thess11

@thess11 (81)

Philippines • Age 56

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Do you have a habit of saying "It's okay" even though you know it's not?

rhan04 @rhan04 (307) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

Well, I have that habit. Sometimes, it's automatic. If my partner said or did something that displeased me, he would apologize and I would just say that it's okay even though that deep inside, I feel bad about it. I'm not...

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thess11 It just shows that you are mature in accepting apologies. However, be cautious because sometimes the unsettled feeling may just burst up at the right situation and all the record of wrongs will be released. There are people whose responses to situations are...

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Why Do People Go To School?

jadiel @jadiel (113) • United States 11 Feb 07

I know people go to school for different purpose. Tell me why we need to go and be educated?

life

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thess11 On a general note, people go to school to be prepared for life...meet and understand different kinds of people, understand life's complications and be able to face and handle life's challenges....

11 Feb 07

do you love to do yoga

gharinder @gharinder (2044) • India 11 Feb 07

does any one of you is interested in yoga and has really benefited from it

life

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thess11 I am not interested in yoga. To obtain the same benefit, I exercise and meditate in God's word. It gives spiritual nourishment and refreshes my soul..:-)

11 Feb 07

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If you could renovate one room in your house, which room would it be?

cloudwatcher @cloudwatcher (6861) • Australia 11 Feb 07

You have received a very large legacy, but it can only be spent on renovating one room. What changes would you make? Dream and share your dream with us.

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thess11 i would love to dress up my kitchen so it will be more inviting for the family members to gather for an eating fellowship...:-)

11 Feb 07

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How Important is yr Freedom to you?

scorpionsoul @scorpionsoul (185) • India 11 Feb 07

I know it sounds like a stupid question for Freedom is dear to all, but have you never stopped to think that people young or old, have never achieved the kind of freedom one would want to enjoy freely and without guilt.. If you...

freedom for oneself

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thess11 Freedom comes after we are through with our responsibilities. This means that I only have the right to be free once I have fulfilled the more important responsibilities of being a mother....Once this is satisfied, then I can do whatever I want...I love being...

11 Feb 07

Do you think Old Folks have the right to Celebrate Valentine?

ajinomoto23 @ajinomoto23 (1057) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

Yesterday I attend a meeting with some old folks who love Bllroom dancing. Some age 90, 80, 70. They enjoy dancing. We will have a Valentine Party with the Mayor on Feb. 13. I think we will have fun. All will be dress in Red.

valentine

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thess11 Everybody deserves to enjoy life. The old ones have all the right to enjoy every moment of their lives and that includes celebrating Valentine's day. :-)

11 Feb 07

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What is your plan for valentine's day?

vivien_9 @vivien_9 (229) • Philippines 11 Feb 07

Do you go for movie?dinner?

love

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thess11 I might go out with some friends. No date or anything romantic stored for the night...i already have had a Valentine's date with kids today and since the day is a weekday, I might either go out with close friends or go home early.:-)

11 Feb 07

How many of you have read "The Wedding"?

zannette @zannette (17) • Philippines 11 Feb 07

"The Wedding" is another great book of Nicholas Parks and if you love "The Notebook" well this is a continuation. As a person who has been married for around 13 years and a mother of 4 kids the book is like a knife cutting the...

books

couples

the wedding

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thess11 Hmmm...started reading it but i ended up bored...I found the pace slow ...or probably i was just not ready to read the book...or perhaps i am not really into reading love stories...I will attempt to read it again one time and hopefully, i'll get to finish...

11 Feb 07

How do you overcome a broken relationship?It is very hard.Please advice.

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 10 Feb 07

I think my relationship is going to end soon though we like each other,our parents are against and we think we want to make them happy too so we decided to go away but it hurt as hell.Tell me how can I overcome this pain?

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thess11 It is not easy. There is no simple formula for this...But it would help to go out with friends and not talk about it...Look around and see beautiful places...Call friend you have not communicated with for so long and meet with them....:-) This might help...

10 Feb 07

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the virus in human life

niitesh @niitesh (1653) • India 8 Feb 07

Girls are like computer virus, They enter your life, Scan ur pocket, Transfer ur money. Edit ur mind, Download their problems, Delete ur smile and hang ur future!! and not a single anti virus works you need to format it...

gurls

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thess11 But take note that this is the virus that is always pursued by a prospective patient.. Men love to be infected with the virus..:-)

10 Feb 07

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If there is one thing you want to hear from your partner what would it be?

killersmile @killersmile (75) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

" i love you with all my heart, and i will do anything just to keep you" how about yours?

relationship

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thess11 I would love to hear him say...."Will you marry me?" :-)

10 Feb 07

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Should Lovers Keep Secrets Of Their Past From Each Other

mikekire @mikekire (146) • Nigeria 9 Feb 07

Should lovers keep secrets of their past from their lovers especially when they know that i might break up the relatioship...

secrets

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thess11 If both are ready to discuss about their past, then why not? however if this will just ruin the relationship, it would be better not to say a word about it..If what we will say will not do anybody any good then we might as well keep quiet.

10 Feb 07

girls are jealous by nature!!!

shekharj @shekharj (296) • India 10 Feb 07

It is always heard that girls are jealous by nature!Is that right? i just want to know your views.

jealous

nature

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thess11 It always depends. I am not the jealous type of a woman. I always ensure that my guy would not attempt to look for someone. Assurance is very important. Demonstration of love is also needed. I make the most out of every moment that we are together so he would...

10 Feb 07

i feel so sad :(((

yahooguy @yahooguy (508) • Romania 9 Feb 07

i feel so sad and i don't no way .... becaus i don't have a boyfriend and i can do anythink ...i dont no way i really feel like this :(((

sad

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thess11 It happens to people. We have emotions so from time to time, we can feel sadness or loneliness. But please do not wallow in sadness...Consider it like a bird that flies over your head. You cannot prevent it from going there but you can prevent it from putting...

10 Feb 07

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love

datir1 @datir1 (503) • India 10 Feb 07

is love before marriage or marriage before love?

love

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thess11 Oh, I have been in a situation when I got married out of obligation but not because of love. Unfortunately, the marriage did not work...so for me, it should always be being in love before getting married...In the first place, love should be the foundation of...

10 Feb 07

wats the secret of succesful relationship

schummi @schummi (924) • India 10 Feb 07

what is it that makes a relationship succesful.i donno why but i strongly feel that it has nothing to do with how many years you have been together but by the thing how much youmiss the person when you are away from him/her for...

love

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thess11 I think it is the trust and faith in a relationship that would make it lasting...Accepting and valuing differences will contribute to a strong relationship.

10 Feb 07

Does love hurt???

Jleivang @Jleivang (374) • India 9 Feb 07

Love sounds perfect but I think It has more imperfections in it. It feels good to know that you are being loved. But, this feeling isn't lasting. Inspite of being in a relationship, loneliness still exists, and i wonder why?

love

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thess11 The only person that can hurt you most is the one who you love most. I heard that from somebody. So if you want to be in love, be prepared to be also hurt. They go together because the hurting part makes us become better persons and be better prepared for life...

10 Feb 07

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what will you do if your partner stinks?

erl212 @erl212 (303) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

what will you do if your partner stinks?does she or he has a bad breath?

love

people

relationships

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thess11 Oh,,,I will have to try to tell him or influence him to make personal hygiene a priority. I can start by giving some hygiene products and make sure that he uses it...And follow up with some subtle discussions about hygiene, health and personality development...

10 Feb 07

What is the 1 thing you would like to change about your life?

rishubakshi13 @rishubakshi13 (202) • United States 10 Feb 07

Are we all fully satisfied with our lives?Deep in our heart we all think that may be we could change something our lives.Like i wish I would not fall ill so frequently.have a better health.What is the 1 thing you wish you could...

general

life

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thess11 I would rather not be alone raising my kids. But things happen unexpectedly so here I am working hard to be the father and mother of my kids....I just would like to experience having a man by my side helping me with everything that I am going through..and...

10 Feb 07

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