visvambhari

@visvambhari (200)

India • Age 59

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How long did it take for your chicken pox scars to heal?

cutieweii @cutieweii (374) • Malaysia 8 Oct 07

I had chicken pox about 4 months ago which was bad. The pox sort of paraded around me that resulted many scars on my body and a few on my face. Throughout recovering stage I noticed some scars faded pretty fast but some dark spots...

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visvambhari usually there wont be any scars after chi.pox though it takes sometime depending upon the size.But if you have pinched or scratched tried to remove the boils, the scar will be there like a big pimple mark.If the person gets older or thinner the scar can be...

8 Oct 07

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Should we compare ourselves with others?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 22 Sep 07

In our culture a lot of times people advise us to compare ourselves with others. They say, for example, "You should be like your father." or "You can win; the others aren't as good as you." How far do you agree with these...

culture

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win

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visvambhari In my openion there is nothing wrong when people compare.Most of the people compare other people, also themselves with others. But it all depends on who is tlling who. A mother can compare a studious child with her easy going child in an constructive manner....

22 Sep 07

autism can be cured?

mermaid911 @mermaid911 (798) • Philippines 8 Sep 07

I didn't believe it either but 1 woman claims that her son was cured from his autistic spectrum disorder. This sounds very impossible but promising. If you do not believe her, you can try it out on your own children. Her story...

autism

autistic children

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visvambhari I think autism can be cured.As far as behaviour, i.q. level are concerned every child is different.But in general their receptive language is good and expressive language is very poor. Some sort of psychological approach is required, depending on their...

10 Sep 07

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do you keep up daily with your diary?

thefortunes @thefortunes (2367) • Netherlands 27 Aug 07

I was wondering how many of you have a diary, a daily journal so to say, and write faithfully in it, and daily? I used to keep one until the year 2000. Than I decided to quit with it as I started with writing my online journal,...

diary

journal

writing

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visvambhari I keep 6 diaries.1. day to day events plans and expenses. 2.Important events happened for my family members, friends and relatives.In a seperate section things regarding the repairs, warranty periods of elec.items,the dates when the technitians like plumbers,...

27 Aug 07

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debit card or credit card?

feedyourmind @feedyourmind (150) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

what do you prefer if you have a chance to choose between the two of them? Whats the differencve, which is better? I hope i can have a better idea which of the two are the most and convenient way to use Ofcourse you are welcome...

credit card

debit card

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visvambhari I feel credit card is better.I just feel so.

11 Jul 07

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Why do you belive in your religion?

larryfisken @larryfisken (339) • Norway 19 May 07

Im a Protestantist Christian and i belive in God because then i feel good. My religion is liberal and i get allowed to almost whatever i want to. I belive in my religion because it gives me something and I think it would be hard...

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visvambhari In my openion it is the 'belief'that matters.Most of the religious people belonging to different religions will have the same sentiments like you.

19 May 07

Count 1, 2, 3........ and avoid daily marriage FIGHTS.

sameen0705 @sameen0705 (349) • Pakistan 11 May 07

Every married couple tastes fights on small issues on daily basis.These are the fights that ultimately lead to even breakups.And after breakup when either party looks at the petty reasons on which they have been fighting,they can...

relationships

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visvambhari Sorry I can't agree with you.What you call 'small issues' are something like 'moquito bites'.how long can we put up with all these things. 1. You want to sleep early in the night and get up early and your partner want to sleep late and get up late? 2.Suppose...

11 May 07

Why does society say we have to be married and have children to feel complete?

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 22 Apr 07

I grew up in such a messed up and abusive home, I don't want to take the chance that I would get angry and abuse my kids.

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visvambhari I think society said that long back.Now parents are very much concerned with the nature of their kids. love marriage or arranged a lot of adjustments are expected between the partnrs. Best points--if your marriage is sucessful, you have someone to share...

22 Apr 07

Does anyone collect books? What types? Do you collect first editions?

AnythngArt @AnythngArt (3302) • United States 21 Apr 07

I have a huge number of books, like many readers. However, I am not sure I would say that I "collect" books. I would be interested in hearing from people who do collect books. Anyone out there collecting first editions?

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visvambhari we also have a big collection.We have philosophy books, Stephen king,manga,detective books, Comics,etc. But we want to donate them to some library as we use more computers than read books.

21 Apr 07

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Happiness?

TheOriginalRed1 @TheOriginalRed1 (512) • United States 10 Apr 07

What does that word mean to you? What are 2 things that bring you happiness and why? Do you think the word happiness is over used?

happiness

happy

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visvambhari 'Happiness' is a temporary and relative term. Health, Wealth, and prosperity of one and their dear ones will make one happy.

10 Apr 07

Do you think it right

rubypatson @rubypatson (1840) • India 7 Apr 07

to take advice from an astrologer or some someone who tells your future, do you go to such people, I know many people in India go and many er times they live their life according to what the astrologer says, but the Bible says it...

astrology

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visvambhari Yes. In India some people always check their horescopes. But times are changing.It is more like a tradition now.That is choosing auspecious time for marriages,joining the new jobs,starting business, buying expensive items,etc. But if astrologers say...

7 Apr 07

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how do u incrise ur memory

paresh27 @paresh27 (87) • India 7 Apr 07

i think memory is god gift but one can incrise his/her memory byregular brain exersige. no such medicine till develop for memory

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visvambhari There is a medicinal herb called,'Vallarai'.people say that will help to improve memory and will also make one active.We get vallarai toffees.It is a Tamil word.

7 Apr 07

killing dogs

navikh333 @navikh333 (529) • India 20 Mar 07

hi guys shocking news for dog lovers!!!!!!!! here that is in my place(BANGALORE,INDIA) before 3 days there was an incident in which 8 dogs killed 2 babys. and the government took the policy to kill all stray dogs. and the...

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visvambhari Yes. It is very shocking. But what is the solution? Small kids always throw stones at dogs. Even adults try to run a car or a cycle over them. People always try to irritate dogs. Dogs are also a bit ferocious in the night hours. However, we have to find some...

21 Mar 07

should creed be given any priority

replyashu @replyashu (745) • India 17 Mar 07

it is often said that india is a country which does no discrimination on the basis of any of the caste, creed or religion, it might seem good to look at but the fact is something else. we can see many persons having the mentality...

discrimination

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visvambhari There is always misinterpretation about caste system. 1.Initially caste was based on profession.1000s of years back children found it easy to follow their fathers profession. Even now politicians, Dr.s's kids want to follow their fathers profession. 2.Later...

17 Mar 07