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AshwinSajith @AshwinSajith (602) • India 19 Dec 11

One of my close friends is in a real stae of shock because her long time boy friend cheated on her. What was worse was that it had been happening for a while and that too with a mutual friend? Now the final decision is hers and I...

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menzis00 I'm just glad that I took some time to think it out, I didn't react right away when I was mad as hell and it turned out great, better than I have expected. I guess being cold-headed is one of my positive sides, and it helped me a lot of times. Cheers to you to...

25 Dec 11

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 19 Dec 11

Have you decorated your Christmas tree yet? Tonight me, my husband, our daughter and my husbands cousin are going to decorate our Christmas tree. We are all looking forward to make it our own tree for the first time. I don't...

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menzis00 Yeah, real trees do cause some health issue for some people, especially if they're alergic to them or something like that. Well, we decorate it so it looks nice to us, we haven't even thought about buying a real one. I think my mother is also a bit ecological...

20 Dec 11

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 1 Dec 11

We are trying very hard to make this a great Christmas for our girls with everything that has happened this year they are pretty down. Our Six year old keeps asking any Santa she sees to send elves to our house so they can fix it...

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menzis00 Does this spinal cord hurt a lot when it gets extracted? Because I heard it does hurt a lot actually. But probably I'm going to do that to, it doesn't matter how much it hurts, if it can save someone's life or life of some of my friends or relatives I'll...

20 Dec 11

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 19 Dec 11

Have you decorated your Christmas tree yet? Tonight me, my husband, our daughter and my husbands cousin are going to decorate our Christmas tree. We are all looking forward to make it our own tree for the first time. I don't...

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menzis00 Well, to be true with you, real trees are a lot nicer than the fake ones, but we have a medium size tree so it doesn't take a lot of room for us, and real trees cost a lot here in my country, so fake tree also relieves us from some of the expenses in Christmas...

20 Dec 11

AshwinSajith @AshwinSajith (602) • India 19 Dec 11

One of my close friends is in a real stae of shock because her long time boy friend cheated on her. What was worse was that it had been happening for a while and that too with a mutual friend? Now the final decision is hers and I...

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menzis00 I think doing it this way is much more painful for the cheater. Also I hate when somebody is cheating on his partner. I mean seriously, was it so hard for her to just tell me it's over and then go with another guy? No, she had to cheat on me. Whatever, now my...

20 Dec 11

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 19 Dec 11

Have you decorated your Christmas tree yet? Tonight me, my husband, our daughter and my husbands cousin are going to decorate our Christmas tree. We are all looking forward to make it our own tree for the first time. I don't...

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menzis00 Well we live in a small flat so it's quite inappropriate and not natural for us to have a real tree, too much bugging around it, it's simplier like this, and the one we're having has a lot of years so it's like a part of the family for Christmas :)

20 Dec 11

moneywinner @moneywinner (1864) • Brazil 17 Dec 11

So, I heard this sentence many times that I'm starting to believing. A lot of persons already told me that you need to be married at least once in your life otherwise people will think that are something wrong with you, no matter...

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menzis00 I hope so.. of course I'm not marrying someone for who I think I can get bored with. It must be someone who is always full of surprises and good new ideas,at least for me..

20 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 18 Dec 11

So I've been doing some thinking about when would be the best time to have your first kid. I'm still very very young so for now I'm not even thinking about having one, but I was thinking when would be the perfect time to have...

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menzis00 I agree with that, if you aren't really mature in your head and totally sure you can handle it, then perhaps it's better not to have kids, otherwise you can only hurt them and they can be in pain and that can affect their whole life afterwards. But I would...

19 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 18 Dec 11

So I've been doing some thinking about when would be the best time to have your first kid. I'm still very very young so for now I'm not even thinking about having one, but I was thinking when would be the perfect time to have...

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menzis00 Welcome to MyLot! It doesn't matte what people say, if you're happy with your decision and if it has been such a long plan, then why not! I'm glad for you that you're happy and satisfied and that the things turned out the way you planned. I hope your kid will...

19 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 18 Dec 11

So I've been doing some thinking about when would be the best time to have your first kid. I'm still very very young so for now I'm not even thinking about having one, but I was thinking when would be the perfect time to have...

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menzis00 Yeah that's what I was thinking, I don't want to have kids unless I've at least a little secured my existence and settled my life a bit. I don't want it because the kids would then suffer, imagine I have a kid and then I lose my job and I can't raise him...

19 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 18 Dec 11

So I've been doing some thinking about when would be the best time to have your first kid. I'm still very very young so for now I'm not even thinking about having one, but I was thinking when would be the perfect time to have...

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menzis00 I'm really happy for your two talented daughters, you must be very proud. After all, who wouldn't if he had daughters like yours. Another reason in my opinion to not have children late is that you are just too old and weak to satisfy your children's needs. I...

19 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 18 Dec 11

So I've been doing some thinking about when would be the best time to have your first kid. I'm still very very young so for now I'm not even thinking about having one, but I was thinking when would be the perfect time to have...

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menzis00 Welcome to MyLot! It's not a bad thing to live yourself out a little before having kids, I doubt you will be able to travel after you have them, even if you do it won't be so good as without them. So you're making a good point here. Firstly going with your...

19 Dec 11

davaome @davaome (1826) • Philippines 30 Nov 11

i know it's a bit early but, I really love the holidays. Specially when i spend it at home and not working. As a seafarer or popularly called as a "seaman", I spend 8 to 10 months working on a ship traveling around the world....

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menzis00 You should definitely try it. Although I don't know how to skii very well, it's still fun, and I hope this year I'll learn to skii better :D

18 Dec 11

menzis00 @menzis00 (273) 16 Dec 11

Hello MyLotters! Are you an outgoing person, always happy and you shine with positive energy, or are you a person that is closed to yourself and you avoid talking with strangers, sometimes even people who you know? I know a...

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menzis00 I'm really glad for you, not a lot of people have this type of "courage" to approach other people first and start a conversation. It's nice to see there are sociable people in the world and I hope one day I will be much more sociable than I am today.

18 Dec 11

neelia_lyn @neelia_lyn (2003) • Philippines 10 Dec 11

There is an orphanage here in our place. Some students from different schools and people from different organizations give those children gifts and also donate to them goods and foods. It's just inspiring that aside from the...

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menzis00 Of course I will keep doing it. It's just sad that here where I live not a lot of people are involved in charity work, and the ones that are are usually older people, not students like me. It's sad that no one wants to help poor people and make them happy,...

17 Dec 11

Iemon1 @Iemon1 (123) • Singapore 4 Dec 11

Hello fellow myLotters, Have you ever met any friends who tried to backstab you? I have and it was a very traumatizing experience. Would you still want to befriend that person and give him a chance? Or would you ignore him...

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menzis00 True that, I gave him way too much chances, I see now he just isn't good for me to be my friend anymore, it's way better this way than to just constantly argue and have fights with him.. There are other better people than him :D

17 Dec 11

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