muzicman_17

@muzicman_17 (58)

United States • Age 53

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Relationships and sacrifices

Ivy_Bubbles @Ivy_Bubbles (169) 5 Oct 12

My boyfriend and I were never apart for more than 20 days since we became an item 3 years ago. We make it a point to live in the same area so we can at least see each other once a week. He even moved to another company where he...

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muzicman_17 If you both are wanting this to work and you know that you are meant to be together it will work. If you stop working at it it will start to fade. Like anything,you feed what you want to live..and starve what you want to die. God Bless you

6 Oct 12

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Are you a fault finder?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 30 Sep 12

It is so fascinating to study human behaviour, in terms of learning psychology. The way of interrelating to other people, it reflects their own personalities: superiority or inferiority complex. Being a superior, they show their...

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muzicman_17 God says He will judge us with the same measure we use to judge others so we should be slow to judge others and quick to pay attention to our own faults.

4 Oct 12

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Are you a fault finder?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 30 Sep 12

It is so fascinating to study human behaviour, in terms of learning psychology. The way of interrelating to other people, it reflects their own personalities: superiority or inferiority complex. Being a superior, they show their...

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muzicman_17 This is true..I just believe truth is truth. It transcends religion, culture and tradition. If the sun comes out in the morning there is no Eastern way of seeing the sun or Hindu way of seeing it or christian way of seeing it. It is because it is..whether I...

4 Oct 12

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What is true friends.

nitishanigam @nitishanigam (319) • India 19 Aug 10

I have not friends because i am not intrested made in friends, i feel that all people are selfish so i am feel very alone. what's your view.

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muzicman_17 Consider being what you look for and it will be hard to not gain friends. Work on you and ask yourself what it is about you that you cant make or dont want friends. Are we too critical? Too judgmental? Could I be my own worst enemy? some who want friends cant...

4 Oct 12

The perfect wife/husband

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 2 Oct 12

Do you remember the film Stepford Wives in which the men made robots that looked exactly like their wives but were created to please their husbands in every way? When the robot was ready they killed the 'original' wife and the...

the perfect partner

the perfect wife

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muzicman_17 If we are serving one another in a relationship then this is what God wants. When I am being selfish I dont want to serve anyone but myself. If I am a self serving person, I should be by myself.

4 Oct 12

His needs, Her needs

aliahnicole69 @aliahnicole69 (231) • Philippines 2 Oct 12

Do you believe that couples who find each other irresistible during the early years of marriage may become incompatible if they fail to meet their needs?

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muzicman_17 If my focus is only on me I shouldnt be in a relationship to begin with because a relationship means you put others ahead of yourself. You cant be totally independent and with someone. That is an oxy moron.

4 Oct 12

How judgemental person are you?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

If you've noticed something from a certain person, do you easily jump into conclusion? It was like convicting someone without justifying oneself. The due process was not rendered yet, but the conviction was laid without knowing...

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muzicman_17 Judging using the standard of God is not wrong. It's when I use MY standard that I can 'move the goalpost' so-to-speak whenever I choose. And I'll always make myself come out looking better,smarter, holier than another. God will judge this person with the...

4 Oct 12

How judgemental person are you?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

If you've noticed something from a certain person, do you easily jump into conclusion? It was like convicting someone without justifying oneself. The due process was not rendered yet, but the conviction was laid without knowing...

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muzicman_17 While all judging is not wrong..such as saying what is right and wrong,good or bad(God as the standard and not MY rules)..the problem comes with our approach. Jesus got upset,but He wasnt a bully. We must not only take the example but the attitude and approach...

4 Oct 12

I DO NOT Agree with the Life-Begins-at-Conception Crowd: How Wrong Are They?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 20 Sep 12

Saying 'life begins at conception' is like saying 'murder begins at the gun-factory,' and that shows you what I really think. Just as murder doesn't begin until someone decides to commit murder, life doesn't begin until...

when life begins

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muzicman_17 Life is about choices....unless you are the one being conceived. Seems to me somebody made a choice to have you and me..and didn't ask us for our views on it before it happened. I'm sorry this seems to offend you.

3 Oct 12

Can we climb for GOLD without conscience?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

I don't generalize this kind of discussion, since it applies only for some people. The idealistic way to be in well-off situation is to have short cuts in their lives. To illustrate further, it is commonly seen for some well-known...

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muzicman_17 Hopefully we arent making presuppositions about people. We all know what its like to be judged and not have the whole picture. We see snapshots of peoples lives and make assumptions. I have done this before and needed to ask for forgiveness. But if we know a...

3 Oct 12

Reality Bites Oneself?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139167) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

For some reasons, I felt awkward telling the truth to someone about how is he going to change for a better person. Take note, it was done in a constructive way. But still, they take it negatively. This is one of my buddy's...

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muzicman_17 A stronghold becomes a vicious cycle of loneliness, desire for that thing, thoughts about it, rationalization, do it, guilt for doing it, depression, shame, trying to be better for a while, feel good..thoughts reoccur,depression and loneliness, struggling with...

3 Oct 12