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kristypants @kristypants (305) • Canada 19 Dec 06

I got in a fight with my mother-in-law earlier. She was telling me that I'd better have another soon so that my daughter doesn't grow up an only child. She says that only children turn out spoiled, self centered, bratty, and...

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pillowgirl I have seen people spoil their whole family of 6. It's not about being an only child, but about how you raise them. I have one child, she is my only and always will be. I am able to give her more than if I had more kids, but that's by choice.

19 Dec 06

Steve Helmer @srhelmer (7029) • Beaver Dam, Wisconsin 19 Dec 06

I pose this question because last night I actually watched the closing minutes of Monday Night Raw. To describe, two wrestlers were viciously attacking two other wrestlers after a match with steel chairs, bashing their heads with...

pro wrestling

wrestling

wwe

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pillowgirl I think this would be different for every child and every parent. Personally, I have a 2 year old girl. My husband is a big fan of WWE, but when she gets old enough to understand what it is to hurt other people, she may not be mature enough to watch it. I...

19 Dec 06

sarahlee13 @sarahlee13 (878) • United States 18 Dec 06

Now heres the details. My daughter joined a troop back in September. At the time the leader didn't have a co-leader because she only had a few girls. My daughter offered me up as a co-leader any ways and at the time I had said...

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pillowgirl Perhaps you should use this opportunity to be the coleader with some conditions, for example, you have between now and February to prepare, right? Tell the leader that you are happy to help, even eager, but would like some of the training that will help you...

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trenea7 @trenea7 (86) • United States 13 Dec 06

I sometimes wish I could go back to work. I want to use my brain. I just want to use a pencil and have adult conversation. Sometimes I get so tired of cleaning, doing laundry, coloring and playing make believe (I always get...

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pillowgirl At one point when my daughter was 1 year old, I was laid off of a job and given 14 weeks paid time and then 21 weeks of unemployment. I decided to take my daughter out of day care and be a stay-at-home mom for a few months. I thought this would be a rewarding...

13 Dec 06

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 17 Nov 06

Today was my first day as a bell ringer for the Salvation Army. It really wasn't bad, except for that I felt like I was annoying people. A lot of ppl gave me awful looks, and a lot of ppl turned up their noses at me. How do you...

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pillowgirl I consider the Salvation Army bell-ringers to be an essential part of the holiday season. Especially since I have a child. We spend so much time at Christmas time worried about "What so and so wants" and "How will I make sure I can get that barbie my daughter...

10 Dec 06

venshida @venshida (4836) • United States 10 Dec 06

My son was having problems in kindergarten. The teacher stated he does not sit still, and thinks he might have ADD. This issue escalated to the principal who felt the same way. We visited a children psychologist, and his...

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pillowgirl ADD is a plague to many in my family. I don't believe it is made up, because I have seen its effects first-hand and in my brother, mother, and others in my family. I believe that many teachers and doctors use ADD as a blanket diagnosis when they can't...

10 Dec 06

Argonaut @Argonaut (260) • United States 10 Dec 06

Do you believe in it? Do we go straight to heaven or hell, or do we keep coming back for another chance? Do we come back only as humans, or do we come back also as animals?

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pillowgirl Does this help you to live your life to its fullest, since you only get one go at it? What do you base your decisions of right or wrong on? If there is no heaven or hell, there is no reward or consequence, so why not do random acts of chaos? Murder a total...

10 Dec 06

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pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

custody

divorce

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pillowgirl I can tell that you have a very different culture than mine. In my culture, wives should be treated as equals and being married isn't a duty. It is more a gift that two people give to each other. What kind of gift is it to marry a woman, then treat her like...

10 Dec 06

pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 29 Nov 06

Do you rate people's posts here or just roam through the site without giving thoughts to rating? If you start a discussion, do you pick the best response? I do...

best responses

rating

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pillowgirl I like to rate them too. I think that people who actually put thought into their posts ought to be rewarded and it is my little way of contributing to that idea.

8 Dec 06

dropkickkennedy @dropkickkennedy (2122) • Australia 8 Dec 06

Last night me and my footy team went out to a resturant , the service was terrible. Took them 2hours to get our food . food was supposed to all come out together, which it didnt and the staff treating us poorly. we managed to get...

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pillowgirl I used to date a guy who had a unique view of how to handle service at a restaurant. When we would go to Denny's, he would introduce himself to our watress and take out a stack of 10 dollar bills. (Remember this is just for the two of us to go out to a small...

8 Dec 06

pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

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pillowgirl Is this a lame attempt to get credit for posting without actually contributing to the conversation? Correct me if I am wrong. Please.

8 Dec 06

pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

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pillowgirl Was there a point to this response? Pardon my bluntness but I sure wish there were a way for me to delete responses that are not conducive to a discussion.

8 Dec 06

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 7 Apr 07

I heard on CNN today that it is believed that melamine was intentionally put in the wheat glutin that was in the pet foods that have killed or sickened many pets.It is believed that the plastic derivative was put in the glutin to...

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pillowgirl I heard on CNN today that it is believed that melamine was intentionally put in the wheat glutin that was in the pet foods that have killed or sickened many pets.It is believed that the plastic derivative was put in the glutin to make it look like the protein...

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agwbabycakes @agwbabycakes (188) • Canada 7 Apr 07

When my son was born I made the mistake of letting him sleep with me ever since it has been a constant battle to get my bed back he is almost 4 now. We are at the point he will go to bed in his own bed but he wakes up in the...

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pillowgirl When my son was born I made the mistake of letting him sleep with me ever since it has been a constant battle to get my bed back he is almost 4 now. We are at the point he will go to bed in his own bed but he wakes up in the middle of the night and sneeks into...

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pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

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pillowgirl My husband's drug problem is not the problem. My husband is only tolerable when he HAS the drugs, and when he runs out he becomes abusive. He brings up tings that I did 4 years ago that I cannot change and twists things around to make it out that I am the...

8 Dec 06

pranay7 @pranay7 (1657) • India 3 Dec 06

Is your hobby helping you to earn money?

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pillowgirl I earn a little money from my scrapbooking blog. It's at http://pillowgirlscraps.blogspot.com and people donate money to me via paypal... I am a digital scrapbooker. I take photos of my daughter and add different elements to them like backgrounds and such...

3 Dec 06

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silkkat @silkkat (231) • Canada 3 Dec 06

I have a friend that only calls when she needs something yet never answers the phone if I try calling her. She then asks if I don't like her. I don't want to be rude and say that I don't. The other problem is my husband is her...

friends

users

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pillowgirl I would tell her something like this, "I like you, but I don't like that you aren't there for me when I need you. It seems like you only call me when you need something, not just to be my friend." Don't make it about her as a person, but about her behaviors....

3 Dec 06

pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

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pillowgirl It's not about the pot. Personally I don't care about the pot near as much as I hate the things he says to me and how he likes to keep me crying and feeling bad about myself. He wants the impossible, wants a perfect housewife to take care of everything and...

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pillowgirl @pillowgirl (89) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am married to a man who is ten years older than me. We met online, and spent a lot of time getting to know each other. Then, he moved 2000 miles to live with me. We lived together 3 years before I found out I was pregnant. At...

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pillowgirl I shouldn't need to go to any women's shelters. He lives with me in mother's house. It's just that I worry that if I try to do anything about this, he is going to take my daughter and leave and I am not sure how to prevent that from happening. He keeps...

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SONALIKA @SONALIKA (573) • India 1 Dec 06

i don't understand how can somebody ask for a divorce from the personwith whom one is so much in love to get committed for whole life . can any one explain ht to me?

hate

love

misunderstandings

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pillowgirl I am trying to figure out how to GET a divorce right now. There are so manyt hings that you learn about a person as they go through different stages of life. For example, my husband chose to start doing a drug that has made him into a different person...

3 Dec 06

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