smallcloud

@smallcloud (338)

Malaysia • Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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You will marry, for love, or for money?

crystalfealy520 @crystalfealy520 (50) • China 2 Dec 09

During our talk, our foreign teacher asked me marry for love, or for money? For love, i answered without any hesitation. But in such a material society, i think many people marry for money, regaredless of their age or emotional....

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smallcloud love is an element to maintain the marriage. maybe, really lots of the couple today married for money. that is also why the case of divorce keep increasing.but asking yourself, will u want to be happiness all the times?do you want to have divorce?if you are...

3 Dec 09

Love by distance???does it work?

coolnash @coolnash (110) • Mauritius 18 Nov 09

i was in france for 4 month and met a girl there..we lived together and we were madly in love. am now back in my country since one month, we promised each other lots of things, that we'll be together again, that our love will...

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smallcloud although i have also in a long distance relationship, but it never happened to me. maybe her love to you is not as deep as you think, the love of her cant bear the challenge of the distance. it is also maybe the reason of giving up you. anyway, your situation...

18 Nov 09

Do men and women understand love differently?

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 18 Nov 09

I think that being a woman I'm too sentimental,I expect too much and I believe that things can be understood without words.The more I give, the less I receive in return from men.What the hell?Is it because I know nothing about...

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smallcloud because men believe that love not need to express sometimes, they think we as women should understand their love to us but not always require they do in action. however, women always look forward toward those sweet act made by their beloved. women tend to...

18 Nov 09

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Love hurts...

yan_blue8 @yan_blue8 (1437) • Philippines 17 Nov 09

Me and my partner have been together for quite a while now. He is always there to support me in all ways and always there to show me how much i really mean to him. We know we love each other. He never complained to me at all....

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smallcloud hi yan_blue8 first of all, i will ask you a question. if there someone will keep always beside you 24 hours? and the second, are you willing to give up of him becoz of he is not with you once? there is nobody will keep always besides you or appeared in front...

17 Nov 09

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How can you move on?

rookie24 @rookie24 (80) • Philippines 17 Nov 09

hi!!!I'm just having a dilemma here..few days from now,I'm going to meet the man I like (or love) for 6 years.things didn't work for us,though we stayed friends.I haven't seen him for a while and now that we are going to have a...

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smallcloud hi rookie.. i dunno if i really get what you mean, that mean you are going to meet him with friend also right? all you emotion will show yourself to other totally, if you really dont want to let him know, why just avoid for a while, till your mood become...

17 Nov 09

i am in love

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 17 Nov 09

hi friends. although i know that this is totaly a private issue related to my life, yet i want to share it with all of u. hope u will share your views, yes, i have regained my last love. just few minutes ago i talked with her...

dilemma

my love

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smallcloud hi shibham.. the parents problem really cant resolve?try to let your parent understand your love towards the girl and also the strongpoint of the girl. meet someone you love her much and she love you as the same is very rarely to find. the girl maybe the one...

17 Nov 09

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First love never dies?

mielshare @mielshare (265) • Philippines 15 Nov 09

This quote is very popular but is it relly true? Do first love really never dies? On my part, I think it is somehow true.. Cause it's your first everything that's why you value everything out of that relationship. But as time...

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smallcloud erm, maybe can be said like that, the first love is hard to forget and maybe left some regret in that relationship. the first always the one you really seriously to try hard de but maybe it is left nothing at the end. first love always remember to do or not to...

16 Nov 09

The world of pick up lines

yourlankanfriend @yourlankanfriend (156) • Australia 15 Nov 09

hey guys and gals, we've all heard of great and atrocious pick up lines, not all. I want to know which pick up lines to avoid, and which ones to banter around next time your out and about. Personally, the worst and corniest...

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pick up lines

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smallcloud i tell my partner when i really have the feeling to say so. i remember the first time i said this type of statement is the period of i fall sick. i remember that time he take a very good care of me, and even cook those nutrigent food for me, and stay beside me...

16 Nov 09

Would you get involved with someone if they had a mental disorder?

yourlankanfriend @yourlankanfriend (156) • Australia 16 Nov 09

Now, almost all of us have personally known someone with some form of mental disorder, whether it be dementia, bulimia, ADHD, bi-polar, depression etc Now would you be able to find it within yourself to have a long term...

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smallcloud hi yourlankanfriend..^^ for your question, i am really doubtful of myself if i am able to love him/her or jus sympathy on him/her. it is hard to separate for this two feelings. because not only we have to face ourselves, but also the others, and the problem...

16 Nov 09

how many time you kiss and hug your lover in a day

deepak_o2xxh @deepak_o2xxh (158) • India 16 Nov 09

kiss is some kind of feeling which is fantastic and i love to kiss my lover when ever we are close to each and more than 100 times i think if i count but i have never tried to count and i always enjoy the kiss

kiss

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smallcloud hi deepak.. erm,it is hard to calculate..as it depends on the feeling especially u two in a very sweet moment. if i can i am willing to kiss my partner several times a day, but the most important is the feeling of kiss not the quantity of kiss...

16 Nov 09

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What comes first? Money or love?

518theo @518theo (35) • Philippines 16 Nov 09

Honestly for me, its love. You can have everything if you have love. Its a strong and powerful feeling that no one can change or take it away from you.

love

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smallcloud hi 518theo..actually love can be everything, and also can be nothing.. try to imagine..you want to buy a condo, you can buy this with love? and also.... love actually is not as strong as what you think..it can be weak, as when you get hurt from the one u...

16 Nov 09

Is it possible that you have a partner but in love with someone else?

mielshare @mielshare (265) • Philippines 11 Nov 09

Most cases of break up and divorse is due to third party. I wonder why, is it because you don't love your partner enough or you are just fooled by some ciscumstances. So is it possible that you are in a relationship but you...

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smallcloud to me, it is impossible. in my understanding, when u are fall in love, you only able to focus on your partner, even there are more handsome or beautiful girl around your life but your eyes only able to fill with your partner. it is love. you cant get any...

12 Nov 09

love ,need a right time

christina1989 @christina1989 (462) • China 11 Nov 09

a woman left her BF who she loved for 5 years,and married any man quickly.she said,the youth is limited,as a woman ,she couldn't waite,but the boy didn't want to marry,so she had to choose another one. several years later,her...

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smallcloud in mandarin there is such a phrase, happiness will not able to gain when you meet the right person at wrong timing or you meet the wrong person at the right timing. it is, maybe, all is fate, we cant decide it, maybe your friend are not the one who is meet...

12 Nov 09

it's just so sad

eM @eLsMarie (4345) • Philippines 11 Nov 09

me and my boyfriend were together for quite a while and i'm very happy being with him knowing that he's worth it. i mean he's somebody that most girls would want to have. he has good looks and has a very good heart. i'm so lucky...

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smallcloud u are mature enough to let ur family believe what you choose? the question should ask yourself as sometimes the parent will say different words mayb due to what you do at that time. parents will not stop own child to pursue happiness if they think that you...

12 Nov 09

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Do you think that shy peoples can find love to net?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 12 Nov 09

Do you think Internet dating has helped shy people find love? I have also seen many people becoming closer through the net and for those who are very reserved and shy always feel better talking to the phone or net. I think...

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smallcloud i think it is able to help those shy people find love. i have seen one of my friend who is very shy to meet a gf over net. he is very shy that dont dare to talk with a girl face to face. actually he is very gentle and nice, but nobody knows about it as he is...

12 Nov 09

What do you feel different when you are in love?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 12 Nov 09

What changes do you make out in yourself when you think you are in love, is it the way you talk with people or is it the way you look towards your life? What all changes do you find in yourself?

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smallcloud hi hireshd^^ i think less friend entertainment is an unavoidable truth for those who are in love, for example, i need to use some time for my bf and stay alone with him. it is just belong to our two. and after dating, i like to imagine, imagine the future...

12 Nov 09

Have you found your sweetheart when the "single's day"coming ?

lubeimao @lubeimao (118) • China 10 Nov 09

Today is single's day ,which is not a pleasant day for certain group. While the couples accompany each other intimately.Some people may occasionally fell lonely and desir to enjoy the romance.Are you still single? If you are ,how...

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youself

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smallcloud although i am not single but i am still alone as my bf is at another country to work. so sad sometimes even bday also cant celebrate together. today i first hear about the single day.. however in my opinion, as well as u r happy, everyday will be a happy day,...

10 Nov 09

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White or black clothes? what you like to wear more? black or white?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 10 Nov 09

Do you think that you look more nice in white or black clothes? Are peoples happy if they wear white? Are they sad if wear black? What do you think about this 2 colors?(are non colors, but almost all peoples think that are...

clothes

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smallcloud i am fans of black color. reason got two, it makes me slimmer, and also it is not easy to get dirty(even there is, i also hard to see). but the white make my skin look white la.. but overall, i still prefer black. it sometimes make me more serious.

10 Nov 09

have you opened your very first post here?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

i wish to open my oldest post here.but i don't think it's practical, timewise for i only have limited time in the net.it will be good if i remember the tag that i used in my very post here but unfortunately i don't remember...

first post

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smallcloud i also post a topic long long time ago and now i oredi forgot what i had posted before..when u are posting a new one, u will look forward for other response. i am so excited to have other friend to reply me, that means i still can get some common among us. and...

4 Nov 09