then just simply don't promise. Promises created an expectation from the other person. What makes promises painful is when the person who promise, didn't do what they had...

promise

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maiann i guess they are things that we cant accomplish because of unavoidable circumstances.... unless there are persons who are just fond of making promises and not do what they have promised then you dont deserve this person at all ..... forget it and just accept...

18 Apr 09

What would you do with your outdated wardrobe?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 16 Apr 09

My mom keeps clothes from the 60s. I often told her to throw it or give it to my cousins who could use it. since 1960s clothes are coming back with am twist. But she insist that it is her collection. These clothes has been...

outdated

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maiann you should give away your old clothes unless you intend to use it or what they call the classic clothes which can be worn any day any year you are ..... or if it still fits you ......

18 Apr 09

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What will you do if your man promise/s are broken?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 18 Apr 09

My friend's husband always make a promise that he usually break. He was always late, he promise. He promise that he will sleep early but she will learn later that he didn't sleep early. He promise to be home by a certain time, but...

promise

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maiann maybe he is trying his best to fulfill his promise/s but he really cant maybe he is like that the only thing that she can ois accept things as they are ....like maybe if they will meet by 10am and normally the guy is late by an hour or two then she can try to...

18 Apr 09

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What do you do if you cannot sleep?

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 18 Apr 09

It is almost 2 am and still I am awake. I cannot sleep. My mind are still very active. I am waiting for myself to feel sleepy. This is the reason I am still engage in mylot. I was hoping that this will get me to my bed.

sleep

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maiann maybe you are stress out which you dont know at all.... try to forget thinking of so many things when its time to slip..... maybe you take some foods that will keep you awake on sleeping time...like me if i drink nestea or even coke when its time to sleep i...

18 Apr 09

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my lover my best friend

Beba25 @Beba25 (39) • United States 15 Apr 09

So people in a difrent discussion i told you how my husband cheated on me with 4 other females fell in love with one and everything.i cheated on him back to make him feel the same way i felt and everything..that didnt last...

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maiann Maybe you should have a talk to work things out first. I think that you are still in love with him because you dont see yourself leaving him.... maybe when you talk you can discuss with him what you really feel and that you can sort things out and do some...

16 Apr 09

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today my girlfriend really left me!!!

smartjack @smartjack (520) • India 14 Apr 09

in spite of the positive responses that i got from my lotting i really lost my fiance today. she left me for another guy and i am very sad about it. it really hurts a lot when the person you love the most leaves you and goes away...

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maiann okay you can spend sometime alone for your grievances .... and after that you should go out and enjoy life .... maybe she is not really meant for you.... you will meet someone better than the last her ...... you can find someone that truly deserve your love...

15 Apr 09

How long does it take you to get over someone you loved and how do you do it ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 14 Apr 09

Yes I know there is no ready made answer for this one as different people have different times and different coping mechanisms .However ,I am asking for an average time if you wish ? or you maybe even state the longest and...

break ups

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maiann well just remind yourself that there are a better one coming than the last one that you have. And just think that probably this is better than having him/her which is usually having to fight everyday when you are together or always have discussions on simple...

15 Apr 09

Do you bother using an umbrella when it rains?

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 14 Apr 09

I'm starting to wonder why we even have umbrellas in our house. We hardly ever use them when it rains. I even keep one in my car under the seat. Usually I'll just put my hood up on my coat before I walk out the door if it rains. A...

rain

umbrella

weather

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maiann when i am not a mother yet I dont bother using umbrella when it rains, but now I do use umbrella because I cant/dont want to be sick because i have my husband & daughter to take care of.

15 Apr 09

Do you give up easily?

lynnemg @lynnemg (4529) • United States 9 Apr 09

When things get hard, how do you react? Do you push through the hard times until is gets better? Do you remain positive nad confident that you can get through the situation? Or, do you tend to give up easily? I have always been...

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maiann I dont give up easily because I know that whatever situation we are encountering right now is just a test that God is giving us and the least that we can do for HIM is to try our best to solve it .... the answer maynot be a positive one but I know that it is...

9 Apr 09

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Big blow ! My boyfriend kissed another girl ,i saw for myself !

hollysun @hollysun (97) • China 9 Apr 09

My heart is broken.I couldn't believe my own eyes .....Several days ago,i came across something heartbreaking.I saw my boyfriend was hugging another girl and kissing her affectionately.My brain became blank suddenly.I have been...

heartbreaking

love

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maiann I think you should forget him eveenthough you love him so much.... Men ingeneral are polygamus..... they really love to collec girlfriends unti lthey found the one who they will marry or they will live for the rest of their lives ..... But the worst part he...

9 Apr 09

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What's your principle in making friends ?

youetme @youetme (351) • China 9 Apr 09

People may have different principles in making friends . As a proverb goes , a life without a friend is a life without a sun . In my opinoin it is true that everybody needs friends .Namely ,without a friend ,you will feel lonely...

making friends

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maiann Normally what i feel for a person its 99%. My encounter with a person normally ends up to be my friend. If at our first meeting I am not comfortable with that person I never bother to get in touch with him.her because I alreaqdy feel if he/she can be my good...

9 Apr 09

eating together -is it a sort of bonding???

riyasam @riyasam (16556) • India 9 Apr 09

shouldnt we encourage this fact.In old times every person of family used to be on dinning table at some fixed time and whole family used to have lunch and dinner together but nowadays it's not like that. like the children have to...

family

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maiann Yes eating together is a simple way of bonding together. Almost & always all of us are busy in our work and the only thing that we got tp see a family member is by eating together. Especially if you have children who are also busy in his/her schooling and the...

9 Apr 09