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stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 18 Feb 11

I am trying to start up a parenting magazine! YAY! Anyway, wondering ifa nyone has any tips, things I should know etc. I am trying to get people to send their info in to an email address but I dont think I can post it on here,...

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stacyv81 yea for sure, But I have four kids so I know all about that lol. Thanks for your thoughts~

18 Feb 11

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Jul 10

Ok, first let me say I am not judging anyone for any reason, I am just starting a discussion, and this is not intended to offend anyone... Fertility treatments, some cannot have a baby but wants one so bad they'll do almost...

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stacyv81 I think it is that urge to have something from you, a human being that is made from you, not that I would do in vitro ( I have enough kids lol) but I think that is why people chose invitro over adoption.

25 Oct 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 I can only imagine a c-section pain, I luckily never had to go through that, the thought of any surgery scares me. I feel for you on that!

30 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 Thank you! I agree, The midwife at my practice was not gonna give me anything but motrin, luckily for me the doctor was on the day I was discharged and I did get a few stronger meds. But the back pain is consistent, I am hoping they'll help me out.

30 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 My pain was taken care of in the hospital, but I mean after leaving the hospital, I am still having very severe back pain, and the motrin is not helping. The percocet they gave me helped some of the time, but others it just made me feel like crap. So, I...

30 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 That is what I mean you had to get some meds from someone else. That isnt fair, doctors should understand that some peoples pain might be worse than others, and they might need some pains meds, but Maybe doctors are worried about writing certain prescriptions,...

30 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

A friend of mine has just gone to a wake for a 16 year old girl who committed suicide...I dont know the girl, but it just breaks my heart! She wrote a letter to her family, and told a close friend that if she died not to let a boy...

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stacyv81 I agree I heard a saying before never give someone all of yourself because if they leave you have nothing left.. and that is true. Although it is good to be vulnerable in relationships, I think we should still keep a close look at who we are and what we have...

30 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 I am so sorry! I know that was difficult for you! I hate being pregnant! lol.. I love the outcome but the 9 months before are torture! lol.. Adopting is great too though because there are a lot of children who need that love.

25 Sep 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Sep 10

He was born on the 12th of September!! 6 lbs 15 oz 19 inches! The labor was 5 1/2 hours start to finish! Paperwork was barely done at the hospital when he came I went in and put those people to work lol! (4th baby) How did...

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stacyv81 Thank you!! he's perfect! =) You had some small babies! =) I dont know what caused all the pain, I tore but it wasnt that bad, but it was mostly uterine contractions after the baby, I guess the pains just get worse the more you have, Idk..

25 Sep 10

bonnie @bunnybon7 (50973) • Holiday, Florida 29 Jul 10

well, i decided to put this in a discussion since im cooled down a little now. yes. we were getting along ok.me and sons gf. i was really trying with everything. then, again, this morning, she took off before i...

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stacyv81 Yea I agree not only is it annoying for you but also, not responsible, because leaving a child home with a sleeping adult is the same as leaving him alone, unless he is sleeping too and the sleeping adult KNOWS they are taking care of the child....So, I dont...

30 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Jul 10

Ever seen that show on TLC? I mean apparently it is pretty normal for a woman to go thru an entire pregnancy and never know it! I say this because it happens often enugh to make an entire series of tv shows out of it! I dont...

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stacyv81 yea I have heard that antibitoics effect birth control, I know someone who had twins on birth control because of antibiotics, seems doctors would make a priority of letting women know that when prescribing antibiotics...but anyway...It does seem odd one...

29 Jul 10

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 27 Jul 10

My oldest daughter (4) left last night to stay with her grandparents for 2 days. None of our kids have ever been away from us for more than 3 hours for a date night. I cried and I am feeling like part of my heart is empty right...

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stacyv81 She is thank you she is prefectly well and a normal child... thanks for asking! =)

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 29 Jul 10

Tornado's...they have a tornado watch and a tornado warning.... A warning is more extreme than a watch....right?....why? It doesnt make sense to me and I am hoping someone can rationalize this and explain it to make sense to...

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stacyv81 lol yea it sounds good both ways...the way you put it, but Its always been confusing to me =_) And they are both a bit frightening.

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Jul 10

I was watching a show on tv about the women above 40 who are having children and some people say way to go and others say how selfish! Where do you stand in this debate? Do you think it is fair that people have something to...

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stacyv81 Well.....I dont know you cant really judge every father that way especially now as there are more and more working moms and more and more stay at home dads. But youre right you shouldnt judge anyone, let alone decide who should and when they should bear...

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Jul 10

I was watching a show on tv about the women above 40 who are having children and some people say way to go and others say how selfish! Where do you stand in this debate? Do you think it is fair that people have something to...

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stacyv81 Well they call them selfish because they think their want for a child is outranking their childs need for a parent...because they will die before their child reaches a certain age, and will no longer have a parent... However, I chooose the side that says...

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 29 Jul 10

Tornado's...they have a tornado watch and a tornado warning.... A warning is more extreme than a watch....right?....why? It doesnt make sense to me and I am hoping someone can rationalize this and explain it to make sense to...

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stacyv81 no, A warning states to watch out for a tornado, one has been spotted in your area which to me means...watch A watch says beware there is a chance that one might form, which to me means warning That doesnt answer my question

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Jul 10

Just curious, what was your experience with preterm labor?Does it hurt the same? Please answer if you know!! Thanks!!

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stacyv81 I was curious to others experiences I went into preterm labor with my first, but luckily they stopped it in time, and I went on to have a full term baby... But I was asking because in most of the websites and things on preterm labor they say some may not...

29 Jul 10

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Jul 10

What do you think about those who judge those who have children based on the ability to afford them? I mean if you wait until you can afford a child or children, you'll never have them lol... And how much is enough to afford...

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stacyv81 Very true! =)

28 Jul 10

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