nextellady

@nextellady (126)

United States • Age 50

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Old fashion or right thing to do????

shona264 @shona264 (167) • India 18 Nov 09

Men asking their girlfriends dad permission before proposing is: old fashioned or right thing to do? I think its right thing to do. What do you think?

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nextellady I think it used to be something that was required now I think it is just a nice and respectful thing to do. Depends on the family these days!

19 Nov 09

White loes,my lover,u can accept it ?

Pingfanderen11 @Pingfanderen11 (222) • China 18 Nov 09

when u asked me why leave u,i told u that our love is end beacuse that i don't love u....... in fact,i have been loving u all the times.however,i find that i am poor and can't give u the happiness,in order to do that,i must...

because of loving

white lie

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nextellady White lies - I know exactly what you mean! Everyday for 2 1/2 years I tell everyone in my world I am fine, I show that I am fine, I pretend very well to be fine. I carry on my daily events and function as normal, truth be known - Inside my soul - my heart is...

19 Nov 09

what should i do about my scheming step-daughter?

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 18 Nov 09

i have been married to my husband for a little over 2 year now. i have our daughter and also my husband's daughter with his ex wife. there is no pleasant way to explain my problem. before i ever met ann for the first time, my...

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nextellady My husbands daughter is only 5 and she plays the game between us too. But we got her game under control by getting ourselves on the same page! When I say no he backs me up or if he says no I will back him and if we have differences about it we will wait till...

18 Nov 09

Why do people refer to GOD as a HE?

tambrerocks @tambrerocks (123) • United States 7 Nov 09

I have found that when people talk about GOD they always follow it up with He is this or that. Why is GOD referred to as a HE? Why not a SHE or an IT? What do you think GOD is exactly? Why do you think that?

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nextellady never gave much thought to it really I always thought of God as he because the bible speaks that when he made adam he made him in his image. I truely do think of god in the spirit figure though. Lets hope we all find the answers to all of our questions one day...

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Where do you see God?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 11 Nov 09

We all have such different concepts of God and I was thinking that it might be a good idea if we were to give our ideas, without judgement in any way. Do you think we can do that? I will start by saying that I don't think of God...

kindness

love

patience

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nextellady God is so good, I can see him in my children in the trees and the ocean the moon and the starts I see him in me! Praise God

14 Nov 09

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Please Send Some Prayers Your Way....Dealing With More Red-tape From SSA

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 14 Nov 09

Okay haven't been exactly active anywhere, especially not yesterday or today and here's the reason why. Yesterday, November 13th I got a letter from Social Security since they need to discuss if I'm still eligible for SSI...

more crap to deal with

ssa

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nextellady prayers are on the way - and dont worry so much, no matter how much you worry you can never change the situation! Pray Pray and Pray. God will take care of you. Put your faith and trust in him and give him your burdens he will be you attorney! Heavenly...

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Do You Make Your Cake From Scratch Or Make It From A Box?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 14 Nov 09

I'm planning on having a birthday party for my son's 3rd birthday next weekend although his birthday is on Monday, so I'm going to make him a cake myself to eat on his birthday. I like making a cake from a box because I know I...

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nextellady ahh funny question, I just took a homemade carrot cake out of the over. I have to say no box cake can compare when it comes to carrot cake lol! But when Im baking just a regular cake I always use the box so I guess it just depends on what kind your making. I...

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Do You Like To Wrap Your Own Gifts Or Have Someone Else Do It??

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 14 Nov 09

Today I wrapped my son's birthday presents. He will be 3 years old on Monday. I am so excited! I enjoy wrapping my children's birthday presents and even their Christmas presents because it makes me feel like I'm...

gifts

presents

wrapping

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nextellady yes i like to do it myself also, i think it goes with the holiday spirit and is half the fun of the whole thing. having them wrapped is very boring to me and actually cuts out my happy spirit!

14 Nov 09

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What would you do?

chinthit @chinthit (70) • United States 13 Nov 09

What would you do if you saw a neighbor abusing his or her child? Lets say that the mother and child (toddler age) are outside in the front yard, and the mother is taking a stick to the child and beating her. You see the mother is...

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nextellady I would probally ask her to stop and I would call police. No child exspecially toddler age deserves to be hit with a stick. I have 2 children and I can not even imagine doing that to one of my kids

13 Nov 09

Do you think age matters in a relationship?

shhheila @shhheila (1845) • Philippines 12 Nov 09

Do you think age matters in a relationship, especially if its the girl that is older??? what u think?

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nextellady i am 7 yrs older than my husband. We get along better than anyone else older or younger I have ever been with. Honestly I dont think age matters any more than anything else it just all comes down to how you feel about each other

12 Nov 09

Another Attack on Smokers

Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 12 Nov 09

I have just seen a Discussion again having a go at the Smokers, they reckon it should be banned all together , they also asked what do Smokers get out of Smoking I did not respond as I did not want to get horrible, but let me say...

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nextellady I am a smoker, I have tried to quit and will succeed one time or another Im sure. But I agree and with all the tax they charge on cigs people should think of what they would lose if it was banned. And what gets me is you can not advertise smoking on bill...

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Do you think you could truly forgive people...?

Link @BambooPanda13 (867) • United States 12 Nov 09

I love everyone as much as I can on this planet. Not like "Oh I love you all!" But I feel that connection that I am a human and you are a human, and me and animals are both living creatures living on this planet and there has to...

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nextellady forgiveness wow thats a tuff one, ya know the bible says if we can not forgive each other how can we expect God to forgive us. And we all do bad things. Some worse than others ofcourse! But forgiveness is not for the person who did wrong its really for the one...

12 Nov 09

Do you celebrate Christmas?

itsmauricecassidy @itsmauricecassidy (298) 12 Nov 09

Due to some religions, not everyone seems to be celebrating Christmas... whether what religion you are - I celebrate christmas every year with wrapped up presents and a christmas dinner along with the christmas tree ofcourse. It's...

christmas religion life people

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nextellady I love the holidays in all! When fall comes and we approach thanksgiving i think people become nicer lol! They show love more frequent and compassion and are more giving than any other time of year and thats why I so love the holidays. My family does celebrate...

12 Nov 09

Do you miss someone very much in your life?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 12 Nov 09

We often miss someone in our life, because we once met some people who were very kind of us, and when we left them, we often miss them. me too. I often miss those people who were very kind of me, and supplied their help to me when...

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nextellady I miss my daddy - he died 2 yrs ago and he was the greatest man I have ever known. He was kind and loving he loved me no matter what! He was my someone I could talk to no matter what I just cant even explain what a loss I felt when he was gone. And Im not sure...

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Is it wrong to post funeral pictures on Facebook?

PSmith721 @PSmith721 (286) • United States 12 Nov 09

My Father died on the 29th of October. We just buried him on the 4th. My eldest daughter just posted "funeral pictures" on Facebook yesterday. This is very disturbing to me that someone would put these pictures on the internet at...

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nextellady I am sorry to hear of your lose, I lost my dad to a couple of years ago and I was the biggest Daddys girl! Its still very hard. Every peson is so dif on this picture matter. I found that some people get really offended if anyone even takes pictures and others...

12 Nov 09

A crap of a night (Nov 9 09)

gfike01 @gfike01 (26) • United States 9 Nov 09

Last night I found out from my wife, online, that she is dating this guy she is living with. We were kicked out of our place and had to move to two different locations about 4 hours away from each other. We have two children...

marriage cheating

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nextellady Sooo sorry that happened to you, I am married now to my 3rd husband and Thank God we love each other and we both love God and that keeps us strong. But I can tell you from experiance marraige is hard. The first 2 darn near broke me from feeling love twards a...

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