thunder8741

@thunder8741 (49)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

try to find the reason we are being

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Do you know how to say "No"? Can you do it with out hurting?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 13 Dec 09

Life is giving and getting. Your friends and relatives may often ask you for some help. If it is genuine request you can help them within your capacities. If it is not genuine and if it is not with your capacities, you have to say...

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thunder8741 yes,it is an art.

14 Dec 09

Do you smile when you talk to people?

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 30 Apr 09

I used to smile a lot when i talk to people. But i found out that i smile less and less. I don't know why. Maybe because of the stress of life. I still smile to my friends when i talk, and i try to smile to my workmate when i...

people

smile

talking

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thunder8741 i don't know if i smile when i talk with people.when i hang out with friends,i try to listen, try to feel what they feel.i try to understand their sow,joy.that is good.smile is just a reflection of your mood,not mood itself.no need to pay too much attention to...

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My Grandma turned 90 yesterday

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 10 Jan 09

Yesterday was her birthday and today there will be an open house for her at her church. I live 2 1/2 hours away and will not be able to attend because of bad weather. A lot of my cousins will be there. I haven't seen many of them...

basement

laundry

washer

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thunder8741 congratulations to your grandma.(*^_^*)

11 Jan 09

What do you think?

utsadetti @utsadetti (4589) • United States 18 Dec 08

Many men do not like pink colour, do you agree with me? If there are some of men like pink colour, what do you think about him? Is he a man who ones of melankolis person?

colour

favourite colour

pink

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thunder8741 i think it is weird a man in pink.

18 Dec 08

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Do You Prefer To Have a Maid.. or a Chef ?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 16 Dec 08

I woke up this morning really weak and tired, AND hungry, and I said to myself " I wish I had a maid to clean up this place for me" then I said "Hmmm, I could also use a chef, I'm so freaken hungry I could eat the chef right now"...

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thunder8741 i never thought about it before.but now i wanna have both.is it a little greedy? ok,maybe i just need to fin\d a wife.

17 Dec 08

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Why investing so much money on movies..?Instead they can help poor people.

dsharat @dsharat (456) • India 17 Dec 08

Movies and TV shows have become one of the best parts of entertainment.There are so many producers and finance companies,who are ready to invest their money on movies and TV shows etc.,That too in Millions.They proudly say that...

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thunder8741 very good question.very good.when a lot of people are starving,we just give our money to those stars,comanies... i think we should not pay too much on this,as dsharat said ,we should hlep the poor

17 Dec 08

Do you wash your face before going to bed at night?

shar_25 @shar_25 (1339) • India 17 Dec 08

Its the most important thing for beauty conscious people and is a basic step of one's skin care regimen. But how many of you really follow it? Honestly, when I am back home late at night and am really tired, I mostly skip this...

beauty

face

skin care

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thunder8741 never.and why?i am going to bed,not to get up

17 Dec 08

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Would you Donate Youyr Organs after You Died?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 16 Dec 08

I know that there are a lot of people donating their organs after they died to help other people who needs organs. For me, I think I do not have the courage to do so and my family would surely not allow me to do it. Would you...

donate

organ

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thunder8741 i will donate my organs after death. if everyone does this, millions of people will be saved.you won't feel pain and you don't hve to worry lose more,but what you do will save lives

16 Dec 08

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What do you play at home during your free time?

Valadynx123 @Valadynx123 (278) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

I play online games. I play billiards, chess, basketball and I jog at the park. Last month I was going to a gym but now I stopped because the gym was closed. I am planning to go to another gym currently.

billiards

chess

play recreation free time

play the games

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thunder8741 i like frozenthrone dota.when i have time ,i wanna plya myself or with my friends.

16 Dec 08

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lessons

amitj020 @amitj020 (124) • India 16 Dec 08

i always keep on wondering man i should not have done this when i was young .probably i should have done it other way.have u guys felt this way that u could have done some stuff differently had you learnt it before?what life...

lessons

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thunder8741 i miss a lot.if i can redo it...no regret.keep on live your life,don't look back.no good but regret

16 Dec 08

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Is the news supposed to always present something new?

hdjohnson @hdjohnson (2981) • United States 16 Dec 08

If you watch the news these days, all you hear is about the economy and the state of recession. I noticed over the past several weeks that they continue to talk about a certain court case about Brian Nichols, he killed some folks...

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thunder8741 same here in china.seems that all bad guys everywhere.you find one,then another,then another...why they take risk to do this?money, power...

16 Dec 08

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On Police Forces

mookhor @mookhor (304) • India 16 Dec 08

We have polices who are under either the state or the center. It is learned that they are to maintain the law and order of the society.But we have grown up with such ideas that always stand against the polices. We have always seen...

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thunder8741 not all police are bad.that depends on the state leader and the goverment.police just follow orders,that's their job and duty.the one command them is critical

16 Dec 08

Where does it exist..

moneymaya @moneymaya (901) • India 16 Dec 08

Hey friend here is one question I don't know how many of thinking about it , but every body know that there is a soul in human body , can andbody have realize it ?? if yes the where does it exist in the body ..???

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thunder8741 no,i don't think soul exist.when you die,everything will perish.no ghosts no gods.just huamn dead or alive

16 Dec 08

Beating the breathalizer that the police have for drinking, can it be done?

moondancer @moondancer (7433) • United States 16 Dec 08

On the program they try many different ways to see if a drinking person could beat the breathalizer. Here are a few things they tried, it is said that sucking on a penny because of it's properties will work. It did not. Holding a...

honey

lemon

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thunder8741 drive after drink no good.to find a way to cheat the police is worse. you'd better drink water instead of alcohal, that absolutely works

16 Dec 08

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How often do you do your laundry?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 16 Dec 08

I usually only do my laundry once a week. I can get away with it right now. I don't know how long I'll be able to do it that way. Right now I can. :-) It saves on electricity right now.

laundry

often

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thunder8741 i wash them as soon as i can't find another suit or jeans clean. lol

16 Dec 08

How often do you do your laundry?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 16 Dec 08

I usually only do my laundry once a week. I can get away with it right now. I don't know how long I'll be able to do it that way. Right now I can. :-) It saves on electricity right now.

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thunder8741 when i can't find clean clothes LOL

16 Dec 08

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Cruelty Abounds

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 16 Dec 08

Did anyone see the interview on this morning Today Show with the VERY brave 75 year old lady who was beaten, tortured , may have suffered a mild heart attack during the attack, and then kidnapped in her own car? Her face was a...

cruelty

old lady

teenagers

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thunder8741 oh.totally agree.these bad guys should be punished to the full extent. if there is no war,no cruelty, how good the world will be!

16 Dec 08

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which do u prefered? beauty or brainy partner?

gaylalou690 @gaylalou690 (361) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

well if im going to choose i would go for brainy partner. well if i have an intelligent partner i would have the most competent and most exciting relationship cause he/she might help me to be rich and help me to some knowledge....

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thunder8741 i prefer a smart cute partner.beuaty is vain.isn't it?

16 Dec 08