reshadar

@reshadar (112)

United States • Age 54

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Money making through surveys and data entry are all scams

evans_33ke @evans_33ke (125) • United States 7 Feb 09

I hold the opinion that there is no site whatsoever that pays for online surveys and data entry. All these sites are scams. They are out for your little cash. I say this because I have never come across such sites that does not...

scams

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reshadar I have been paid by a number of survey sites that don't require any money up front. They don't pay a lot, but they do pay.

8 Feb 09

Newborns

stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 23 Jan 09

I recently gave birth to a beautifull baby boy =). This being my first child i am sensitive to his needs. So when he crys i make sure to pick him and find out what he needs. Now my child isn't even two weeks old. My thought...

birth

daddy

newborn spoiling

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reshadar I'm sorry but your husband is acting like an idiot. No - you CANNOT spoil a newborn. Even when they get older, you can spoil them with things, but never with love, attention, or hugs and kisses. Go with your instincts as a mother!

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Anyone Have Any Ideas How To Get The Ball On My Mouse To Work Properly?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 20 Jan 09

I will probably have to buy a new mouse tomorrow and I have taken the ball out and blew inside mouse to get rid of any dust but it is hard work moving it at the moment so will apologise in advance if I am slower than usual in...

computer mouse

mouse

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reshadar Just blowing in it isn't enough - you have to actually get in there and clean it out, making sure that you scrape the bars and everything else free of dust and dirt.

22 Jan 09

Rush Limbaugh: "I Hope Obama Fails!"

anniepa @anniepa (27955) • United States 21 Jan 09

This is NOT a case of being "taken out of context" by the hated "liberal media"; these are his words and he's actually proud of them. http://www.republicansforobama.org/?q=node/5263 Here are his exact words; he said...

rush limbaugh hopes obama fails

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reshadar I think that, as a country, we should know by now that Rush Limbaugh is full of s**t At one time, I understand that there were those that listened to what he had to say, but at this point, as he has proven himself, over and over, to be a moron, he simply...

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"You're weird." Is that a compliment or an insult?

joyceshookery @joyceshookery (2057) • United States 21 Jan 09

I'm weird because I think that's a compliment I think it's a good thing that I'm different enough to be classified as weird or strange. I think "strange" is a polite term for weird. The thing is, I don't consider...

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reshadar When I was little I used to tell my father, "You're weird" and he would always say thank you. Now I do the same when my son says that I am weird - and he now says "thank you" when I or anyone else says the same to him :-)

22 Jan 09

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The Holiday Phone Call from My DAD

teapotmommommerced @teapotmommommerced (10359) • United States 26 Dec 08

I wish the topic could be EX-FAMILY instead of family because I no longer have a father. He is no longer welcomed in my home, welcomed in my life and I do not believe in disposing of family members but this time I have to get rid...

girl friend

i hate my father

mean father

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reshadar 1st of all, I am totally pro-choice, but not at 7 months along! Now - as far as your father is concerned, he is ignorant, thoughtless, and a bunch of other words that I can't use here. To say that a child is not welcome if there is something even slightly...

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Would you still be a friend with your x?

preciousgrace0612 @preciousgrace0612 (3) • Philippines 27 Dec 08

This is a common question people would always ask. But I'm talking reality here 'coz i've become a good friend to my high school first love "puppy love". Well it's not that easy to become good friends but it sure gave me a...

puppy

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reshadar Absolutely! I think this is especially important if you have kids. I hear so many horror stories from single parents about the fights they have with their exes - unfortunately the ones that get hurt the most are the kids! I am a single mother and I have a...

1 Jan 09

At what age do you think it is appropriate to start leaving children home alone?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 31 Dec 08

I understand that part of the answer depends on the maturity of the individual child, but I am looking for number ages here. Just give me a guess on your part. Also, are there any laws that answer that question? I know...

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reshadar To repeat what everybody else has said, I think that laws vary from state to state, and of course, a lot depends on the maturity of the child. That being said, I started leaving my son home alone around the age of 9 or 10. At that point, it was never for more...

1 Jan 09

what would u do if u find difficult to fall asleep at night?

kunking @kunking (1118) • China 21 Dec 08

hey, mylotters! sometimes we are too excited to get asleep at night,or we get worried about something that may happen later such as an importane exam, or a job interview..anyway, we can't easily fall asleep as usual..so what would...

difficult fall asleep

job interview

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reshadar I have been having terrible problems with sleep for a few months now and especially in the last few weeks! I fall asleep with no problems, but I wake up every 1.5 - 2 hours - somewhere between 4 and 6 times a night. I feel like I've tried everything - does...

31 Dec 08

Atheist group file lawsuit to stop prayer at Obama inauguration

lilwonders @lilwonders456 (8214) • United States 30 Dec 08

It seems an athiest group has decided to go to court to try and stop prayer at the inauguration. They also want to stop Obama from being able to say "So God help me" when he is sworn in. Their case is that the inauguration is...

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reshadar I think they r right. There's something called the seperation of church and state. Many of our founding fathers were atheists. If u think atheism is a religio,then you have no idea what the word means, what atheists stand for or believe in, or what u r talking...

31 Dec 08

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hey guys i reallly need your help.....

unagie @unagie (122) • India 25 Nov 08

well i m a 21 yr old boy n i have been smoking cigarette from the last two years... now a days i have started to have mild chest pains.. the pains are not regular. i have started to worry. And i m desperately trying to quit...

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reshadar Of course you should get a check up. Whether it has anything to do with smoking or not, if you are not feeling well and are worried about your health, you should always get it checked out. I would encourage everybody to do this - if it's something serious,...

26 Nov 08

This Is Wrong....Isn't It??

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 18 Nov 08

I live in an area where in most grocery stores or supermarkets food stamps are accepted. I say this as I do receive SSI benefits and I do get food stamps..thank goodness otherwise I wouldn't be able to eat..literally. Well, I...

discrimination

food stamps are supposed to be recognized everywhe

grocery stores

oriental

security guard

unfair practices in accepting food stamps

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reshadar I think you are right - to a point. First of all, any private business has the right to do what they want - they should do the right thing, but they don't have to. As far as restaurants go, the food stamp program won't pay for prepared meals, so accepting them...

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Have you ever eaten a banana sandwich?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 19 Nov 08

Growing up, banana sandwiches was one of my favorites. You slice up bananas and put them on bread with mayo. Sounds kind of gross. But, it's really good. Every time I smell mayo, I think of banana sandwiches. Guess you could...

banana sandwiches fun

buy cookware online

eating food is fun

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reshadar Of course! I don't if I could deal with bananas and mayo, but bananas and peanut butter are awesome! :-)

22 Nov 08

Do you think fathers are just as important to their daughters as mothers?

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 21 Nov 08

I have never had a great relationship with my dad. Ever, really. We don't talk, and don't know much about each other. At this point I am not sure I'd care to learn. But my daughter is extremely close to my hubby. I think this is a...

daughters

fathers

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reshadar OMG Yes!! Absolutely! My father was great when I was a kid. Although my parents were divorced when I was 2, whenever I saw my father on the weekends he did so much with me. We would write poetry together, read, play ball, etc., etc., etc. But when I hit...

22 Nov 08

What book are you currently reading? (Blurbs only- no spoilers)-

cryw0lf @cryw0lf (1302) • United Kingdom 17 Nov 08

Reading is healthy for the brain- it keeps our imagination going- So what are you reading right now? Just state the blurb- please do not put spoilers in for people whom also may be reading the book ;D At the moment i'm reading...

drawer

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reshadar I'm currently reading "New Moon", which is the 2nd in the "Twilight" series by Stephanie Meyer. So far they have been awesome books!! If you like the Harry Potter books, you will probably like these, although they are very different. Before this, I was reading...

19 Nov 08

Diet Cola vs Regular Cola...What's the verdict???

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 15 Nov 08

As most of you may have realized by now, I'm addicted to Coca~Cola!!! My friends are always saying, you drink too much cola, you should switch to Diet Coke. That stuff taste NASTY is the main reason I don't switch. Well,...

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reshadar The problem is - all soda is bad for you! They all have a list of ingredients that work against your body's effort to maintain healthy balance. According to Marcelle Pick, an ObGyn NP, "In Eastern medicine, over-consumption of soda - particularly diet soda...

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Do You Want To Work For $5.33 A Hour?

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 9 Nov 08

At the same time Obama is wanting to increase the minimum wage to 9.15 a hour, he is wanting to only pay your children $5.33 a hour for government work. The Obama plan is this force volunteer work, 50 hours a year for 7 years and...

obama

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reshadar I'm an Obama supporter and I don't agree with being forced to volunteer.

13 Nov 08

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This is really shocking! 8 year old charged with premeditated murder!

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 11 Nov 08

Yes, it appears that in the state of Arizona a minor can be tried in an adult court for murder and an 8 year old boy has been charged with shooting his Father and his Father's flatmate. Here is a link to the...

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reshadar No. I absolutely do not think that an 8 year old should be tried as an adult! Their brains are just not developed enough for that. If an 8 year old committed pre-meditated murder, they should be given help - a lot of psychiatric help, maybe even until they...

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Is tattoo an art?

maroseqf @maroseqf (3657) • Philippines 10 Nov 08

Personally, I don't want to have a tattoo. I just tried having a henna tattoo since it will be erased after two weeks. My impression on people having tattoos is that they are tough and quite bullish. Here in the Philippines,...

henna

tattoo

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reshadar I absolutely think that tattoos can be a form of art. Some of the work that these tattoo artists do are just amazing!

12 Nov 08

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