sebelini

@sebelini (18)

Australia • Age 50

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I've Got A New Grandson!

Kareng @kareng (64698) • United States 23 Feb 07

I've been absent for the last few days because my oldest daughter gave birth to my first grandchild, a precious little boy! She ended up having a C-section but both are doing well. His name is Rylan Terize and he weighed 7 lbs, 5...

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sebelini Congratulations! I hope you enjoy his company and dont freak out about anything, it will all be good. My mother wasted all her time freaking out about anything and everything, including the baby's blanket being on the floor. She thought the germs would crawl...

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Should I let my child see its grandmother?

sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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sebelini Well it really depends why you think she is nasty. The word nasty to one person could mean something really trivial for another. I know of someone whose sons are not too good, one steals from her also. But you know, its not her. If its only because she can...

11 Apr 07

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What would You do?

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 10 Apr 07

My grandfather got really sick right before he died. I spent alot of time at the hospital day and even spending the night there to be with him. The doctors had him intubated (breathing tube) and sedated. I hated to see him like...

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sebelini I have not had anyone scheduled to die on me, so really its hard to say. The closest I have had was my father dying in another country. He had a terminal illness and eventually died from it. We did not know when he would and I remember being in total denial...

10 Apr 07

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living with the in-laws?

biznizman01 @biznizman01 (581) • Philippines 10 Apr 07

I have read a lot of topics about living arrangements with the in-laws. But what i found very interesting is this. 1) When its the husband's parents living with the family the wife constantly complain about who else the in-law....

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sebelini Well, I think I would shoot myself if I had either my parents or his parents living with us. I quite like the privacy of having your home to yourself. The problem with Mother in laws from the perspective of a wife sometimes can be that the mother in law thinks...

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Smoking

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 9 Apr 07

I just read a post from a so called friend of mine and it made me so infuriated I had to post this. I know I will get some bad replies because in the eyes of a smoker they are always right. My Grandpa died from lung cancer...

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sebelini I really am not too bothered about the whole smoking thing. To smoke or not to smoke..... However, I am a bit disturbed about your second last paragraph where you say "smoking is different from being an alcoholic....because you are harming other...

10 Apr 07

Do all kids end up with chicken pox?

juiceofine @juiceofine (144) • United States 21 Mar 07

I have two boyz,the age of 9 and 4.They have never had chicken pox,will they?Have your kids had it and at what age.

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sebelini I am 32 and to date I have not had anything more than a bad fever. No chicken pox. Measels, nothing. I am told though that if I get the chicken pox later on in life its called something else and you dont recover from it as quickly and apparently its more...

8 Apr 07

How would you react to a friend like this?

tammyr @tammyr (5946) • Etowah, Tennessee 8 Apr 07

I had a friend, I'll call him David (‘cause that is his name!). David fell of the cliffs near our home and broke his back. I was not there but figure he was drunk. I was helping him out by doing his errands for him. I was doing...

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sebelini years ago i probably would have ended my relationship with her. now i think i would sit down with her and discuss why she needs to do what she is doing and perhaps its wrong and she needs medical help. Telling David was the right thing to do.

8 Apr 07

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My son has a fear of going in plane!

superchook @superchook (1786) • Australia 30 Mar 07

My son is scared to go into a plane because of what happened with the 911. I have explained to him that security is a lot tougher now and it probably won't happen again. We would like to go interstate later this year to see some...

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sebelini Well maybe you can visit your doctor for some relaxants for him if he is old enough to take it. Its just for the ride.

8 Apr 07

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On September 11, 2001, where were you when you first heard the awful news?

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 7 Apr 07

On September 11, 2001, where were you when you first heard the awful news and what was your first reaction? I was playing snooker at a club near my place and my mom called me up, she asked me to come home immediately, poor mom she...

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sebelini I was pregnant and driving to work. I turned on the radio and could not understand why people were talking about how the world had changed in one day. Someone showed me the internet when I got to work and the whole radio thing made sence. I was very saddened...

8 Apr 07

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Have you ever heard female to female marriage or male to male marriage?

BRIJENDRA @BRIJENDRA (926) • India 26 Feb 07

I have only heard about the subject matter.How far it is true i do not know.Whether such kind of marriage has got a social recognition and wether they are successful in their married life except berthing a child. What is your...

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sebelini Yes I remember watching it in some American TV documentary show. Even celebrities were getting married.

8 Apr 07

driving around with a kid on your lap

mememama @mememama (3076) • United States 7 Apr 07

I'm sure we all remember the fuss about Britney Spears driving around with her child on her lap, but believe it or not, I've seen it twice in the last few days in my subdivision. I'm just appalled, we live in an area where you can...

carseats

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sebelini I have seen it too many times to recall every incident. However, it was a very long time ago in countries and a time when there were no car seats! As a child I remember sitting on an uncle's lap pretending to drive whilst he was driving. No accidents ever...

8 Apr 07

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What will you do if you don't have money in your wallet?

prettiemammie @prettiemammie (835) • United States 31 Mar 07

Let's admit it we can't live without money. It is an important factor in our life. That's why every single person in this world is trying to make decent living each day. But what if one day you checked your wallet and you only...

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sebelini Well, if I knew that I would have money as soon as I could access my debit/credit card then I would not panic too much. I would try to get some more money in the meantime so I could eat for the day or get out of the place I was in and closer to where a bank...

8 Apr 07

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