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Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 30 Sep 12

It is so fascinating to study human behaviour, in terms of learning psychology. The way of interrelating to other people, it reflects their own personalities: superiority or inferiority complex. Being a superior, they show their...

culture

fault finder

life

people

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muzicman_17 God says He will judge us with the same measure we use to judge others so we should be slow to judge others and quick to pay attention to our own faults.

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Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 30 Sep 12

It is so fascinating to study human behaviour, in terms of learning psychology. The way of interrelating to other people, it reflects their own personalities: superiority or inferiority complex. Being a superior, they show their...

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muzicman_17 This is true..I just believe truth is truth. It transcends religion, culture and tradition. If the sun comes out in the morning there is no Eastern way of seeing the sun or Hindu way of seeing it or christian way of seeing it. It is because it is..whether I...

4 Oct 12

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aliahnicole69 @aliahnicole69 (231) • Philippines 2 Oct 12

Do you believe that couples who find each other irresistible during the early years of marriage may become incompatible if they fail to meet their needs?

needs

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muzicman_17 If my focus is only on me I shouldnt be in a relationship to begin with because a relationship means you put others ahead of yourself. You cant be totally independent and with someone. That is an oxy moron.

4 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

If you've noticed something from a certain person, do you easily jump into conclusion? It was like convicting someone without justifying oneself. The due process was not rendered yet, but the conviction was laid without knowing...

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muzicman_17 Judging using the standard of God is not wrong. It's when I use MY standard that I can 'move the goalpost' so-to-speak whenever I choose. And I'll always make myself come out looking better,smarter, holier than another. God will judge this person with the...

4 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

If you've noticed something from a certain person, do you easily jump into conclusion? It was like convicting someone without justifying oneself. The due process was not rendered yet, but the conviction was laid without knowing...

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muzicman_17 While all judging is not wrong..such as saying what is right and wrong,good or bad(God as the standard and not MY rules)..the problem comes with our approach. Jesus got upset,but He wasnt a bully. We must not only take the example but the attitude and approach...

4 Oct 12

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 20 Sep 12

Saying 'life begins at conception' is like saying 'murder begins at the gun-factory,' and that shows you what I really think. Just as murder doesn't begin until someone decides to commit murder, life doesn't begin until...

decision

when life begins

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muzicman_17 Life is about choices....unless you are the one being conceived. Seems to me somebody made a choice to have you and me..and didn't ask us for our views on it before it happened. I'm sorry this seems to offend you.

3 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

For some reasons, I felt awkward telling the truth to someone about how is he going to change for a better person. Take note, it was done in a constructive way. But still, they take it negatively. This is one of my buddy's...

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muzicman_17 A stronghold becomes a vicious cycle of loneliness, desire for that thing, thoughts about it, rationalization, do it, guilt for doing it, depression, shame, trying to be better for a while, feel good..thoughts reoccur,depression and loneliness, struggling with...

3 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

For some reasons, I felt awkward telling the truth to someone about how is he going to change for a better person. Take note, it was done in a constructive way. But still, they take it negatively. This is one of my buddy's...

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muzicman_17 The toughest thing to deal with when confrontation becomes necessary, is that even if we do everything right..we prayed, considered our own faults and are dealing with them we confront in an inviting and non combative tone and are ready to forgive.., that some...

3 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

For some reasons, I felt awkward telling the truth to someone about how is he going to change for a better person. Take note, it was done in a constructive way. But still, they take it negatively. This is one of my buddy's...

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muzicman_17 Blessings Shavkat. You did what a friend who loves must do. Sometimes we know a person is struggling with something for a long time before we confront them in love with something. Which is proof of our love. It is wise to take that time to slow down and try to...

3 Oct 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

If you've noticed something from a certain person, do you easily jump into conclusion? It was like convicting someone without justifying oneself. The due process was not rendered yet, but the conviction was laid without knowing...

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muzicman_17 If we used the same standard onourselves that we use on others I think we would be slow to accuse let alone convict because we would see that we are using a 'relative comparison'. I can always make myself more loving, more kind, more caring, much smarter, much...

3 Oct 12

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