spamind

@spamind (70)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Is it possible to find friends in foreign countries?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 30 Oct 10

Friendship often require time-consuming process. Not something that is created by abracadabra. It takes time , and togetherness until we later realize to have found a more than friends ... find a friend.

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spamind Hi, gengeni I think it is possible to find friends in foreign countries. And there will have many. Sometimes, we may met the stranger who have same opinion on things. In this case, it is easy for us to become friends. The difficulty to make friends in...

30 Oct 10

Are you an optimist or a pessimist?

legspinismylife2 @legspinismylife2 (181) • India 7 Oct 10

i know this seems like a ridiculous question but please respond i know you might tell you are an optimist just to show that you are happy.but i want an honest response. Come out and tell and cure your problem If you are a...

optimism

pessimism

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spamind Both, For the most things, I may be a optimist. But I get used to picture out the worst situation for the things in the future and try to get the better result by my effort before the worst time come. The attitude will help me to concentrate on my endeavour...

7 Oct 10

Do you think there are still undiscovered secrets in the universe?

sender621 @sender621 (14890) • United States 12 Jun 10

I have often wondered when i look up into the sky. i try to see beyond stars, galaxies and time. We like to think that we know everything there is to know abour the world we all live in. But are there still undiscovered secrets...

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secrets

universe

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spamind I do believe there are many secrets in the universe on our planet. The experience to stare at an ant or enjoy the caress of breeze will recall me the feeling of human beings' tiny. There must have many things we do not know. How wonderfull the world is !

12 Jun 10

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Living in fear

Always smiling @allknowing (139701) • India 12 Jun 10

Unannounced thunder and lightning has now become a daily feature it seems. And when this happens it always results in destruction and even lives are lost. It was never like this say a few years ago. One lives in constant fear. If...

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spamind Maybe the knowledge of thunder and lighning can release the fearing. I remembered that the program of National geography has introducted the forming,and processing of thunder and lighting. There are suggestions how to decreas the damage caused by them. And...

12 Jun 10

When do you rate a person a negative (-)?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 8 Apr 10

I have noticed that most people here rate people negatively if the person doesn't agree with them. It's truly disappointing to know that we're all in this discussion yet we can't help but become frustrated or insulted when someone...

negative

rating

star rating

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spamind Negative person is someone who may transfer his or her negative attitude or mood to others,I think. I may meet one. (Just one,hope no more)varication must be exsit between two human beings,even the twins. The negative person I met just always complaine the...

8 Apr 10

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Hobbies good--------or----------bad

Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 8 Apr 10

I read an article last week,its argument is that it's vain that if ur hobbies have no business with the work field u engage in though they bring u great knowledge ,also u start to pick a hobby late in rest of ur life,coz u donnt...

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spamind Hi, mac_fish. Hobby is hobby,I think. Just follow our heart. When one do interested in something and keep learning or enjoying it,the question of whether the hobby related with one's work is not important, maybe. For those who can do what they like and...

8 Apr 10

Learning Tips: Check Your learning types!

NoSides @NoSides (66) • Indonesia 3 Feb 10

People learn with different kind of ways. Some people finds it easier to learn by listening. Some people prefer to study by looking at things. Some other people, can understand stuffs easily when they do and experiment. There are...

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spamind A audio-visual-kinetic learner,I think, I am. I've get used to listen to a fixed radio program to learn language and like to go through technology web for news and prefer to experience the new things which I've heard about but never touched in the real...

8 Feb 10

life or money

thebestmom @thebestmom (1104) • Philippines 8 Feb 10

what is more important to you, to be a very wealthy man where you can buy all the things you want in life but not happy with your family, or no money but ha a very happy family?

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spamind money can't bring happy to me. My home financial background is not enviable.I felt so happy when the first time I brought a mp3 player with my part-time job wage in the university. And I miss the feeling even through I can buy laptop easily. I also brought...

8 Feb 10

nbsb

jhamhel @jhamhel (3) • Philippines 3 Oct 09

Everytime our friends have a get together the subject on boyfriend thing always comes out and they keep questioning why I don't engage into a relationship. I am one of those "no-boyfriend-since-birth" ladies and I am okay with it...

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spamind welcome to mylot jhamhel. No worry.Maybe the one makes your heart beat fast has not appear yet. Even your Mr. right is stay with you, it is impossible to be always happy. I'm enjoy my single time now. Coz I know that there will have quarrels with BF and...

23 Oct 09

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nbsb

jhamhel @jhamhel (3) • Philippines 3 Oct 09

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spamind welcome to mylot, jhamhel. Do not worry.Maybe the one makes you heart beat fast has not appear yet. Even your Mr. Right is stay with you,it is impossible to be happy every second. I'm enjoy my single time now. Coz I know that quarrels with BF and...

23 Oct 09

Lending money to friends but didn't get repaid

hypum356 @hypum356 (42) • China 20 Oct 09

Hi my friends, have you ever got experience like this, you lent some money to your friends, but he or she forgot about this whole thing after many days and you feel shy or embarrassed to ask for it?

lend money get repaid

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spamind I've met the case and asked my friend directly to pay meals for me and remind he or she that they need not to return my money back.Usually it works. They will soon give my money back.

21 Oct 09

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Do you trust your friends??

sanchet @sanchet (110) • India 20 Oct 09

Ok here are a few options for you: 1. No. 2. Yes, Definitely. 3. I would like to think so, but you never know!!! 4. Its me they shouldn't trust ... haha!! Try to be as descriptive as possible.

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trust

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spamind some are worth and can be trusted definitely. some are not. hope all of us can have friends who will listen to our complaints and share our happiness.

20 Oct 09

A sudden burst of laughter while walking alone... does this happen to you?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 20 Oct 09

or you are extremely good in controlling your emotions. It happens sometimes when I think of funny experiences or jokes that a friend recently cracked that I laugh not realizing I am in public place. I don't feel bad after that...

laughing alone

laughter

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spamind It's ok.I myself and my friends will smile or laugh without realizing it in the public place when some funny expreience suddenly appeared.Every little detail in our life is worth to be appreciated.Sometimes,when I'm in blue,recall the funny experiences help me...

20 Oct 09

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I've moved to Nanchong, China

pierone @pierone (1893) • Italy 23 Aug 09

Well, at least I've done it! I've leaved Italy and moved to Nanchong, Sichuan, China. After gone there 2 times, I've decided to try to live in Nanchong. Is not so easy for a foreigner start a new life in China, but I'm trying to...

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spamind Hi, pierone. So nice to learn that you like your new life in your wife's country from your words. I think the best way to adjust your life in a new country is to learn the language of the country which carried the culture of the nation. Enjoy your new...

23 Aug 09

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Foreigners who know your language

dex1007 @dex1007 (556) • Malaysia 13 Aug 09

Notice how learning new languages these days have become a sort of trend. Many people now know more than 2 language or so. With so many of us migrating or staying in other countries, we try to learn their language. I personally...

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spamind learning is a habit,I deadly believe the sentence.It is the culture that carried by a language and the persons who speak the langauge attracted me deeply. Put the economic and politics aside,I hope to possess as many langauges as I can. Certainly, it is so...

14 Aug 09

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Do you care about time to call or visit?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 13 Aug 09

During summer, old people like to take a nap, but often disturbed by calling. Do you care about time to call or visit? Would you call or visit late?

people

thinker

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spamind It must be considered before I call some one,even friends. Everybody may met the case that your call made other's in trouble.I've exprienced that I called my best friends several times,and heard that she flushed the toilet during the chat.It make all of us...

13 Aug 09

i wanna get a new english name.please give me a hand

classicality @classicality (13) • China 6 Aug 09

Recently ,i wanna change my old english name and get a new one.But it's hard for me ,a person from non spoken-enhlish countries,to get a meaningful and nice english name.If you have a nice name,just tell me .then you'd better tell...

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spamind My English name is created by myself according to my own name's pronunciation. In most case, the English speaker and easily remember the name which follow the pronunciation rules.

7 Aug 09

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Overtone-Are the leaders correct all the time?

lcainiao @lcainiao (201) • China 6 Aug 09

When a leader delivered a speech on the flatform, saying'the rooster can lay eggs.' The employees setting opposite felt inarticulate. In a while, they agreed in chorus, saying 'we have seen with our own eys.' The leader then...

employee

leader

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spamind Flatter the leader is one of the tips in office life, I think .I've noticed that those who accustomed to say ‘we have seen with our own eyes’is preferred by the leader. However, when facing the risk, they are easily cowered. The leader likes to be flattered...

7 Aug 09

What are some of the dumbest questions you have ever come across?

hollyhock33 @hollyhock33 (29) 5 Aug 09

Dumb questions, stuff that make you go ermmm. Any question that you consider just unthinkable or imponderable. Once we were discussing about humanitarian work, and someone just popped up a question. If vegetarians eat vegetables,...

dumb questions

imponderable

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spamind Why you do not like me? ---- difficult.I'm not intend to hurt anyone.

5 Aug 09