purplecyreene

@purplecyreene (92)

Philippines • Age 45

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My mom and dad...

oasis_9 @oasis_9 (831) • Philippines 25 Jun 07

As you all may know that i'm already 25 and still living with my parents...i don't help my dad pay the bills because i don't earn much to be able to... and now they are having one of their frequent fights...The usual something...

life

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purplecyreene With that situation, you have to earn also to help your parents to pay the bills.There are times you have to sacrifice on something or someone to give them their needs.Don't think that you'll be selfish in that way but you have to contribute something for your...

26 Jun 07

How Do You Know True Friend

emmanola @emmanola (482) 15 Jun 07

We all have our own definition of who a friend is. Good. My question is: How do you know a true friend. For me, a true friend will love me all the time. That does not mean that he should condone my misdeed without consciously...

friend

friendship

relationship

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purplecyreene A true friend stabs you in the front and is always there for you in ups and downs.

15 Jun 07

Should I leave him

jayin06 @jayin06 (1) • United States 30 May 07

I have been with the same person for the last three years. most of the relationship has been okay but recently things have been rather bad. I found out today that he has been talking to some other girl for the last month. he says...

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purplecyreene Why don't you confront him and settle it as soon as possible?Were you married?If not, better leave him.I would rather choose to be a single mom than to be with a cheater.If he's asking for another chance, you must make sure that he can be trusted this...

31 May 07

What do you do when you are alone?

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 30 May 07

I don't get many times to be by myself. When I do get a chance to be by myself, I have no sense. I work so hard and try to do so much that I pay for it for a day or two afterwards. I wish I didn't try to do so much but I get so...

quiet time

time alone

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purplecyreene If I want to be productive, I cleaned the whole house with my radio on.because that's the only chance.If I want to relax, I read magazines with the radio on or sleep.

31 May 07

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Boss?

easy888 @easy888 (10405) • Australia 16 Mar 07

People always say the bosses are not always good person because what they do the whole day are just bossing you around. Are the bosses always arrogant?? Or are they always doing something to show you they are superior of...

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purplecyreene My boss is friendly and she wears a smile that makes her more pretty.On the other side, she can't decide on her own.She has to consult her executive assistant before deciding.During our meetings, she can't deliver any word unless her executive assistant would...

31 May 07

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Do I have a right to feel hurt?

babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

hurting inside

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purplecyreene Yeah you have the right to feel hurt.In your case, maybe you have to learn how to be insensitive.most of all when it comes to your in-laws.it's really hard to please everybody.Just go on with your life.In-laws are like termites.They really made a very...

31 May 07

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if ever you're rich... will you avoid and ignore poor people?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 19 May 07

Most rich people don't want to mingle with poor people because they thought poor people are dirty, they don't have manners, and most importantly, they don't have money! If ever you're rich... will you do the same? Will you...

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purplecyreene No I won't.I do have friends who lived in depressed areas where you'd think that they don't have manners and right conducts.Well, I enjoyed being with them without judgements or hesitations.They do have a good heart.As what in a proverb say happy are those who...

30 May 07

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Have you ever loaned someone money and have a hard time getting it back?

LadyMooreSabb @LadyMooreSabb (335) • United States 27 May 07

Boy oh boy let me say, some people have a lot of nerve they will come with a sad story and borrow money because they know you are a soft touch and when they get back on their feet you will see them buying new accessories and...

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purplecyreene Yeah I did when I was in colllege.She was my best friend.Money is not an issue to us if you know that it's really needed and you see her status of not capable of paying you back.Money usually ruin relationships.Well, just think that you shared your blessings...

28 May 07

Do you think a smoker like me will look better if not smoking?

easy888 @easy888 (10405) • Australia 25 May 07

'I have been smoking for a couples of years and,some of my friends have given me some good sugguestions and i have smoked less frquently these days when i am at home.I think i can quit it soon:)) I just like to know what you guys...

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purplecyreene It really turns me off if I saw a girl or a guy who smoke.Why?They are already sick by that time.Smoking helps you die young that's how my father died with matching coffee.It will also make your skin dry, teeth become yellowish and lips becomes black.What an...

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If you caught your partner cheating

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 25 May 07

If you caught your partner cheating with another woman or man, would you divorce or leave him/her? Would you forgive? Under what circumstances would you forgive? I know if I found my partner cheating it would devastate...

cheating on your partner

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purplecyreene I caught my ex cheating on me and the most interesting part was, the girl used to be our classmate for 3 years during my college days.We used to be the talk of the town that time.My friends really got angry with the girl because she used to be low profiled and...

25 May 07

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Have you ever worked two jobs at one time?

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 7 May 07

I asked this because I am feeling real tired right now and have to leave for work in a few.I was thinking what if I had two jobs right about now.Actually I do my kids are a Hell of a job.LOL joking,but I have worked two jobs...

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purplecyreene I have two jobs two years ago 1 is a secretary and 1 is a relations officer.It's not very hard actually my job on these are just the same like sending letters, answering phone calls and getting in touch with certain persons.It's just hard when they're both...

8 May 07

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would you teach your kid to speak in english or tagalog?

eemee468 @eemee468 (446) • Philippines 5 May 07

i don't know but i was a bit disappointed that kids today don't speak our language so much, not just that, but our language treated as low and cheap, they understand tagalog but they don't speak it!..i'd teach mine ,english yes,...

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purplecyreene My daughter used to speak in english because we always play barney when she was still small.She became Barney's fan then.She can express her self in english well rather than tagalog she is now four and can even speak tagalog.If you could notice that there is a...

5 May 07

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If You Were Rich Enough To Start Your Own Company

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36448) • United States 30 Apr 07

as in like an Online Business, what type of Company would you consider wanting to be like, if any? Would you be a Writing company who pays others, or someone like Amway, Avon, Melaleuca, or would you focus on friendship and...

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purplecyreene Putting a business that interest you is better.At least, you know the pros and cons and also you have to be hands-on.Well I studied cosmetology and reflexology and graduating today.Maybe a spa salon would fit me at least I have a knowledge in running it.

1 May 07

Afraid of commitment???

carlissa32 @carlissa32 (64) • United States 1 May 07

Why does so many men (women too) claim to want a good woman/man but when they meet someone decent they all of a sudden "dont want to be involved" or they run. I know a few people who has done this several times.

relationships and commitment

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purplecyreene Maybe they're not yet ready maybe emotionally or they have their pending responsibilities in their family.Or maybe they're prioritizing something or they wanted to be ready if something happened.

1 May 07

How well does your immune system work?

arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 27 Apr 07

I've been lucky. My immune system had always been strong. Ever since a kid I would recover before other kids with the same ilness. I have no scars even though I should have many, but they healed and disappeared with time. I...

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purplecyreene I'm also lucky like you.I've never been in a hospital when I was a kid.Once in a blue moon when I become ill.I was hospitalized when I only gave birth.

28 Apr 07

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Credit Card Or Cash

omer_ahmed_tabarik @omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057) • Pakistan 27 Apr 07

Wherever you go like shopping, paying bills, getting wages/ salaries etc, then what would you prefer from these .Would you prefer a credit card to get your salary or pay the bills by a credit card or pay the shop owner's by credit...

cash

credit card

why

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purplecyreene I prefer cash because you can limit your self from buying things unlike you have your credit card you kept on swiping until you are buried in your credits.Although I want to have one but it's for emergency purposes only and also for the requirements for our...

27 Apr 07

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are you nervous when having an interview?

angela2006 @angela2006 (1845) • China 27 Apr 07

I am very nervous when having an interview,whatever it is for a job or for entering university and no matter whether I have prepared or not.I think each of us should have at least an interview before you find a job,how do you...

nervous interview advice

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purplecyreene I did too.The reason why you're getting nervous because you are very conscious about yourself, gestures, and the right words to tell the interviewer.When you get nervous first you will suffer from mental block out.You must gain enough confidence and practice...

27 Apr 07

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