Judging someone by the car they drive.

I wouldnt want to even date someone who just looked at me because of what I drive....What kind of person would that be? They probably would want you to keep buying more and more exspensive cars....and then you would be broke and they would go off with someone who flashed money in their faces. Its just a game , some people play....

I think that is totally silly to say that girls look for guys by the cars they drive..If this was the case..such girls would find it hard to commit even with a guy who drove a ferrari!

Sadly, there are girls who are like that...and they give all females a bad name! If the type of car you drive is what decides for a girl whether she wants you or not, than she isn't worth having! Be glad that you were able to ward her off with the 'wrong' car...she would have been very shallow between the ears and have very deep pockets!

I think you may be misunderstanding what your coworker was saying. Usually you think that when someone is driving a hatch back they are committed to family, wife, and dog. The perception of hatch backs, SUV's, Etc, usually bring to mind that the person probably got the car for room for the family. Same thing if you were wearing a ring on your finger, women usually aren't going to approach you as they figure you are committed to someone. Maybe the ring is a little more exagerated, but I think you get my point.

I don't care what kind of car someone drives. They might be borrowing a car, or saving money for a new car. You never know the circumstance. They may have more important things in mind besides what kind of car they drive. You are right about people who judge others based on material things as being gold diggers and materialistic. Who wants someone who only goes for guys in nice sports cars or who have the biggest houses?

Dont judge a person by his appearance, the appearance incoluding clothes, a car, or a house and so on. Taste is not only for looking ,but also for thinking . And our teacher told us not all gold blinks. So you are the special.

She is probably just jealous that she isn't driving a new car. I would just ignore her. A car is a car, the main thing is it runs, has a steering wheel, tires, gas stuff like that.

Yeah, that is exactly how I would put it. I don't think judging a person by the car they drive is never a good idea in my opinion.

It's funny how people tend to categorize others by the job they have, the clothes they wear, the house they live in or the car they drive. We are all guilty of it once in awhile. I tend to judge people if they go overboard on the flashy. As an example, our pastor leases a new car every couple of years. It's just something he likes to do. One year he showed up in a gold edition car...can't even remember what kind of car. But it had gold accessories and gold on the hub cabs and in various places...it had the appearance of being really tacky. It didn't take long for him to replace it. He probably got a lot of flak about it. I think we should all grow up and be comfortable in who and what we are and comfortable in the choices we make...so congratulations on your new car! And just enjoy it!

I agree with you,for if we have some frens who loves us by our social status then somethings needs to be questioned about there love and whatsoever the case. There are certain people who have the the habit of getting addicted to cars, bikes or other electronic stuffs so, such kind of people are different but your friends are rude and don't trust girls who love cars. They will ruin you, anyway hope u doing fine. Good luck take care

Boy not only do you have a nice car but you have lots of brains too. I remember when you got your car. Look up the picture I remember leaving a comment then about a month or so ago. I'm normally not a big blue color person for houses or vehicles but it's a beautiful blue color. You're right all the way hon if it's the car that attracts then forget that noise. I told my daughter and she has told me back it is true one very important thing a girl should be looking for is watch the way he treats his mother. That to me is far more important than what he drives or how deep his pockets are. There's nothing wrong with your little car I think it was a good choice for you and it is one of your favorite colors even. Drive with pride my dear and the right lady will come along one day. Best Wishes my friend.

I agree with you. I have been interested in guys that haven't had fancy cars. I wold have put that woman in her place! If a woman only goes for guys with big fancy cars,she isn't much of a person!and you are right.they are materialistic and gold diggers

I think it isn't fair for people to judge others by what they drive or don't drive. I think your car is cute. Sure it's probably not a babe magnet like a Corvette or Porsche is, but who cares? Girls like that are not worth your time and would only break your heart. When I met my husband he didn't even have a car so that goes to show you I'm one of those girls who is not materialistic. :)

wonder what do they think of the guy who drives the 'crawler' that carries the space shuttle to its launching pad? bet you they'll salivate and throw themselves at the person's feet!

i totally agree with you... women who judge men by their car are very materialistic and are not worth to be with... they are only after your money... i am a woman as well but i can say this because i know many women who are like that... the scarier part is they actually say it out and ask from the men for money and stuffs... it is so sad...

I think the high school kids are the ones that really judge a person by their car. And I agree with you that if someone does judge you by the kind of car you drive, then you don't need them in your life. They need to know the person. I have to laugh, my boyfriends dad is about 65 and he has this really sporty type candy apple red car. Our truck broke down and he lent us his car. So I joked with my boyfriend that he might be able to pick up some hot babes with that car. He hated that car. After driving the truck for so long, he said he felt like he was driving a skateboard on big wheels.lol.

Don't listen to your co-worker. She sounds a little materialistic to me. Not all girls are like that. There are those who go for the heart, personality and character. I think having a hatchback is very practical. So, you should definitely continue driving what you're driving regardless of what people say or think.

Hello kgwat70, You are right. Only materialistic and gold diggers will judge people by that. I don't think it is right to judge how wealthy or poor the person is based on the car that he drives. I know a few friends who has 'no money' but drive nice cars and some who really has money but drive just a 'normal' car that you won't glance more than once!

I certainly have never judged a guy by the type of car he drives. He can ride a push bike for all i care. It's the guy i like, not the car.

Well it's not about what car you are driving .... rather a style ... for example i only judge ppl who drives in their expensive cars like jerks ... with loud techni music and so on ... in that case yeah i judge ppl and rather wouldn't like to meet with such guy ... But i don't judge guys by type of car generally ... that's silly.