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savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 30 Dec 08

If you live in the city can you raise food? There were places called Victory gardens on vacant lots during the 2nd World War, would you be willing to try that again? I know there are some cities that are doing this I've seen it...

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stejhas My husband and I aren't able to grow a garden in our yard either because it is VERY small and we have 2 dogs and 2 kids.... we are thinking next year about offering someone 1/2 of everything we grow if they let us use a spot in their yard. Maybe you and...

30 Dec 08

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stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 26 Dec 08

My step-dad, who is in his 60's, was telling a racial joke about U.S. President-elect Obama the other day... The 'joke' was something like this, "I wonder where Pres. Obama is going to live" - our response was, obviously, "well,...

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stejhas LOL.. That's cool... I call him Grandpa too since that's what my kids know him to be! LOL You have a good point, and I agree the worst part was that my daughter was obviously worried about where Obama would live! Kind of funny, but then again, not so much.......

26 Dec 08

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stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas I think this 'abuse' of the system is what frustrates me the most... I have never gotten assistance before, and I'm not asking for much --- I just wish someone could be there for average, hard-working families when they start to crumble. I'm sorry that your...

22 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas I'm sure we'll figure it all out. We've never been rich, but we've never had to do without either... all this is new to me and I am clueless about all the programs out there that help struggling families. I guess I'm going to have to let the secret out of...

22 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas Those are all good suggestions. I had never thought of posted a WANTED add... I might have to do that. I heard earlier today that a church in the area has a food pantry one Wednesday a month where we can buy some groceries for 25 cents a pound... the next one...

22 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas Thanks for the support... I have been searching for somewhere else to turn. So far I have not found anything ON Christmas Day. (A lot of the churches held their free meals yesterday) I'm not trying to be too picky, but I'm determined to find a way to make...

22 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas It's a shame how truly unjust the government programs really are.... having never been in a really "needy" situation before, I had NO CLUE I would feel so let down - just as you were. The only thing I can take from this whole experience is that the government...

22 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 22 Dec 08

I am so angry right now.... My husband's business of 10+years failed at the beginning of December, so we have been doing nothing all month but looking for jobs, applying and waiting (hoping) to hear back. Needless to say this...

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stejhas Thanks for the support. I agree that spending time with the family is the most important thing about the holiday. I'm so glad that even though we have little else, we still do have each other - and that's the important part. We have been living off the most...

22 Dec 08

Denise_Tung @Denise_Tung (647) • China 20 Dec 08

I am sick, again and for the whole next week I will have to stay at home and relax, as the doctor has advised. Then got so many thought about the relationship I've been involved and confused in the past two months. A married...

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stejhas I agree that the married man should be left alone. It's obvious he doesn't care about you in the way that you care for him because HE IS STILL MARRIED! NEVER get involved with a man that claims to love you, but remains married to someone else!!!! You were...

20 Dec 08

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Annmac @Annmac (949) 19 Dec 08

We found out a fortnight ago that my hubby is dying of Cancer and the only way I can describe how I'm feeling is 'grief'. I seem to be going through the same things I did when my son and parents died. I don't know if this is...

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stejhas TO THE BOTH OF YOU.... I am so sorry. I cannot imagine being in your position. I think feeling grief is the natural and human feeling to have. If I were in your positions, I would feel obligated to express my feelings to my loved one... let him know that I am...

19 Dec 08

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joerhonda @joerhonda (476) • United States 15 Dec 08

I was curious if anyone here has ever dated someone from an Internet dating site? I did once a few years back before I met my husband. It was just one date, but one I couldn't wait to get over! LOL! He definitely didn't seem to be...

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stejhas Congrats! I hope things work out as good for you as they did for us.... without my internet dating experience I KNOW I would have never dated a country boy... but I sure am glad I gave in and went out with him... Best thing that even happened to me! ;)

16 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 14 Dec 08

Just curious... My husband has been the owner/manager of a construction company in the midwest for the past 10 years... sure the business has it's ups and downs, but the construction industry seems to have FROZEN over the past few...

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stejhas Sad, sad, sad.... time for us to put the company to the side and find the husband a J-O-B.... wow... that's certainly going to be a different kind of lifestyle for us!

15 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 14 Dec 08

Plastic surgery? Prescription drugs and treatments? How far is to far? I feel good by hitting the tanning bed every now and then and applying an anti-aging face cream. My sister, however, pulls out all the stopes. What is true...

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stejhas That makes me feel so good coming from a guy that is not my husband. He feels the same way but you wouldnt belive the attention my sister gets.lol

14 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 14 Dec 08

so how many of you women out there eat the fish your husband catches, or is it just a sport for him and you

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stejhas Ya catch and release is the safe way.I'm not sure what i would do if actually brought one home to eat.lol

14 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 14 Dec 08

Just curious... My husband has been the owner/manager of a construction company in the midwest for the past 10 years... sure the business has it's ups and downs, but the construction industry seems to have FROZEN over the past few...

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stejhas That's great that LV is still prosperous... Although I'm shocked that the casinos are still making money. We were in LV a little over a year ago and I was suprised at all the changes that were made since the last time I was there... They're definitely trying...

14 Dec 08

stejhas @stejhas (209) • United States 14 Dec 08

Just curious... My husband has been the owner/manager of a construction company in the midwest for the past 10 years... sure the business has it's ups and downs, but the construction industry seems to have FROZEN over the past few...

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stejhas yeah, I had a feeling this was going to be happening everywhere. Basically all of our friends are in the industry and it's hard to see everyone we know struggling to find something to do for work. I used to be the book-keeper for the company, but lately all...

14 Dec 08

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