seared

@seared (261)

China • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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I need help with my depression?

Emily Thacher @BrightStarRed (1) • Los Angeles, California 16 Jun 14

Lately..I can't sleep, close my eyes, or do anything without thinking about sadness. I'm still getting over a relationship that ended two weeks ago. Can I talk to someone?

sad

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seared oh,dear,believe me it's not the end of the world,and you can talk to me

18 Jun 14

Can anyone help me choose a song for a funeral?

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 16 Jun 13

My older cousin committed suicide last week. I was particularly close to him and offered to choose a song to be played at his funeral. He liked the Chili Peppers at one stage and I'm thinking one of their songs, but since I'm not...

red hot chili peppers

funeral

song

suicide

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seared sorry to hear that. But this one is really good one.I don't know if you ever listened this song "the day before the day", it's the song of an english singer named Dido

18 Jun 14

Which season was the best????

vicki102095 @vicki102095 (9) • United States 30 May 10

Okay we all know American Idol has been going on for a long time! But which season do you think is the best? Which winner? Or do you think the runner up should of won? If i get 20 replys i'll tell you mine!!! :p have fun!

american idol

reality tv

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seared until now, Lee is my favorite!!! so season 9 is the best to me!!

2 Jun 10

Who among The AI contestants doesn't deserve to be on top 12?

gambamarcela @gambamarcela (1011) • Philippines 18 Mar 10

Tim Urban doesn't deserve to be on top 12. Alex Lambert is more deserving than that guy. He can't sing. He's just a face. grrr. I wish Alex Lambert will be chosen for the wild card. How about you?

ai contestants

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seared totally agree with you

4 Apr 10

At what point in your life can you finally say you're ready to die?

calai618 @calai618 (1773) • Philippines 10 Nov 09

When do you think will you be ready to face death? Does age have to do with it? Or is it accomplishments which determine your satisfaction with your life? when you have lots of Money? having children? When will you be ready to...

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seared I think i am ready to face it anytime. but the point is I have no courage to act it all the time :)

11 Nov 09

Basic needs are getting costly day by day.

tanajimengawade @tanajimengawade (168) • India 10 Nov 09

Hi, Do u observe one thing since last few years. Our basic needs like food, cloths and house are become costly as years passess. But at the same time electroninc goods like tv, mobile ,computer are become cheaper. For...

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seared it's true. nowadays earth seems not suitable to grow grain any more. here, the tempreture arranged from more than 3oC to less 4C in one week. it's quite horrible. and people want to live in city to produce something like cellphone etc. only a few people work...

11 Nov 09

Vampire Diaries: cast busted before premiere

megumiart @megumiart (3771) • United States 11 Sep 09

The new vampire teen love series premiered on the CW last night (Sept. 10). And a whole group of leading cast members was busted by the cops on August 22nd, just a couple weeks before the premiere of their show;Nina Dobrev, 20,...

vampire

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seared sounds interesting.I will go and gind this movie

13 Sep 09

Just how sick can people be??

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 12 Sep 09

I am now horrified that someone could do this. It is sick A woman gave up her son for adoption. Then she hunts him down using the internet. He is a teenager. She finds him. Then she rapes...

mother rapes son

sick society

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seared I guess she must have mental problem, or she is just some animal from another evil world. to be honest, I really heard some news nowadays quite sick, mostly from man world, as a mother, she is quite sick...

13 Sep 09

Size 12 is a plus size

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 12 Sep 09

Okay, the other morning I am listening to the TV and there is a woman who is a successful plus size model. She is wearing a size 12. She is 5' 9" and wearing a size 12 and she is a plus size...I am not sure on what...

body image

models

plus size

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seared LOL of course size 12 is not a plus size. And I can understand your feeling when you got this TV program, as a matter of fact, we are not models, so just needn't consider size 12 as a plus size,right?

13 Sep 09

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What is eating in moderation?

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 7 Sep 09

I have been going to Weight watchers and have lost over 40 pounds. I go to visit Mom who is upset because I don't eat a some food she cooks. She tells me I should learn to eat everything in 'moderation'. What is...

eating healthy

moderation

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seared the best way is to refuse the fast food completely,just like me. LOL that's just because I don't like fast food anyway. my suggestion is maybe you can try to cook some chinese dishes, it's simple and delicious and healthy!!!hehe

11 Sep 09

Fried butter -- why america has a weight problem!!!!

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 6 Sep 09

I like food and I freely admit it. It also shows but I am working on that. So, here I am this morning reading the news and what do I see - someone is serving 'fried butter' at the Texas State Fair. Well it is not just butter...

fried butter

fried foods

weight problems

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seared it's hard to imagine that! maybe you Americans can try some chinese food, which is heathier!!

10 Sep 09

46 friends - and all alone in the MyLot universe

grandpa_lash @grandpa_lash (5225) • Australia 10 Sep 09

I cannot believe this. I know that the time difference means I'm rarely online at the same moment most of my MyLot friends are, but the "friends started" list has not moved for eight hours. The same topic is still at the top of...

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2 people

seared I have the same problemes

10 Sep 09

do you want to be a teacher?

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 18 Apr 09

i think to be a teacher must to have a good thought, that can teacher others will became better and bettter, i want to be a teacher, i also want to be a student,to study the high-minded of the teacher. i love teacher, i...

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seared i don't want to be a teacher, i am.

21 May 09

How can one be Good Teacher?

mahanjili @mahanjili (105) • India 15 Apr 09

We hear the people speaking 'good teacher'. But really, what does the good teacher mean or how to become good teacher?

teaching

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seared i don't think i am a goog teacher even i really want to be a good one. i am quite sensitive and easy to be influced by student's class performance. it's really hard for me to handle this

21 May 09

What to do? Choose the economy or the environment

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 27 Apr 09

If most of us with old cars would go out and buy new ones, we would probably give the economy the boost that it needs. But if we have to the option of using mass transit, we hurt the environment. If we decide to not buy a new...

economy or environment

go green

tough decision

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seared oh, good and hard question. if I were you, I think I will choose mass transit now, and try to save enough money and buy a nice new green car later.

28 Apr 09

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The 4 Best on American Idol

thaipingcat @thaipingcat (62) • United States 22 Apr 09

Here is who i think are the top 4 on American Idol: Adam, Allison, Kris and Danny. I think these 4 are the top singers. The others that are left are also good because they would not gotten this far if they were not. Who do you...

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seared MY top 4 are : Adam, Alison, Matt, and Cris I love Adam, Alison and Matt very much

24 Apr 09

how about simon having 1 performance in idol

pinoymelancholy @pinoymelancholy (197) • Philippines 22 Apr 09

just for fun, why dont they let each of the judge do a performance and then the judges would be the contestants i'm sure the would be amomentous event as finally they would be able to get back at simon.

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seared I think that will be funny, Paula will make a lot os fun, Simon haha,maybe when he just stand there ,which will give us a lot of fun!LOL

24 Apr 09

American Idol

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 23 Apr 09

Well Lil and Anoop are gone. Next week it will be Matt or Allison depending on their performances. The last three standing will be Kris, Danny and Adam. What did you think?

american idol

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seared i don't think so. i think the last three standing will be Adam , Allison, and Matt!

24 Apr 09

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AI Top 5 How do you rate them? (Spoiler alert for those who haven't watched yet)

JABeau59 @JABeau59 (446) • United States 22 Apr 09

I thought for sure that Anoop and Lil would be gone tonight and I was right. Now we are left with the best 5. In my opinion, this is how I would rate the remaining contestants. 1. Adam 2. Danny 3. Kris 4. Allison 5....

ai8

american idol

top 5

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seared mine is 1.Allison 2.Adam 3.Matt 4.Cris 5. Danny to be honest, I don't like Danny,I don't know, I just feel his performance lack of something,even though the juges think his voice is perfect.

24 Apr 09

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Mad about Matt

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 27 Mar 09

I was completely floored last night when Matt was the first one in the bottom 3 last night. In my opinion he was clearly the 2nd best last night and has been one of the best all along. There are clearly people who deserved to be...

matt on american idol

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2 people

seared yes,completely mad about matt.

30 Mar 09