shobhan51

@shobhan51 (376)

Malaysia • Age 73

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What would you do with a husband like this?

leatherandlatex @leatherandlatex (295) • United States 29 May 08

I am a Baptist and my husband is an Athiest. Yesterday we were talking and I asked him what he is going to tell our daughter if she ever asks who Jesus is. He said he would tell her that Jesus is a character in a book called The...

family

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shobhan51 This difference should not be a problem. Your child will grow up with her own set of beliefs and you should not be worried unduly what she decides for herself. Whether she opts for her father's way of thinking or your way of thinking or her very own way of...

10 Sep 10

How can Christians and others stop Terry Jones from burning copies of the Qu'ran

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 8 Sep 10

The Dove World Outreach Center is a non-denominational charismatic so-called "Christian" church in Gainesville, Florida led by Pastor Terry Jones.The church with a 50+ membership, has received widespread national and international...

book burning

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shobhan51 Pose123, All religions are like rivers flowing into the same vast ocean. The qu'ran is the holy book of the Muslims just like the Bible is to the Christians and the Bhagavad Gita is to the Hindus. We cannot judge a whole mass of people belonging to a certain...

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I have decided to live until I die

hardworkinggurl @hardworkinggurl (37063) • United States 6 Sep 10

Tomorrow I am yet again forced to make another decision. Since losing my job of no fault of my own, with absolutely no income for 9 months now, I have been forced to lose so much in a short period of time. My home, my credit, many...

losing everyting

why me

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shobhan51 I am really saddened to hear of your plight. But hardworkinggurl, are you starving or in poor health or both? For me those are the real suffering. If I am not able to communicate with loved ones or friends it won't hurt, knowing that they are alright somewhere...

8 Sep 10

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A mom daughter relationship seems to be closer and smoother

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 19 Jul 10

than a dad son relationship? Why? May be men are not expressive and this could be a reason. Ego factor may also play a role, I think. What do you think?

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shobhan51 Not necessarily so. It all depends on the closeness a daughter has with the parent. I have heard and seen of daughters who are closer to their fathers than their mothers. Understanding and dedication have a role to play.Some parents lack understanding of the...

21 Jul 10

Christian Scientists?

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 18 Jul 10

So this may seem like a dumb question, but are there most likely not many Christian scientists? I gather this because when looking at all the science all the proven theories everything pointing to evolution, it would be almost...

evolution

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science

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shobhan51 To me, everything is related. Matter and energy have a relationship. One does not exists without the other. Likewise, the living world is related and interconnected to one another and to the non-living environment. Water, air, minerals, heat, sound, electrical...

20 Jul 10

My mother has MANIC-DEPRESSIVE DISORDER, or bipolar disorder.

maxito100 @maxito100 (150) • Argentina 31 May 10

Its been over 15 years my mom started to change and begun with this manic depressive disorder.We still live in the same house. Im unemployed and its so hard for me to go out and live a regular life with a job as i can hardly go...

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shobhan51 maxito100, are you male or female? the picture shows a male but since you mentioned you have a boyfriend, I am wondering.......... By the way, I have been living with my mother who suffers from manic depression since I was four years old. It's difficult...

31 May 10

Do you notice that Usher sings a song every time he breaks up with his lady?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 4 Jan 10

I have noticed this big time. And it makes me mad. Every time Usher breaks up with a woman that he is dating or married to, he makes a song out of his break up. When he was in a relationship with Chili, from the...

usher song musicial artist marriage relationship b

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shobhan51 Cream97, in many cases, a breakup is due to some issue big or small that forms a wedge. One may do a lot of good deeds when still maintaining a relationship, but when that relationship sours, the parties concerned may try to put each other down. I remember...

4 Jan 10

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what are the resolutions which you make for this year

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 2 Jan 10

every one decides that he will leave his bad habbits from the 1st day of new year.have you made any resolution for this year..

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shobhan51 2009 has gone and 2010 is here to stay for a while. I have no new year resolutions but I wish to be well and healthy because of late I have been quite sickly. Regards

2 Jan 10

Do you always tell the truth?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Jan 10

Nothing good is ever created by deception and the sooner we learn this the better. Not even the smallest untruth, not even the most well-intended "white lie," will produce benefit in the long run. Many will try to create excuses,...

untruth

white lie

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shobhan51 The saying, 'Tell the truth and shame the devil,' is very apt here. Nothing good comes out of telling a lie even for a good cause. Ultimately when the truth leaks out the lie stares at the face. Then it becomes an embarrassment. Telling the truth always has...

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Letting Go.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Jan 10

When we release control and invite the universe or a higher power to work on our behalf, we create more openings for abundance and happiness to flow smoothly into our lives. Much can be said for grit and determination, but a...

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shobhan51 It is not easy to let go of control for many. It is mainly possible for those who is aware of the existence of the divine and divinity within oneself, who knows that by letting go we are welcoming the divine to gain control over our lives. Yes, Pose123, by...

2 Jan 10

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Is she serious? This sounds real, but it could be fake! What do you all believe?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 31 Dec 09

Hello,I am Mrs Linda Susan, I am a US citizen, 48 years Old. I reside herein New Braunfels Texas. I am one of those that took part in the Compensationin Nigeria many years ago and they refused to pay me, I had paid...

beneficiary money nigeria false scam email message

compensation

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shobhan51 I too received these types of emails and I just deleted them. From what I understand, these are predators out to rip you off whatever money you may have saved and more. Be careful, cream97. Cheers and have a pleasant New Year 2010 evening.

1 Jan 10

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Do you give that you might receive?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 31 Dec 09

Since giving and receiving are so intimately intertwined in our lives, we often make the mistake of thinking that we can attract abundance into our lives, simply by giving in an openhanded way.Yet we often find ourselves...

expectation

giving

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shobhan51 How true Pose123. Most people expect something in return for anything given. Unconditional love is the true spirit in giving. When one gives anything unconditionally then only there is blessing. When we give we should not expect anything in return. The returns...

1 Jan 10

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Ring out the old, ring in the new.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 31 Dec 09

Tonight, as we ring out the old and ring in the new lets remember that we can change much more than simply the dates on the calendar. We can resolve this night to change our entire life or any aspect of ourselves. And should old...

happy new year

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shobhan51 We can never forget old friends but new friends are always welcome. Hope with the new year there will be healing of old wounds if any, and better ties ahead. For me, my new year wish is that if it is my time to leave this world, (death can occur anytime) I...

1 Jan 10

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what do u think u can judge a person in 1st meeting

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 30 Dec 09

many people says that they can judge a person on their first site.what do u think..is it possible as most of the people tries to be simple and innocent in their first meeting

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shobhan51 Rahularya, first impressions are not always correct. Just as the saying goes 'Don't judge a book by its cover,' first impressions may have an impact on a person but it is time and familiarity that exposes the character of a person deeper. I always make it a...

31 Dec 09

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My love failed, I want to die, help me

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 28 Dec 09

This is what the mail I received a year ago when a girl read my blog at "hub pages" on the topic "How to come out of love sickness with out killing yourself?". She is from India. She was in love with a guy for about 4 years. Then...

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shobhan51 Vijayanth, helping people come out of depression or worry is great. She definitely values your contribution and help. If you hadn't done what you did, probably she would had done something that she wouldn't have in a proper frame of mind. Cheers and have a...

30 Dec 09

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Making A Good Day.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 28 Dec 09

We have all heard the expression "have a good day", in fact many of us probably say it and have it said to us every day. Yet, isn't it true that if we want a good day, we must make it so? Isn't it true, that it's not what happens...

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shobhan51 That new phrase,'make a good day,' is food for thought. Thanks Pose123

29 Dec 09

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