phobeea

@phobeea (52)

Indonesia • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

All Activity

Responses (36)

phobeea's Responses

Which one do you prefer. Being Single or Married.

homeshoppers @homeshoppers (6166) • Philippines 1 Aug 09

I know would say Being single.. coz you have your own time and you are free to do and go everywhere you want.. Your money is only for you.. No need to think about your kids wife or husband.. and yes i love to be single, but...

life

9 responses

phobeea Being married :) I was afraid of marriage. But when I finally got married, I knew I made correct decision. I'm even happier than before :)

3 Aug 09

Have you given yourself a GIFT in your BIRTHDAY?

Angelo Abuda @aabuda (1722) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

Hi, I just would like to ask you guys if you have already given yourself a gift during your birthdays? Or are you still planning to? I myself, is already saving money from my online entry jobs. I am actually planning to give...

gift

11 responses •

2 people

phobeea Hm.. never did that. But that sounds interesting. hee hee.... I'm thinking of something. I always want a NIKON DSLR camera, I think that will be a nice gift for myself :) (anyway... that pic of motorola phone looks just like mine, but never saw in silver...

3 Aug 09

remembering birthday and anniversary.

chi2nasrin @chi2nasrin (1101) • Malaysia 10 Jul 09

Do you expect your spouse or partner to remember dates of your birthday and anniversary?? If they don't how will you feel?? Do you yourself remember your loved ones' birthday or any important dates?

anniversary

birthday

7 responses •

1 person

phobeea Sure, I wish he remembers. But what happened? He forgot my birthday, once, he usually is the one who greets me for the first time before anyone else does. That day he forgot until lunch, he suddenly remembered and greeted me. And I was the one who forgot our...

3 Aug 09

•

1 comment

My BF committed a mortal sin!!!

Theresaaiza @Theresaaiza (10487) • Australia 3 Aug 09

He forgot our anniversary. Two weeks have actually passed since our anniversary, and yet, I still feel so upset. According to him, he got so busy with work that he forgot all about it and in fairness to him,he...

anniversary

24 responses •

5 people

phobeea In my case, "I" was the one who forgot our anniversary. My BF (Now my husband) set a wallpaper in my computer in the evening after he's back from work said "Happy 5th anniversary". Then what happened. Those words didn't even ring a bell. I even asked him...

3 Aug 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Which country do you want to visit so badly?

ayameyokomi @ayameyokomi (638) • Philippines 19 May 09

The title says it all. Which country have you always wanted to pay a visit? I live in the Philippines and the country I've wanted to visit so badly are Taiwan and China. I want to visit those countries because my idols live...

49 responses •

5 people

phobeea Too many to mention :)) UK, Egypt, Jordan, Greece, many more. Each country has their culture, beautiful buildings, beautiful scenery.

3 Aug 09

Do you remember your 1st grade teacher?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 3 Aug 09

here in the D.C. area there are ads that say " She will always know her first grade teacher." It is a way to get more people to go into teaching. It got me thinking , do any of you remember your 1st grade teacher? I do. I went to...

38 responses •

6 people

phobeea Yes I do. Her name is Ms.Josephine. I still meet her sometimes, and of course she remembers me too :)

3 Aug 09

•

1 person

have you ever felt like you need a vaccation

psychotaz206 @psychotaz206 (2086) • United States 23 Jul 09

have you ever felt like you need to get away from everything even for just a little while , i can't wait until next month because we are supose to go on a vaccation i am so glad because i need to get away for awhile has any one...

7 responses •

2 people

phobeea I need it badly. I need to get away from this job and this crowded city for a while. We are planning a week vacation on November, already bought airplane tickets, yippie!!

3 Aug 09

Would you go for a new job that pays a lower salary?

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 26 Jul 09

To those who are currently working, would you go for a new job that pays you a lower salary? I did that once - in fact, it was a risk as I didn't know what to expect in the new company though the job specifications are similar....

job

lower salary

50 responses •

5 people

phobeea I've been working in a very crowded city. I love my job, but DO hate the city, the traffic is really really bad. I don't think it is effective to work in this city. I'm thinking of moving to my homeland, a countryside, where the standard of salary is way much...

3 Aug 09

•

1 comment

Do you shampoo your hair daily,weekly, how often? Do you always use the same?

xio shi @simonelee (2715) • China 1 Aug 09

Hi guys! I come up with this topic because I would like to know how individual from different side of the world how often they shampoo their hair and do they always use the same brand? I believe, it really depends on individual's...

19 responses •

1 person

phobeea I wash my hair everyday. I'll get headache if I skip one day, I don't know why. And the shampoo has been the same brands and type for almost 10 years now, never have problem with that :) except in case of urgency, I have to stay overnight somewhere and forgot...

2 Aug 09

resigning.

TheManager24 @TheManager24 (1302) • Philippines 29 May 09

This is the first time I ever thought about resigning. I was offered by another company a position I can not seem to resist - more responsibilities. The pay is almost the same. The nature of the job is the same. However, I...

leaving work

resignation

4 responses

phobeea I resigned from my previous job because of a better offering. I didn't search for new job but suddenly I was offered for a better one, better position, better salary, etc. I didn't love my previous job actually, but however, leaving the previous office was not...

2 Aug 09

•

1 comment

Fish, anyone? Grill, Fried or Steam? If not , what is your favourite dish?

Iriene88 @Iriene88 (5343) • Malaysia 2 Aug 09

Dear friends, Fish is well known for its nutritional benefits. It is the healthier meat... So do you prefer it to be grilled, deep fried or steam? If you do not like fish, what is your favourite dish? Do share your...

culture

fish

gastronomy

28 responses •

4 people

phobeea I love fish... much better than any meat. I like it to be fried and grilled. I also love sashimi and sushi, I mean... RAW fish :)yummy... But so far I never prepare sashimi or sushi by myself.

2 Aug 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Since H1N1, do you reduce to go to public ?????

busky5 @busky5 (3164) • Thailand 1 Aug 09

In my country, i can see the different way.Since H1N1, i saw the people reduceed to walk in the deparmentstores and theatres.For me i reduce to walk in the public too.Then since H1N1, do you reduce to go to public...

healthy

3 responses

phobeea I would if I could. I work in a shopping mall, so I don't think I can reduce to go to public :)

1 Aug 09

•

1 person

Would you prefer to have a baby Boy or a baby Girl, why?

homeshoppers @homeshoppers (6166) • Philippines 1 Aug 09

if god allowed me to do so... i will prefer to have a baby girl coz i love to dress her up... though it doesnt really matter if its a boy or a girl since they are gift from god..

family

3 responses

phobeea Boy... because in my family the numbers of girls are more than the boys, so we need more boys, hehe...

1 Aug 09

Do you thinking about your office work at home or in holiday?

Zhizho @Zhizho (1350) • Indonesia 1 Aug 09

Hi there..There are many people who do their office work at home and they sacrifice time for their family.Such as week end.I think,it's time to family.Playing with kids and just relax.Don't think about office work.How about you...

3 responses

phobeea Hi there. It's a nice topic of discussion since my and my husband also care about this so much. I think : It depends on the urgency of the work you do. Of course everyone would like to relax and spend quality time with family. But they have responsibility to...

1 Aug 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

What is your phobia?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 24 Jul 09

Some people fear of heights. Some fear of snakes. Some fear of crowds, lifts, flights,diseases,staying alone, Sea....... What is your worst phobia?

phobia

13 responses •

1 person

phobeea I am so scared of clowns.

1 Aug 09

How do you used to study for exams?

sathish2018 @sathish2018 (575) • India 1 Aug 09

In expereince i used study near exams may be day before the exam day, i used follow that method beacause i only get mood in study on that particular day, it was hard to manage to durning study day before the exam i still managed...

exams

20 responses •

5 people

phobeea prepared the exam material few days before exam, and concentrated studying one day before exam. And not less important is to have enough sleep before the exam. Studied until late at night was not effective and didn't help if I was sleepy in the exam day.

1 Aug 09

Would you like to have a baby?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 1 Aug 09

Would you like to have a baby or is your family complete? I have a five week old daughter and she delights me. I feel very lucky to have her. I have a fourteen year old son and a two year old son as well. My sister has a...

baby

child

family

30 responses •

6 people

phobeea Complete for now :) Just me and my husband. Both of us are busy, go to office early and get home at 8.00PM every day. I couldn't imagine if we had a baby, who will take care of the baby? My mother in-law says she can help us taking care of the baby, but.. even...

1 Aug 09