whogirl

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didn't really know whether to post this. My father is probably dying soon

Galena @Galena (9110) 22 May 07

and I don't really feel anything much about it. for the record, I stopped seeing him when I was 14, as I was fed up of his spiteful, nasty, narrow minded and just generally horrible character. if he wasn't a relative I'd...

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whogirl My father abadoned my mother to raise my sister and I (my sister was about three, I was just born) by herself with no support whatsoever. Now he's an old sick dying man and he doesn't understand why sis and I are not running to be by his side. I don't hate...

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Once awake.. I can't fall back to sleep??

babyhar @babyhar (1335) • Canada 3 Apr 07

Am I the only who.. Once they have woken up they have a difficult time going back to bed afterwards? I find each time I wake up I can't go back to bed.. I've been like this for years.. I find if I do eventually go back to bed that...

cant fall back to sleep

cant sleep

falling back to sleep

insomnia

suggestions on falling back to sleep

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whogirl First I have to say you dog is adorable! Sleeping - yes, oh that is a challange. I have suffered from insomnia for about 15 years. I wake up in the middle of the night with my mind absolutely racing! There are a few trhings I do. 1) I get out of bed and move...

5 Apr 07

Wicca, Celtic, faith, pagan

whogirl @whogirl (19) 23 Mar 07

I recently started studying and practicing Wicca. Anyone out there care to discuss this belief system, provide advice, warnings or other forms of assistance or information sharing?

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whogirl Thank you for your response. You nailed it - I know I'm on the right path and no one can tell me otherwise. I realize I have to find my own way - and that this will be a journey (potentailly a long one) of learning for me. I'm quite excited about the path -...

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Wicca, Celtic, faith, pagan

whogirl @whogirl (19) 23 Mar 07

I recently started studying and practicing Wicca. Anyone out there care to discuss this belief system, provide advice, warnings or other forms of assistance or information sharing?

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whogirl Thanks for your response. I am somewhat overwhelmed by the amount of contradictory information. I am of celtic ancestry and feel I am on the right path, but the path is far from straight. I have never felt comfortable with any of the "Big Five" world religions...

2 Apr 07

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Hello!

JohnnyD2 @JohnnyD2 (20) • Romania 22 Mar 07

Hello. I`m new! :D

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whogirl Hi, I'm new too! I'm not sure what to expect from this but I hope it's fun and I get to meet people from all over.

23 Mar 07

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Do you thinks that this old The Who song reflects the teens of our days?

braveheartpt @braveheartpt (3037) • Portugal 16 Dec 06

Teenage Wasteland, by The Who Out here in the fields I fought for my meals I get my back into my living I don't need to fight To prove I'm right I don't need to be forgiven Don't cry Don't raise your eye It's only teenage...

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whogirl Loved it at 18 and still love it today - still makes me feel the same way. I always felt this was my personal theme song. While I'm happy the song is getting known by the new generation due to the CSI exposure, I think that teens today are way to busy posing...

23 Mar 07

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Work Relationships

whogirl @whogirl (19) 19 Mar 07

Can a relationship that starts between two people who work together (and are otherwise involved) ever work - can a trusting realtionship ever come out of an extramaritial affair?

affair

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whogirl Thanks for the perspective.

23 Mar 07

wicca

John @mac1946 (1602) • Calgary, Alberta 22 Mar 07

are there any wiccans on this board? I was agnostic for most of my life,till I found that the wiccan religion is very much as I believe.

religion

wicca

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whogirl same for me! I couldn't stand the exclusionary aspects of "orgaized" religion and felt I found where I belonged when I discovered Wicca. I'm still very new with it, but feel it's the right path for me.

23 Mar 07

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Work Relationships

whogirl @whogirl (19) 19 Mar 07

Can a relationship that starts between two people who work together (and are otherwise involved) ever work - can a trusting realtionship ever come out of an extramaritial affair?

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whogirl Any guys out there care to weigh in on this discussion? I'd appreciate an objective male opinion!

23 Mar 07

Wicca, Celtic, faith, pagan

whogirl @whogirl (19) 23 Mar 07

I recently started studying and practicing Wicca. Anyone out there care to discuss this belief system, provide advice, warnings or other forms of assistance or information sharing?

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which do you prefer arranged marriage or love marriage?

sathish2018 @sathish2018 (575) • India 10 Jul 09

i prefer love marriage beacause i love someone

love

marraige

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whogirl i prefer love marriage beacause i love someone

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What is your favorite song of Three Doors Down?

aliehs2007 @aliehs2007 (206) • Philippines 16 Jan 07

"Here Without You" is my favorite song from Three Doors Down. How about you fellows?

3doorsdown

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whogirl "Away From the Sun" is my fav - no question.

22 Mar 07

The Rock Band The Who

rjacobs @rjacobs (3) • United States 23 Feb 07

The first time I saw the Who was in 1969. Woodstock was coming up. It's amazing that they still tour.

the who

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whogirl I've seen The Who three times - twice in Vancouver B.C. and last October in Edmonton, Alberta. They still put on a solid show and Roger Daltrey can still belt it out. Pete Townshend is somewhat less edgy than he used to be, but aren't we all more mellow as we...

22 Mar 07

Have you ever TERMINATED a FRIENDSHIP with a Friend?

jhossh @jhossh (32) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

Have any of you ended a friendship? How did that work out? Are you no longer friends to this day?

terminated friendship

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whogirl Yup - a close friend. She is an only child and always wanted things her way to her timetable. Her time was always more valuable than anyion elses. She stood me up on a particulrly bad week and that was it. That was several years ago. I see her occasionally as...

20 Mar 07

I'm between a rock and a hard place, what do I say, what do I do?

recycledgoth @recycledgoth (9894) 20 Mar 07

I had a phone call last night from my best friend's wife. She is one of those people who sails through life without a care in the world, expecting things to fall into her lap, not having to work for anything, spending money...

friends

secrets

stuck in the m iddle

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whogirl No matter what, you'll be the bad guy here. His wife will feel you betrayed her and your friend won't like you talking about his wife in a negative way. Stay out of it, let them sort it out between themsleves and just be there to support your friend whatever...

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Am I a bad bad person??????

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 20 Mar 07

Over the weekend I went out with a couple of friends to shop for bridesmaides gowns. We went into one of those stores, you know the snooty type. Well apparently we were not dressed appropriate, I was in sweats and a T-shirt and...

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whogirl I had a similar experience recently in an "exclusive" store in my home city. I was dressed in nice jeans, boots, and a leather coat with a black turleneck, and carried a genuine designer bag, which is my typical saturday-lunch-with-a-girlfriend ensemble. I was...

20 Mar 07

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Stop the World!!!!!

youdontsay @youdontsay (3497) • United States 19 Mar 07

I want to get off. At least tonight I do. I can't seem to stop the merry-go-round of commitments that nibble at me from every direction. I keep saying I'm going to just quit making commitments and stay still for a while. But...

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whogirl You said you are retired and can't say no to committments? What on earth has you so busy that you are stressing out over it. I can't sympathisze with you at all as I have full-time employment, family and home responsibilities to stress me out. When I retire I...

19 Mar 07

Work Relationships

whogirl @whogirl (19) 19 Mar 07

Can a relationship that starts between two people who work together (and are otherwise involved) ever work - can a trusting realtionship ever come out of an extramaritial affair?

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