shenfei

@shenfei (187)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 18 years ago

If there is something you have to do, you do it early.

Discussions (27)

shenfei's Discussions

Spend an important holiday alone.

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 24 Dec 09

It is Chrismas today. I hope everyone is with their family and enjoying this festival. However, I know there must be some people who have to spend this holiday alone. I am wondering how they feel and what they are going to do. How...

holiday

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1 person

Make a change.

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 15 Oct 09

I am a quiet guy and I don't know how to add spice to life with my girlfriend. She feels a little bored already. I want to fix this problem before it gets worse. What do I do?

girlfriend

life

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Do you have similiar experiences? Are we bad luck bringers?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 16 Aug 09

Here is the thing. You support a team and since you are always busy, you miss most of its games. And your team keeps winning. Finally you got some time to watch one game. You think you will be happily enjoying the game cos another...

luck

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Can you peacefully accept criticism from others? Or you just get angry?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 11 Aug 09

I discover that I can't peacefully accept criticism from others, even if I know some of it is true. I don't know why and I don't want to be like this. I want to be reasonable and generous indeed. It is just sometimes when hearing...

temper

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mother or girlfriend/wife

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 9 Aug 09

This is kind of serious. I don't post it here for fun or general survey. I start this discussion because it is what I am involved in. There is some big disagreements between my mother and my girlfriend and now their relationship...

mother girlfriend

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New Season. What performance can Real Madrid give us?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 6 Aug 09

With C.Ronaldo, KaKa, Alonso etc, Real Madrid does build a promising team. But is it good enough to beat FC.Barcelona? I don't think so. Soccer fans, give your opinions.

soccer

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1 person

How can I change my registration information in mylot?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 4 Aug 09

Here is the problem. I've been away for a long time and settled in a different city. Now when I log in, I find the weather condition(which is good, I think it is very thoughtful and I want to say thanks to those website builders)...

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1 person

What are you going to do if you can't finish your job in time?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 22 Sep 08

My deadline is the end of this month but I still don't know how to proceed. I don't want to admit that I won't be able to finish it in time but it is a good chance that will happen. I keep to be calm but truly I am so nervous and...

work

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1 person

How do you think of the opening ceremony of 2008 Olympic Games?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 9 Aug 08

The performances in the beginning are great, beautifully amazing ,but the way the torch was lit seems a little to lack of surprise. What do you think? Do you like it?

olympic games

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Latest number of victims in the earthquake in China!

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 14 May 08

Till 7 pm yesterday(May 13th), the number of the dead people had increased up to 12012. Besides, 9404 people were still being buried and 7841 missing. Hope as many as possible will be rescued. I think in the end the total number...

earthquake

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Earthquake. What a tragedy!

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 13 May 08

Yesterday at 2:30 pm a destructive earthquake happened in Sichuan in China. So far almost 10000 people have been found dead and a lot remain missing. I think the number of victims will increase in the next few days. It is really a...

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1 person

What happened to those old discussions we posted?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 3 May 08

Recently I checked out my old discussions. They don't change at all. I mean there are no extra responses. It is understandable that this forum always needs new topics, but I don't think it is reasonable that our old discussions...

old discussions

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How long will it take for you to drive confidently after getting driving license

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 25 Mar 08

I got my driving license last year. I studied hard in driving school but I still feel not capable enough to drive myself. A lot of my classmates feel the same way. I do think the method the diving school using to train us so...

driving

driving school

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When do you want to get married?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 25 Mar 08

I'm 24 and I'm still in college. I have a girlfriend whom I have been with for more than 2 years. I love her so much. We began to talk about and plan our future. I want to marry her as soon as possible. But I should find a job and...

2 responses

Which do you choose,career or family if the both have conflict?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 24 Jun 07

I think most man can choose career,they put family on the second.But most womem can choose family,they think a lot of love,they can give up career for their family.In their opions, family always the first.Do you think so?

career family conflict

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DO you have the experience of losing weight? which way do you take?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 23 Jun 07

Nowadays weight-losing has become popular among young and middle-aged women.In order to be pretty-looking,they try many different ways to losing weight.Some go on a diet,some take exercise,some eat medicine,others even turn to...

diet

exercise

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How many funs of SAN ANTONIO spurs? Come in,please

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 23 Jun 07

I want to know how many funs of SAN ANTONIO spurs in mylot.I love spurs very much,even more than HOUSTON ROCKETS as a chinese.I love Tim Duncon best in the team,he is a real man in my heart.This year the spurs won the NBA final,i...

sports

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How long will you keep your participation in mylot? Forever?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 30 Mar 07

I hope so. Maybe I can't guarantee a lot of responses and discussion topics, but I really want to log on it at least several minutes per day if possible. I got very busy for the past two days and I had been absent. I just want to...

mylot

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Do you sacrifice your sleep time to study or work? Is it painstaking?

shenfei @shenfei (187) • China 26 Mar 07

I am very sleepy now. It's been 12 o'clock p.m and I still need to infuse some more new words into my head. This question just occured to me. I know everyone had suffered the staying up all night thing before. Like cramming before...

sleep

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