melonsbrain

@melonsbrain (28)

United States • Age 42

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How often do you use this word ????

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 28 Apr 09

"I AM SORRY" It is just 3 simple words......but many of us find it so difficult to use it....offcourse some of us are quick enough to say that......but have you ever come across this situation.....it happened to me few months...

apologize

sorry

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melonsbrain I was in a situation not too long ago where I felt I was in the right and the other was in the wrong. After a few days of thinking about it, I realized we were both in the wrong. I did say the words first, but it was done so in hoping that they too would say...

29 Apr 09

Are you allergic to anything?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 28 Apr 09

I am allergic to drugs. How terrible could it get! Every time, I take some medicine I have to pop in anti allergic pills! And since you may have to take it anytime of the day it gets difficult at times. You cannot even doze off in...

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melonsbrain I happen to allergic to several of the "good" drugs which stinks sometimes. I'm also allergic to pecans...not nuts...just pecans. Weird...I know.

29 Apr 09

Forgetting, not an easy task!!!!

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 26 Apr 09

I happen to listen to a preacher speak about forgiveness few days back......and he said that we should forgive everyone that has hurt us in anyway......so that your father in heaven will also forgive you for what you have done...

forgetting

forgiveness

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melonsbrain There are some things from my childhood that have taken me years to forgive those who offended then. There are other times when it has taken me a couple days to forgive someone too. But I always forgive them, no matter how long it takes. The harder part for me...

26 Apr 09

God's way of work

gloriastax @gloriastax (97) • Indonesia 25 Apr 09

When we asking something to God, sometimes He would say "'Wait, not now'. And the in time we not guess, He will give us the best. This word really happen to me, what about you?

believe

christian

faith

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melonsbrain This happens to me a lot. There are many times when I want something, yet God will say "wait" or "not now". There are also other times when He says "no" because He has something else in store for me.

26 Apr 09

Is it soo difficult to be a christian??????

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 25 Apr 09

Well i feel that yes it is....the bible says "the road to heaven is very narrow" and specially in today's scenario things are really getting difficult.....when the bible was written we never had nuclear weapons, the internet, and...

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melonsbrain For those like myself, who have not been a Christian their whole lives, sometimes it is hard, because sometimes we want to go back to old ways and fill those 'simple' pleasures. However, with daily prayer (and throughout the day), daily reading of His Word,...

26 Apr 09

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Should we just break up?

speaktome23 @speaktome23 (18) • United States 25 Apr 09

I've been with this guy since my freshman year in high school, and we've been through everything together.I lost my [v] to him and I've cried to him, and told him I wanted to be with him forever. Complete vulnerability.He is on...

love

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melonsbrain It all comes down to trust. Do you really trust him? I mean completely trust him? Sure, we all hurt one another at times unintentionally. But do you trust him enough to know that he won't intentionally hurt you? If you can say "yes, I trust him", then don't...

26 Apr 09

How Is Your Day?It's 88 Degrees Here.

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 25 Apr 09

Today is April 25 and the temperature is 88 degrees, it is unbearable hot. I have not yet turned my AC on, I am very tempted to do so. I have my ceiling fan going and I have the windows up. There is a nice breeze blowing through...

the lazy day

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melonsbrain It's kind of gloomy here in Nebraska...cloudy and rainy all day...honestly...a good day to be sick if you are. Although, it's been nice listening to the birds chirp!

25 Apr 09

Would you forgive an ex who cheated?

smooch091784 @smooch091784 (973) • Philippines 25 Apr 09

I have forgiven my ex who have cheated on me for many times. It's better to let go of the hatred and the grudge than sticking at something that was already happened. It has always been forgive and learn but never really forget. We...

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melonsbrain Honesty is the basis of the relationship, therefore, if you do not have trust then what do you have? Yes, we are called to forgive (and forget), however, that does not mean that we are to trust that person again. I know with past relationships I have been in...

25 Apr 09

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What we can bring to a relationship.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 24 Apr 09

We have to be careful to avoid a mistake that many people make, that of forming a relationship based on what it looks like we can get, rather than what we can give. To do this is to start off on the wrong foot completely and to...

getting

mistake

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melonsbrain What a great topic!!!! That is exactly how I entered into my relationship...totally based on friendship. We actually never even thought about anything more than that until one day when we were talking. We were the closest of friends before dating which has...

24 Apr 09

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My friend's story

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 24 Apr 09

My friend told me yesterday that she went out with her husband and left her three boys - four and the 2 years old twins at home sleeping. She locked the door and put them into the master bedroom and went out to have supper with...

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melonsbrain I don't agree with what your friend did...at all. I would never leave my children at home alone...not at that young age. Goodness! As for your second friend, I personally wouldn't go clubbing after getting married. However, if I were to go on a date with my...

24 Apr 09