trillan_20

@trillan_20 (183)

Canada • Age 42

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When Baby Brings The Blues

SinfulSweet @SinfulSweet (146) • Canada 4 Apr 09

I never expected to suffer from Post Partum Depression after having my daughter. I mean after all I had not suffered from it when I had my son. So I was in denial for the first six months after having her. My year has been crazy...

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trillan_20 I never experienced this with either of my children, however, it was always in the back of my mind. I definitley give you credit for speaking up, a lot of women would suffer in silence, its not something you should ever be embarassed about and you are one of...

7 Apr 09

Please Help Me!!!

tosha86 @tosha86 (133) • United States 2 Apr 09

I am pregnant and have the worst headache that I have had in my life! It started yesterday and is only getting worse! I have takin all the meds that im allowed but nothing is helping at all. I can't lay down or close my eyes...

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trillan_20 Oh I remember that pain. This happened to me with my first son, I sat in my bedroom for 2 days with the lights off because it hurt so much. The only thing that worked for me was herbal peppermint tea, I drank a few glasses of that and within a couple hours I...

2 Apr 09

Why belly piercing so popular among teen girls nowadays?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 30 Mar 09

So, here is my question for the girls. What really attracts you to have your belly pierced? What make you think that is sexy, or even hot? You did it because peer influence playing the major part of it? Or is that our new fashion?...

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trillan_20 I have to disagree. I think they get it done because they think it looks nice, I happen to think so anyway, on the right body of course. Piercings are so popular nowadays that its hard to even consider whether your parents would approve or whether your being...

2 Apr 09

Would you admit if you had a boob job?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 31 Mar 09

if you had had one done and done well enough to where it wasnt completely obvious would you admit if asked that you had one? or would you be embarrassed that some one guessed? or just not answer and let there be mystery? i...

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trillan_20 If someone was that embarrassed to admit that they had implants, maybe they should re-think even getting it done at all. I would admit it.

2 Apr 09

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Do you have inconsiderate neighbours?

regal_aeros @regal_aeros (2605) • Singapore 31 Mar 09

I'm currently staying in an apartment. And my neighbour has 4 very young children. I'm cool with all of them but there is one thing i hate about those kids. They have this fondness of throwing sand inside my front gate. And it...

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trillan_20 I wouldnt call your neighbours inconsiderate, they are children, and thats what children do. The best thing to do is just go to the parents and voice your concern to them, if nothing changes, then they are inconsiderate. I have been through 5 neighbours in the...

1 Apr 09

to tip or not to tip?

myralmedo @myralmedo (815) • Philippines 26 Mar 09

hi there:) are you the one who gives extra "tip" in a restaurants or in taking a cab/taxi, in restaus knowing that some are inclusive for their service charge?actually for me sometimes it depends on their performance especially...

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trillan_20 Well as a waitress, I have to say that I ALWAYS tip when I go out to eat. Most of you are right when you say that performance is a big factor on whether or not you tip. But for those who talk about slow service and the server not walking around with a big...

26 Mar 09

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SUMMER is ahead... what are your plans for it...

moon317318 @moon317318 (692) • Pakistan 26 Mar 09

[b]going somewhere on holidays..? or just staying home..? please share.... thank you...[/b]

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trillan_20 I cannot wait for summer to come!!! Im so sick of this cold weather and snow. My fav. part about summer is just taking a book across the street to the park and reading while my little guys play. Its super relaxing for me. I am also going away for one weekend...

26 Mar 09

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Bad In-Laws

jdholloway624 @jdholloway624 (46) • United States 23 Mar 09

I just have to vent about my in-laws. I know a lot of people say they have terrible in-laws, but I really think mine take the cake! To start with the father-in-law... first, the man is sexually attracted to me and not at all...

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trillan_20 Wow, you make my in-laws sound like angels. Why is it that you and your husband put up with this? Does your husband know that his father has been trying to sleep with his wife? The worst part is that your daughter has to suffer because of it. I realize that...

26 Mar 09

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do you like debating?

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 5 Mar 09

when someone states an opinion and it's not really what you believe do you debate it? can you state your opinion without being rude? I'm only asking because in another forum we have debate teams and i'm a member on one of the...

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trillan_20 I love debating. My only problem is that I have to debate on something that I am passionate about, something I know a great deal on. If its something that I dont really care about then I dont bother. I always try to do it in a polite manner, state my opinions...

26 Mar 09

My happiness for the episode on the Steve Wilkos show! I

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 21 Mar 09

I watched an episode on The Steve Wilkos show yesterday. And this episode just blew my mind! There were two young beautiful girls that were drug addicts. And one of them went to rehab, while the other girl was just getting there....

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trillan_20 I also missed this episode. However, I do love the show. I dont get to see it often as its on super late at night. But I think Steve is awesome because he never puts up with anyone crap and always sticks up for the people who deserve it.Especially the...

26 Mar 09

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5 1/2 weeks pregnant

daphne009 @daphne009 (301) • United States 23 Mar 09

I am 5 1/2 weeks now and feel terribly bloated. This is my third pregnancy and people say that you "show" earlier the more pregnancies you've had although my belly doesn't feel hard yet, it just feels/looks bloated. Is that all...

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trillan_20 Girl I feel your pain! With my second son, I was 10 weeks pregnant and I ran into an old friend in Walmart who happened to be pregnant as well, she goes, "oh we are about the same size, Im 6.5 months, how far are you?" I could have dropped dead in the diaper...

25 Mar 09

Facelifts and plastic surgery

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 24 Mar 09

Would you ever consider a face lift or plastic surgery? "Me" not in a million years. I can see if you had a bad accident or you were born deformed than that's different, but just because you have some wrinkles or you don't like...

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trillan_20 I absolutely WOULD!!! If I could afford it of course. When you think of plastic surgery im sure people like pamela anderson or joan rivers come to mind. Thats not usually the case. There is such thing as excessive plastic surgery, such as the two i mentioned....

25 Mar 09

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Do You Use The Internet On Your Cellphone, Or Do You Prefer The Computer?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28953) • Canada 24 Mar 09

While I use my computer for 96% of my internet use, I do use my cellphone on occasion. A couple of days ago just for something different, I downloaded a couple of games. I also looked up a youtube video I wanted to show a friend,...

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trillan_20 I downloaded a game last month from my cell phone and my bill this month was $100 and $22 of that was for internet roaming fees and $5 was for the game! $27 for 10 mins of internet use on my cell phone..ridiculous!!! I will be sticking to my laptop!!!

25 Mar 09

Octuplets Mum FIRES the free nurses provided to her????

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 24 Mar 09

I have been reading the occasional news story related to Nadya Suleman, the Mother of these octuplets; and have basically kept my opinions to myself so far. I have always found the whole situation to be bizarre at best and now...

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trillan_20 It is not physically possible to take proper care of 14 children, including the three disabled children, by yourself. Superwoman couldnt even do it alone. She has a lot of nerve to turn away the help that is being offered to her. People have gone out on a limb...

25 Mar 09

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Do you have a fetal doppler?

tosha86 @tosha86 (133) • United States 25 Mar 09

I am 11 weeks pregnant and bought a digital fetal doppler like the doctors use in the office. I really love it, I listen to my baby every day! I am just trying to figure out why the doppler will get a steady heart rate of 176 bpm...

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trillan_20 There were 2 reasons why I never got a doppler with my sons. #1 reason being is that I have heard that they dont work properly, and they are very expensive. And #2, I knew that I would be compulsive about it and if I ever couldnt find the heart beat or it was...

25 Mar 09

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How to bring children out from Fantasies? Is it normal?

Venkataraman @venkataraman_vc (5293) • Chennai, India 22 Mar 09

My son is watching much cartoons (like Spiderman, Superman, Batman and all kind of those 'Man's) Often he believes them to be real. I'm just trying to make him not believe those characters. He's bit improved now. Is it...

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trillan_20 Explain to him that its not real, but its ok for him to imagine these things. As a parent I would never discourage my children from imagining things, or make believing things. I think its a beautiful thing. I love watching them play with their toys and come up...

25 Mar 09

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stretch marks +bikini =??

darsa123 @darsa123 (36) • United States 23 Mar 09

i have 3 beautiful little girls! after number 2 i worked my butt off and got down to 113lbs, bought a bikini and pierced my belly button. i was feelin sexy again! 4 months later i was pregnant again! i got so frustrated i threw...

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not sexy no more

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trillan_20 When I got pregnant with my first I was 115 pounds, I could wear whatever I wanted and look great in it. After I had my second son, I was 200 pounds!!!! Which is a whole lot for me, seeing as im 5 foot nothing! It took me 3 years but I am back down to 115...

25 Mar 09

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