shenfei

@shenfei (187)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

If there is something you have to do, you do it early.

Discussions (27)

Comments (68)

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Spend an important holiday alone.

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 24 Dec 09

It is Chrismas today. I hope everyone is with their family and enjoying this festival. However, I know there must be some people who have to spend this holiday alone. I am wondering how they feel and what they are going to do. How...

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shenfei Thank you very much. Since I have just moved to this new city, the number of people I know here is so limited. And the only a few people I know will go home far away in Spring Festival. Anyway, I like the idea of going to a restaurant and be with other guests....

25 Dec 09

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do you mind if your grilfriend or boyfriend is not a virgin

peixiangshu @peixiangshu (120) • China 24 Dec 09

I read this story in a book..and i want to share with mylotters and i want your answers. one couple have been in love for about 7years and one day the boy asked the girl:do you think there are still many virgins in this society?...

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shenfei I can understand that you are OK with her not being a virgin. That's good. But you don't care if she cheats on you? Unbelievable and unacceptable. That is not true love.

24 Dec 09

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 15 Oct 09

I am a quiet guy and I don't know how to add spice to life with my girlfriend. She feels a little bored already. I want to fix this problem before it gets worse. What do I do?

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shenfei Thank you for your reply. You are a Chinese girl so your advice can be practical. I bet you are a nice girl and good luck to you too.

15 Oct 09

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 15 Oct 09

I am a quiet guy and I don't know how to add spice to life with my girlfriend. She feels a little bored already. I want to fix this problem before it gets worse. What do I do?

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shenfei I do love and care about her. I used to think as long as I love her, how to express my love is not important. But now I realise that expression matters. So here I am, asking for advices. Thank you for yours. It helps. Need more good ideas.

15 Oct 09

mother or girlfriend/wife

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 9 Aug 09

This is kind of serious. I don't post it here for fun or general survey. I start this discussion because it is what I am involved in. There is some big disagreements between my mother and my girlfriend and now their relationship...

mother girlfriend

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shenfei Thank you. Thank you so much. Just from the length of your reply I can feel how much you care about my problem. That is sweet. I am not a Christian and know little about Bible. Maybe in the future I will read it. In china, it is a moral obligation to show...

10 Aug 09

New Season. What performance can Real Madrid give us?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 6 Aug 09

With C.Ronaldo, KaKa, Alonso etc, Real Madrid does build a promising team. But is it good enough to beat FC.Barcelona? I don't think so. Soccer fans, give your opinions.

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shenfei Can't agree more, but I think it is partly because we are all Barcelona fans. To be dispassionate, I think Real Madrid will play better (Money dose work. Chelsea is an example.) and I am a little worried about our favourite team.

7 Aug 09