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smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 15 Nov 09

at the beginning og a healthy marriage, there is a lot of excitement and new experiences, it can be thriling being a new couple, but as the yaers go on, the excitement starts to ebb. the thrill diminishes. you have spent so much...

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smallcloud i get your meaning.but created special moments is really hard especiall when your family get the new members, there are lots of thing to make you trouble and worry, and all the times to eliminate the boredom of the feeling in your marriage seem like something...

16 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 15 Nov 09

just about everyone has had their heart broken by an unexpected break up at one time or another, after you get over the initial shock, anger and resentment, you realize that you want him back, and why not? you may still be in love...

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smallcloud but the human being is easy to change of their mind esp women. we cant guarantee always we wont regret of what we decide and wish to get back the moment again and do the different decision again. it is hard to explain but sometimes if the ex is your mr.right,...

16 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 15 Nov 09

there is an old saying that you cannot tell your heart who tehy should fall in love with. sometimes, despte all the warnings in your head, you may find yourself falling for a guy who is already married. you might know that he was...

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smallcloud ya for me, i think if he really dare to betray his current relationship, even he choose with you but at the end , you cant guarantee he wont do the same thing to his ex wife and repeatedly do it to you. you wil only left the uneasy life follow you in your...

16 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

hey every mylotters, my cousin found her true love and going to married next month, she want to give herself completely to each other, and in all the dimensions of her being, in the joy that is both offered and share, with this...

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smallcloud ya but the problem is my cousin dunno how to tell her partner what is her thinking while her partner is still happily to imagine the life of both of them and also their child.. she cant bear to make him dissapointed

11 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

just now posted in wrong place, so sad and sorry many people ask themselves this question. one can understand why when looking at the problems we face in the world:economic crisis, ecological deterioration , under development,...

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smallcloud yaya..the most important here is to able to give the child a brighter future.. but economic crisis cant say not a hindrance of having a baby ba. like my bf's mom said to feed a child is impossible without ten thousand ringgit, at least.

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

it is a dream and a worry at the same time.. is the person i met really made for me?does the one that i am dreaming of really exist and if so, how will i know? it is one of the questions come from my single friend.frankly, even i...

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smallcloud so sad to hear about it. but i think u can find your mr.right, somedays, somewhere.and the happiness sure can cover what unhappy u have experience before keep it up~dun give up hope^^

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

hi all mylotters. how is this possible that we have always loved our partner when we are ninety? to love is to be happy in making the other happy. this is quite selfish~but at the moment, our own desires that might interfere with...

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smallcloud but there are really not reasons at all. love can make a people feel happiness about 5 years but for so many years i really din hear before.that's why i am curious except love, what still can make the love remain there when we are olds.

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

love is not based on the feeling that i love or do not love someone. moreover , it evolves with time. when a couple show their love in a different manner or less visibly this does not mean that it is no longer exist. it is true...

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smallcloud what so profound. but i am appreciate of your answer. it sounds that u are really sincerely to read my topics. thanks a lot. hope my love can like what u are saying, keep burning inside and make us feel happiness. all the best.

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

it is said that you cant force love. thus, what if i am attracted to someone who i snot free to become involved in another relationshiup? is happiness not more importatn than social rules?and do you really belice that someone who...

dilemma love

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smallcloud me too, i also cant believe those in a relationship but still saying love you to another person in the same time. it seem like playing but not serious. one u get into a relatioship , it should be focus on the person who u are together with right now, is...

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

it is a wonderful experience to be attracted to someone. the mere sight of him or her makes us feel, all at once, tenderness of heart and a strong physical attractio, the pleasure we discover in just being close to the other makes...

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smallcloud not it mayb is a situation that u go out with someone is liking you but you have a bf/gf at that time. u know his feeling and he also know your situation. you two can talk about the love issue or be so intimate like good friends?it sounds hard to be, is it?

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 9 Nov 09

hi, everyone, recently i have a trouble in my heart. that is my friend told me l look taller when i am wearing short pant. but i always wear long pant like jean go to school. one of the reason is the school require what we wear...

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smallcloud but i will care other ppl attentions esp they are my friends. i also hope i can wear comfortable and also beautifully. do you wish so?

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

hi all my lotters, what is your favorite brand for your inner and outer wears? actually to me i am indifferent for those brand as well as i can wear comfortably. how about you all?have same feeling with me ? or take hold of...

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smallcloud thanks for your supprot, we are fans of freestyle brands ~~no brands but comfortable, that is what we pursue, is it^^

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

ok i 've two general wonderings about clothes shopping. 1.how many of your clothes do you buy on the internet?i 've never bought any clothes off the internet. i like the actual going shopping for them far too much and i never...

clothes shopping

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smallcloud hey same feeling with you..sometime the size we bought from internet may not accurate with our size, is it? but sometime i will get the temptation of those internet shopping suit. those look like so nice but i cant see in person only the photo really make me...

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 10 Nov 09

just now posted in wrong place, so sad and sorry many people ask themselves this question. one can understand why when looking at the problems we face in the world:economic crisis, ecological deterioration , under development,...

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smallcloud but can i ignore those reality problem?especially if one want to be single mother, it sounds hard and will be critized by the public. the social still limit our behaviour do you think so? now feeding a child is so tough and i cant imagine i am still able to...

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 9 Nov 09

recently, i am trouble over the money problem.indeed, my smile lost lots and also worry about the money..everyone said, human can live without money, but human can live happily without money. spend every cent need to be consider...

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smallcloud thanks for your suggestion and i will take those serios. happy not equal to happiness but they influence each other all the times. hope the poor life can leave me as soon as possible, and also for all mylotters^^

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 9 Nov 09

recently, i am trouble over the money problem.indeed, my smile lost lots and also worry about the money..everyone said, human can live without money, but human can live happily without money. spend every cent need to be consider...

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smallcloud i am happiness right now but the lack of money make me trouble. i am glad that i am not on debt but the life still so hard, without enough money. i am hardly to imagine those people that living with the debt it sounds bitter, is it?

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 9 Nov 09

recently, i am trouble over the money problem.indeed, my smile lost lots and also worry about the money..everyone said, human can live without money, but human can live happily without money. spend every cent need to be consider...

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smallcloud u are so nice.. but it is hard for me to smile when i am troubling over the financial problem some of my fren even introduce me to do those direct sales but i dun wish to do as i think i am harming others if i take the jobs. hope the life can be getting...

10 Nov 09

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 9 Nov 09

i am worrying my partner becoz of the job he is working right now. he feels not so happy and even he do so much overtime oso cant get what he should earn. i start worry about him and also our future. i am a student still got...

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smallcloud yup, now actually got a job stand by there for him. but in holland, is worked for his aunt. i cant bear him and he, too. now even we are at singapore and malaysia, we also cant tolerate the distance make us so far away from each other(i go to singapore need...

10 Nov 09

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