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andrewbarclave @andrewbarclave (485) • Ireland 26 Apr 13

Firstly I want to add that this situation wasn't inspiration for my "losing best friends" discussion, it's just another thought I have had and is sort of a rant. Recently I joined a band, well when I say recently it was about...

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WakeUpKitty @andrewbarclave People can feel it that way as if you push them, esp. if you invest way more into the relationship as they do, or if you always keep your word. I always invested way more into every relationship (partner/friends/family) as they did. At a...

7 May 13

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maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 24 Apr 13

If you had a free rail card for one month which countries in Europe do you think would be most worth visiting? Would you travel long distance overnight if you had to pay extra for a bunk on a train or would you prefer to keep to...

europe

train

traveling

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WakeUpKitty @maximax8 On my way to Hungary I took a pension since I was too tired plus it was way too cold. I think end of June or start July I will sleep in my car again. BTW I also did that (partly) as I travelled by car through England. Also partly a tent (wild...

7 May 13

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 24 Apr 13

Two years ago, I started a discussion that I don't look my age. I was in my late twenties then. And when I turned 30, I began to really be concerned about my age. I know age is just a number but still, I'm one of those who get so...

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WakeUpKitty @secretbear It has nothing to do with being afraid of hanging out with younger people. I am surrounded by younger people day and night. My children (29, 27, 22) plus their friends prefer to go out with me, my younger children (10 and 7 years old plus their...

7 May 13

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 24 Apr 13

Two years ago, I started a discussion that I don't look my age. I was in my late twenties then. And when I turned 30, I began to really be concerned about my age. I know age is just a number but still, I'm one of those who get so...

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WakeUpKitty @secretbear I am not saying that if you are older you are not able to enjoy the same kind of things young people are, but it's for sure your feelings/experience will be different. Way different. And that is exactly why I tell my childeren not to wait till...

7 May 13

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (14876) • Philippines 26 Mar 13

Staying together in a relationship requires a great deal of work for a couple. Considering the fact that you are two different human beings who decided to make a life together in a commitment we call "marriage." Even so, there are...

making compromises

relationship

saving a marriage

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WakeUpKitty I think it's never good to give up on your own dreams, goals. Might work for some time but sooner or later you will be left alone and feel "empty", used.. even if you did it to yourself. Fact is men do "guarden" their own needs way better as women do. Women...

30 Mar 13

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 26 Mar 13

If you remember, I talked about my boyfriend. Now, he's back from Japan. He kept his promise to come back here in my country and see me. We had a lot of good days. On my birthday, he decided to rent another apartment so that we...

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WakeUpKitty I wonder what being a Christian has to do with "living together" or not being allowed to do so. It's nowhere written in the bible it's not allowed. At the time of the bible marriage by law did not even exist! BTW Maria and Jozef were not married either!...

29 Mar 13

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 28 Mar 13

hi to all well, Muslims are terrorist, this is the International media propaganda started on 2001, After this No mercy left for Muslims, They are beaten, abused, Humiliated, & false accuses & charges on them either they in US...

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WakeUpKitty I don't agree with you. It depends on the media of a certain country what they "promote". In muslim countries you will never find media that will attack the islam! And although in my country most people don't believe anymore and the churches/the believe is...

28 Mar 13

kprofgames @kprofgames (3091) • United States 3 Mar 13

My daughter wanted me, her dad (my ex-husband) and his mother over at her house today. It was....interesting. My daughter is expecting in May and since there is a lack of day care in this area she is taking all the...

family

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WakeUpKitty day care costs a lot of money over here (the Netherlands) generally speaking it means you need one extra income to pay for it (which make one thing why to work at all). It's not common in my country to ask family to take care of your child. Grandparents will...

4 Mar 13

aqirock @aqirock (855) • Malaysia 12 Feb 13

i wish i can enjoy my life day to day, I got so much disease that I think is hard for me to suffer but I try to have fun in my life, I'm sure everyone also do this and this is the one reason why I joined mylot other then make...

enjoy

fun

life

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WakeUpKitty It is, it partly works for me that way, unless you are in too much pain to read/concentrate and you are too broke/tired and you can just manage to hang in front of your pc.

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enelym001 @enelym001 (8322) • Philippines 10 Feb 13

The cheater is trying to convince me he did not cheat. I know that the proof I have seen is just a line of words. But to me that is enough proof that there is something going on. This dumb fox cannot be cheated and lied to...

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WakeUpKitty Men really are pathetic if it comes to that. My ex husband was the same. We, me and the kids, were only interesting if his co-workers were showing off with their wifes. And ofcourse to cook and clean.. to have children (but not care about them either). He had...

10 Feb 13

Aminul Islam @aminul842700 (861) • Dhaka, Bangladesh 8 Feb 13

Hi Mylotters, we all are human beings and we have at least dream that once we will be a good mother or father, except few people. Although all the time we cannot be successful in our planning but there is no problem, if we plan...

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WakeUpKitty @aminul842700 who says you can only conceive till the age of 44 years????? I never heard such a nonsense. There are who already are not able at the age of 25 anymore and there are who can over the age of 50 years old. Like my grannies! A friend of mine is...

10 Feb 13

Aminul Islam @aminul842700 (861) • Dhaka, Bangladesh 8 Feb 13

Hi Mylotters, we all are human beings and we have at least dream that once we will be a good mother or father, except few people. Although all the time we cannot be successful in our planning but there is no problem, if we plan...

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WakeUpKitty I must say I can only agree with that. It's a very wise decision.

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Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 9 Feb 13

What is wrong with these women? So these women are married to men who won't ever get out of prison. They will die in prison, yet these women marry them. One got married by proxy. Their whole life is 15 minutes on the phone and 3...

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WakeUpKitty I assume that if you get married to a prisoner you know (partly) the consequences. You also might know your society won't (Always) agree with it. Might be, or at least I hope, that belonging to someone is still worth it.

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Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 4 Feb 13

My grandmother died last year and when we packed the things from her apartment we found 3 old diaries. They are not the kind of diaries where she has written about her thoughts and her feelings. They contain a couple of keywords...

diaries

grandmother

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WakeUpKitty Years after my grandfather died I found a travel-diary of him. His biggest wish was to travel to Israel. He also collected a lot of stuff over there, made many pictures. I read it all and made an album out of that. I can't really remember my grandfather, just...

9 Feb 13

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Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 6 Feb 13

Many years ago there was a phonenumber in my country that people could call if they wanted to chat to strangers or if they wanted to find a date with a stranger. I have never called that number, but some of my friends have done it...

meetings

phone

strangers

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WakeUpKitty P.s. I do believe the sound of the voice is very important. At least it is for me. A warm voice is more interesting, also you can hear someone's feelings in the voice as well plus the way someone is talking says a lot about education, not to forget to mention...

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kokomo @kokomo (1867) • Philippines 5 Feb 13

I think so! I noticed it when I have my boyfriend. I am a party goer, he is not. He enjoys spending his time in his room more and watch movies or have his rest than hang out with his friends. Even in social gatherings he is not...

opposite lovers

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WakeUpKitty That is not true, it's proved we do. We even look for someone who has the same shape of the face! And the best couples start dressing the same, feel the connection, what they all call are twin souls for real. The opposite is just "great" for a while because...

7 Feb 13

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