ulan12rc

@ulan12rc (222)

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Joined myLot 12 years ago

Beyond hardship...is an enormous gift.

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Would you betray your best friend to get success?

r0cker @r0cker (300) • India 23 Feb 13

Yesterday my friend gave a job interview. There the interviewer put him in the following situation. Imagine you & your best friend work in the same company. One day you get a job which will lead to your promotion if completed...

friend

job

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ulan12rc It happened to me way back three years ago but the other way around, my best friend betrayed me for a better job offer and promising career in a very sweet moves even though she knows my life stakes here. That's how far a best friend for me can go just to have...

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money can't buy happiness ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 23 Feb 13

Hello there ! Friends , they said that money can't buy happiness but what if my happiness is eating chocolates and cakes , isn't it that i need money to have those ? Or what if my happiness is to travel and travel , isn't it that...

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ulan12rc Hi Angelpink, You were too literal in your perception here, of course those material things you were pertaining can give you happiness but is it the true sense of the phrase? True happiness cannot be bought no matter what. You can have every material things...

23 Feb 13

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Health Insurance woes

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 5 Feb 13

In the past Tom has been lucky enough to be able to get employer provided health insurance. Well this year when their insurance came up for renewal, the company was not able to get accepted into a group plan as it is a relatively...

employee benefits

health insurance

woes

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ulan12rc Too bad for your husband hope that company will reimburse it immediately. Luckily we don't experience that situation, in my previous company they provided medicare for all employees in different types but all the same it is very satisfying for everyone. The...

6 Feb 13

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do you feel annoyed????

sporwal @sporwal (92) • India 6 Feb 13

hey guys. i have seen people updating each and everything on the facebook. i mean if they are at market or hotel or anywhere they will just tag. having a meal at home has also became so popular. and the worst of all which i find...

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ulan12rc Facebook is just one of the social networking system...come on give them a break let people enjoy what they want to do, let them express what they feel maybe it is their only way, if you felt annoyed avoid using Facebook or just ignore it as long as it doesn't...

6 Feb 13

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What brings meaning to your life?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 4 Feb 13

I enjoy spending time with my daughter and my husband. Doing things together that allows us to have quality time together. I enjoy reading good books and being active outside the house. I can't wait for the warmer weather. I love...

meaning

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ulan12rc What a tough question, lucky are those who can easily identify what brings meaning to their life. Really it is not easy to know who puts smile on your face and lights up your heart, who matters deeply and sustains you and who keeps the embers of your soul on...

5 Feb 13

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potato recipe

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 5 Feb 13

my family is madly in love with eatting potatoes and i have been doing either french fries,mashed,baked,curried.i even at times spice them and make spring rolls.i really would appreciate a new method to do the same potatoes that...

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ulan12rc We do love potatoes also, you can try more recipe by looking online my dear and they offer a lot more of different ways on how to do the cooking for sure your family will love to taste different kind this time. So surf now and enjoy!

5 Feb 13

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what is the best book that you have read?

Acechelyn22 @Acechelyn22 (5) • Philippines 5 Feb 13

Harry Potter is my favorite book. It is a series of seven fantasy novels written by J.K Rowling. It is about Harry's quest to overcome the dark wizard Lord Vodemort, who wants to become immortal,powerful and conquer the wizarding...

books

harry potter

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ulan12rc Welcome my dear, Bob Ong's book reminds me of someone who had introduced that book to me. Anyway for me I like Danielle Steel's novel especially the love and romance.

5 Feb 13

How long of a notice do you give your employee when you decide to quit a job?

babyanna @babyanna (1216) • China 2 Feb 13

Hi, my dear Mylotters~ Recently I just quit a job. It is an early education company. I loved the environment there but I didn't like the fact that my English skills aren't fully employed. Before I told my chief...

employee

notice

quit

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ulan12rc In general you should give your employer at least fifteen days notice it is if you are not in the key personnel but if you are, you need to give them one month or more notice. It is the usual practice, so that the employer can hire somebody to replace your...

3 Feb 13

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People at school and college

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 29 Jan 13

In my home country most children begin school at age 4 years old. They are in foundation year group. My son is now in Year 1 and his class is mixed with Year 2. He will keep his teacher for two years and hopefully his same...

children

school

students

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ulan12rc Now a days children are usually attending school at the age of 3, they can start socializing which I think is very necessary for growing kids. In my time I started at the age of 5 in pre-school and finished my degree at 20. I can continue taking more higher...

29 Jan 13

Sleeping on a form of transport

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 29 Jan 13

I love it when I can sleep in a comfortable compartment on an overnight train. That is an excellent way to save on the cost of a nights accommodation in pricey countries. When I sailed overnight from England to the Netherlands...

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ulan12rc I never get a chance traveling in a form of train with the long journey, wish I could someday, it is always a matter of minutes and I'm on my destination. But in a plane I can sleep like you if I have an eye mask, travel pillow and the small blanket, with this...

29 Jan 13

that unwanted emotions..-.-

Miss G @nhailojaye (207) • Philippines 29 Jan 13

I shouldn't be affected because I am moving on, right? But the fact that my ex-boyfriend tells me that he already has a new girl, it made me have this unwanted emotions that really bothers me now... I really hate myself for...

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ulan12rc It is a natural emotions what you've feeling right now as you have said you're just moving on so it means you are not yet done with him, you still feel that something for him that bothers you now. Need not to hate your feelings it will eventually subside as...

29 Jan 13

Separation to the 6th Degree!

devonavis @devonavis (1854) • Greece 27 Jan 13

First, you think the worst is a broken heart. What's gonna kill you is the second part. And the third is when your world splits down the middle. The fourth is you're gonna think that you fixed yourself. Fifth, you see them out...

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ulan12rc Hmmm...like fake a smile (what happened to the Big Smile?);) lie and say you're okay even though you're not because you're doing all these things out of desperation, my gosh! It is very sad to realize you are facing six degree of separation, really nice music...

27 Jan 13

Hug Me!

devonavis @devonavis (1854) • Greece 26 Jan 13

A hug is a wonderful gift to share, It is a way to show each other that we care. There is so much that a hug is able to do, When you feel those arms around you. A hug is a place to feel safe and warm, A comfort for a sad...

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ulan12rc Hug me please keep me warm hahaha, I just remember someone who asked me to hug him just a while ago before I see your post. Hugging is a wonderful feeling and must be given to each and everyone and right now I'm giving it you lols! When you hug a person you...

27 Jan 13

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Hows you dealt with angry Wives...???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 24 Jan 13

hi to all well, I guess you smiles on me, because I start this discussion, I'm single but watches married peoples usually fight with each other, I dunno why??? For me, If My Wife Gets angry on me I gives her chance to calm down...

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ulan12rc Never fight back that's it, neither wife or husband should learn how to control themselves when there is misunderstanding. Remember to let the mood surpass if the other half is angry because if you go on in that situation it will lead to arguments for sure. Be...

24 Jan 13

I´m going out of town

marguicha @marguicha (222967) • Chile 23 Jan 13

I will surelly miss mylot, but I have been invited to the country. Internet is not available nearby. I will miss you all, friends, and the everyday discussions. I will lose some money too, as I will not be earning online. Yet my...

countryside

vacations

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ulan12rc Enjoy the trip! Even though you're going to loss some money at least you can give your self a break, it's time for you to grab it have fun and relax... :)

24 Jan 13

Lost my idea, where did it go? help.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 23 Jan 13

about an hour ago I had read and responded to a discussion that triggered what I thought was a great idea for a discussion, ?so I finally got to the point where I w as going to sit down and write this really great discussions on...

whats up

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ulan12rc Hi Ms Hatley! It happens to me also there are lot of times when you are about to say something then suddenly lost the idea. I have to go back to my place and think about it over sometimes it works for me but not always... You can say it is due to your age but...

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Sometimes you just feel like crying, and there is no reason for it.

Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 23 Jan 13

I don't know why but i feel like crying today. This has been in me since many days but today it is overwhelming for me. Sometimes it happens, when i see every friend of mine so happy and settled. They are living their dreams, or i...

alone

crying

lost in life

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ulan12rc It is a hard feeling which we cannot resist, it happens to me most of the time this past months and when loneliness strikes me I don't know what to do, feeling so sad and crying. Whatever I do it will never get away, sometimes I'm asking when can I have the...

23 Jan 13

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When your life down,what will you do?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 22 Jan 13

Are you being matured when something goes down?We had different reactions because we all different in emotion.For me,i get bad mood,and fight someone.But i laugh after when i done it.It's me.

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ulan12rc I was wondering, how is it to be matured in such situation? I wish I could but I think I can't...hehehe confusing! ;) When I'm down and troubled usually I went to a saloon or spa and will spend my whole day out there for relaxation,it's my best remedy lols!

23 Jan 13

Are you scared to give strangers a ride?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 22 Jan 13

I often see people walking down the road. I would love to be able to give someone a ride. But with the times we are living in it's just not safe to pull over and ask someone if they need a ride. It's sad to think about those...

strangers

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ulan12rc It is so sad to think about it, there are lots of people who are really good and able to give help to others who are in need but now a days it is not easy to trust somebody instantly. We need to be careful for our own sake.

23 Jan 13

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Don't call me after 9

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 21 Jan 13

I don't like the phone ringing after 9. That is my quiet time. My daughter is sleeping and I'm relaxing. I never call anyone after 9pm because some people go to bed early and I don't want to be rude and wake them or their kids up....

phone calls

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ulan12rc Before it's quite annoying but now I get used to it, I have too. Me and my family have a different time gap, the kids are 5 hours ahead and my sisters are 6 hours, the other one is 11 hours due to this time gap my system become immune. Once my phone rings I...

22 Jan 13