malihat

@malihat (216)

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Is it correct to have live-in relationship to test each other before marriage ?

rohit999999999 @rohit999999999 (96) • India 25 Aug 11

Well!! It is very serious matter. Normally it happens, two people met, they fell in love and then marriage. So next what happen? Some two or three year peace and then comments, arguments, quarrels, fighting and ultimately...

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malihat I guess it depends from person to person. If you're comfortable living with each other before marriage, then you should go for it. However, if you're not comfortable with the idea of moving in together, or it is frowned upon in your society, then give it a...

26 Aug 11

Do You Still Shut The Bathroom Door If You're In The House Alone?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 25 Sep 10

I mean for baths, showers and the like. I don't know why, but when I'm in the house on my own I still shut the bathroom door. Why do I do this? The front and back doors are locked. The cat is highly unlikely to come in when I'm...

decorum in the bathroom

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malihat It's very rare for me to be in the house all alone, so I am in the habit of shutting the door when I'm in the bathroom. As a result, I shut the door even when I'm all alone out of habit. Sometimes I make a conscious effort to leave the door open though, as I...

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Did Hubby Really Need To Do This?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 15 Dec 10

We all have disgusting habits don't we? Some more disgusting than others. Now, John's finger and toe-nails grow quite long so he has to keep cutting them with nail clippers. In fact, I have some nail clippers myself that I will...

nail clippings being left

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malihat If my boyfriend had done this I would have asked him to come and pick the nail clippings up and dispose them off. Or I would have just done it myself and then mentioned it to him later. Depends on whether I was in a forgiving mood when I saw the nail...

15 Dec 10

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Are you afraid to travel alone?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 1 Dec 10

Honestly, I am a little bit scare if I have to go a long distance from a place I am unfamiliar with. But with situation which I have to go, I may just travel alone for the sake of money. Usually, I travel with friends, or family...

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malihat I've never travelled alone and frankly I don't like the idea of it because I think I would get very lonely. I would like to be in the company of someone when I'm travelling so that I have someone to share all the new experiences with. I don't think I'd be...

15 Dec 10

Committing suicide for love? Isn't it crazy?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 15 Dec 10

Just recently, one good looking guy from Malaysia jumped from the 14th floor just because he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 months... He's 22 and she's 18. Before he jumped, he actually posted it on facebook stating that he's...

suicide for love

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malihat I believe that committing suicide is a cowardly thing to do. Facing your life takes so much more courage. Life is a gift from God and only He has the right to take it away. Ending your life over someone else is just silly. No one is ever worth that sacrifice.

15 Dec 10

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How to save $15,000 for my trip in 2012

Monkeyrose @Monkeyrose (2840) • Canada 1 Dec 10

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malihat I'm currently saving up too. However, I'm only going on a short trip so only need about £500-£600. If you work, try to do overtime. Set aside any extra money that you have, and tell yourself that you are NOT going to use it on anything else. Try to find extra...

15 Dec 10

Ever been to Vegas?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 13 Dec 10

Me and my sister are contemplating going to Las Vegas (Nevada, USA) - pretty much "Sin City" this summer and I'm wondering.. if anyone has experiences they would like to share, any advice, any tips, any recommedations. I am truly...

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malihat I've visited a few cities in the USA but I've never been to Vegas. I do hope to go there someday though. I do think that you should take as much money as you can to Vegas. People say that it is very easy to spend money there and at the end of the day you don't...

15 Dec 10

getting teary

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

I am a person who easily gets teary eyed when i see something or someone pitiful. Even sad stories that i can easily relate to , would bring tears into my eyes. Shows on TV that are so touching would even make me cry! Sometimes,...

teary eyed

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malihat I can definitely relate to this. I am extremely sensitive and emotional, and it doesn't take much to make me cry. I always cry during sad parts in movies and tv shows. Even things that aren't very sad make me cry.

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do you believe in raincarnation?

glimpse24 @glimpse24 (20) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

im reading a book about reincarnation and i wanna start my discussion about it coz im curious of what would you answer. do you believe in reincarnation? that your spirit travels in the past?

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malihat No, I do not believe in reincarnation. However, I do believe in the afterlife and in heaven and hell. I don't believe that you are reborn after you die, however you will eventually be reborn when the time comes and either go to heaven or hell based on your...

15 Dec 10

Breakup's how do you move on???

acey76 @acey76 (1276) • Philippines 8 Dec 10

When all you see is that your partner will be your last , but eventually things resulted in the other way around and causes you a heartbreak how do you deal with this, and what are the ways you do moving on with your life??

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malihat I think to be able to move on, you need to want to move on. I know this sounds fairly obvious but there are so many people who complain about not being able to move on even though the truth is, they don't really want to. They just want to mope around feeling...

11 Dec 10

Skeletons in My Closet?

CrystalF @nastarcia (64) • United States 11 Dec 10

We all have skeletons in closets. Have you ever regret something you have done and Wish you could change it

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malihat We all make mistakes and do stupid things sometimes, but I feel that these are learning experiences. When you do something stupid, you learn from it, and you realise that you never want to make the same mistake again. I don't regret anything that I have ever...

11 Dec 10

what if you caught your partner cheating on you with your best friend?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 11 Dec 10

some people just can't choose anyone else but our best friend to cheat us with. isn't this paintfull enough..it has to be with our best friend to increase the pain. anyway how would you react if you were in this situation?

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malihat My best friend and my boyfriend are both wonderful people and I know, without a doubt, that they would never do anything like this to me. However, I imagine that it would be a very painful thing to go through and I probably wouldn't forgive either one of them...

11 Dec 10

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