tanzie

@tanzie (8)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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why do some men feel threatened by career women

chubkem @chubkem (7) • Nigeria 12 Sep 06

i see nothing wrong in being a career woman,since men also have their own careers,they should not be intimidated by career

career women

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tanzie I think that's because men are deep down afraid that they won't be "needed" or "useful" in that woman's life. And that takes away the role of "provider" from them, which is the role that society has demanded of men since times immemorial.

12 Dec 06

Love marriage vs Arrange Marriage

manish_arote @manish_arote (5) • India 6 Dec 06

Love Marriage : Resembles procedural programming language. We have some set of functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we...

marriage

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tanzie Facts: *We don't get married to make our parents happy. *If one feels that "my marriage should be my parents' responsibility" then that person should never get married! *Life isn't meant to be dull and boring. *Love marriage usually ensures that you've...

6 Dec 06

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Help me to help her

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 5 Dec 06

Please help me. My best friend is with a new guy. She is blinded by the NEWNESS of the relationship and doesn't see it for what it really is. He doesn't allow her to talk to her friends anymore, he forced her to cut ties with her...

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tanzie Tell her about a "friend" who has similar problems and ask her what you should do to advise this other friend. Lead her on to come up with the right answers and then gently point out that the friend is in fact her. Good luck

6 Dec 06

Would you be content if....

StellaGirl @StellaGirl (96) • United States 5 Dec 06

What if the man you fell in love with told you that he wants you to be a housewife and raise the children, cook the meals, and tend to the house while he works? Sounds simple doesn't it? Well, what if that man ALSO told you that...

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tanzie The fact that you are asking this quetion shows that deep down you already have yor doubts. follow your instincts - drop him cos he sure doesn't love you. He may care but LOVE never dominates and lays down the rules. Trust your instincts and leave him no...

6 Dec 06

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Do the younger generation of men today expect to be waited on hand and foot?

emisle @emisle (3822) • Ireland 4 Dec 06

If and when I get married, there is absolutely no way on earth, that my husband is going to get away with doing no housework! My dad helps out around the house, no where near as much as my mum does, but he's a civil engineer and...

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tanzie On the contrary, I think with more women working these days, men have started realizing that they too need to help around in the house. However, men whose wives stay at home often end up "lording" it over the weekend!! The matter should be dealt with...

5 Dec 06

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Kids acting and dressing older than they are

kristypants @kristypants (305) • Canada 4 Dec 06

I was at the mall yesterday and I saw these girls. They couldn't have been older than 10. All of them were wearing make-up, tight fitting clothes, and shoes that had a bit of a heel on them. They seriously looked like mini 16 year...

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tanzie I think its very difficult for parents to handle a situation like this. You have to draw a line somewhere even though its tough. Perhaps parents can set the right note by appreciating smartly dressed children (as opposed to the wannabe models) when their...

5 Dec 06

Rough childhood!

baysmummy @baysmummy (1637) • Australia 4 Dec 06

It really annoys me, Since i have joined mylot i see so many people who blame the way they are now and how bad their life has become on how their parents brought them up and what happened to them when they were growing up! When...

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tanzie I totally agree with you - too many people are playing victim all the time instead of doing something to change their lot! Its very annoying to see people from relatively smooth backgrounds complaining about the most minor growing up problems and equally...

5 Dec 06