wildflower0921

@wildflower0921 (181)

Philippines • Age 45

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If he cheated on you, would you want to know the truth?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 13 Aug 07

Sometimes I think that it is better not to know the truth about a cheating spouse, especially if you love that person. When you know the truth you have to deal with it. And, sometimes dealing with the truth means breaking up your...

cheating husbands

cheating spouses

investigate your spouse

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wildflower0921 Knowing the truth will somehow help you to accept and forgive someone. For me, it doesn't really matter to know or not how he cheated on me. In the end, it will still the "love" that you still have for that person. If you're still fine giving him another...

14 Aug 07

Is our conscience right?

andyvish @andyvish (901) • India 1 Jun 07

It is always told that our conscience guides us to do something wrong or right. It is also told that the conscience is always right. What do you agree with?

life

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wildflower0921 God give us a gift to understand right from wrong. I believe that God gives us conscience to guide and help us when we do wrong things. To let us know that what we did is wrong. Actually conscience play its' role for us to correct our mistakes. That's why...

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Are You A Giver Or A Receiver ?

molusk @molusk (857) • Philippines 30 May 07

In any relationship, the giving and the taking is a given. In my own, I believe I am the giver. I think I am some sort of a giver of love and my partner is more of a receiver. In your own relationship with your...

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wildflower0921 In a relationship, I believe that both should experience giving and receiving. For the relationship to work out, one shouldn't be the only one receiving or the other way around. Because there will come a point when you will get tired of giving, if that's your...

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Do you feel annoying to wash clothes?

zengguoxing @zengguoxing (773) • China 1 Jun 07

Utill my college time i start to wash clothes myself.Once my mother wash them for me.I never felt that was a annoying task.Now,i find it really a annoying and exhausting work.What do you think of it? Do you feel annoying to work...

wash clothes

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wildflower0921 Yes, any kind of household work is annoying for anyone who's really not fund of it. However, doing it is doing us good. I mean, when you clean your house or do some household work is being responsible. Don't you like to be responsible. Yes, washing clothes is...

1 Jun 07

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You can forgive, but can you forget?

PackratsHouse @PackratsHouse (238) • United States 30 May 07

My friend and I had a really bad fight and some ugly things were said. We have been friends since grade school so I know that each of us will forgive the other. But I also know that it will never be forgotten. In your life have...

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forgive

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wildflower0921 I believe that to be able to really forgive you must forget. Forgiving is easy but it's a human nature that we don't easily forget what has been done. Forgiving is a process. A slow process. However, If you don't forget what has been done then you wouldn't be...

1 Jun 07

What will you if your gf/bf broke up with you?

bimflux @bimflux (294) • Philippines 1 Jun 07

Just getting ready, because i have a feeling that this might happen to me. I just want to know what's the feeling?, i think it would be totally painful. I know it's part of our life being inlove with someone, but what if the one...

heartbreak

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wildflower0921 It's not going to happen if both of you really work hard to strengthen your relationship. What I mean is you really like your relationship to work and last long. However,if it's really unavoidable what I can suggest is for you to end your relationship in a...

1 Jun 07

Why Do Girls Like Bad boys?

sumimasen @sumimasen (644) • United States 1 Jun 07

It's the attitude and looks, but girls don't seem to like good, nice boys; at least not for dating purposes. Why don't women fall for guys that will make good boyfriends?

badboys

dating

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wildflower0921 I believe not all girls life bad boys. There were also girls who likes "nice boys". Girls fall for a "bad boy" look simply because they feel secured. I mean, when they are with someone who looks like fear is nothing, they feel that no one can harm them. They...

1 Jun 07

do you think for love we need money

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 29 May 07

lots of people says girls fond of money ..if you are rich then you can have end number of girls..what do you think?

love

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wildflower0921 You don't have to have lots of money to find someone who'll love you. There are few of women like that. I believe when you got personality you can easily attract women. In addition, even if you're not that good looking but you've got the right attitude you can...

29 May 07

You and your boyfriend/girlfriend love each other very much...

el_jeffo @el_jeffo (750) • Philippines 29 May 07

But his/her parents do not like you or your parents do not like him/her. In either case, the wish of the parents is for you to separate. What do you do in this kind of situation? Do you risk disobeying and disrespecting your...

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wildflower0921 Love is a very powerful thing. One who's experiencing it would do anything just to express it. It is only right to respect and listen to our parents. However, if we know we're not doing anything wrong we should stand by out decisions. As long as you love each...

29 May 07

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how do you MEND a broken heart?

pelo26 @pelo26 (1552) • Philippines 28 May 07

A close friend of mine just broke up with her long time boyfriend of 6 years. She has not gotten over it even though about 3 weeks has passed already. The guy has a new girlfriend to make the matters worst. Have you been in...

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wildflower0921 Moving on is easy to say but hard to do. It would take some time for someone to really go on with their lives. Most especially, when love is involved and relationship for so long. What I can suggest to your friend is that she must focus more on what she have...

28 May 07

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Does your Husband Ignore you all the time?

FallenAngell @FallenAngell (40) • United States 27 May 07

My husband is so into video games and friends that it seems he has no time for me anymore! And when I talk to him about it he says Im home and he conciders that spending time with me!

life

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wildflower0921 If your husband ignore you all the time, it will lead to marriage wreckage. I mean, two people need communication to make their love grow stronger. Communication is the key for a relationship to last long. In your case, what I can suggests is for you try to...

27 May 07

Have you ever been hurt by the thought of your ex being with someone else?

FallenAngell @FallenAngell (40) • United States 27 May 07

I am married and things goin good. But I had a first love and it ended becuase our parents didn't want us together over my rape, my husband knows about him and my feelings. Well today I look in the paper and see that he is getting...

exs

life

relationships

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wildflower0921 I believe that there are lots of women who were in the same situation like yours. Actually it's normal to feel that way towards your ex and your first love. Just like what they say that first love never dies. Anyways, maybe you feel bad about your ex getting...

27 May 07

stuck in snow or desert!

singlepixel @singlepixel (2743) 27 May 07

which do you think is the worse condition/situation? To get stuck in the middle of snow or get stranded in the middle of a hot desert? (both happen in your car) while help is only arriving after 24 hours. which one do you think...

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wildflower0921 Well for me, being stuck in snow or desert is the worse situation to be in. If I were to choose, I prefer to be stuck in snow. It is for the reason that my body is not that weak in cold so I guess I can stand better in cold than in heat. Also, when you're in...

27 May 07

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Would you become angry if you gave someone a gift and they...

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 27 May 07

Would you get upset if you gave someone a gift and they gave it away ..? Do you expect your friends to keep all the gifts you give them? I would not get upset if my friends gave away anything I gave them and I equally would...

gifts

presents

shopping

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wildflower0921 In some way, I would be depressed if the gift I gave would be passed to someone else. It's because it only shows that the one I gave the gift to never appreciate it or didn't like it. If we want to discard some of the gifts we have received the better way to...

27 May 07

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Your husband's ex-girlfriend

lucy67 @lucy67 (819) • China 27 May 07

Do you ask your husband to tell you something about his relationshiip with his ex-girl friend? Do you think it's only his privacy and you shouldn't ask about it or do you think it's a way to see whether he loves you more?

husband

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wildflower0921 Is it okey? well, for me it is as long as both of you were open about that issue. As I noticed, women always want to discuss the "ex-girfriend" topic and end up debating with their partners. Hey, everyone has their past relationships but what matters most is...

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73 yo man beaten by cops and firemen

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 22 May 07

What do you think about this story. 73 year old man's house starts on fire.He didn't realize the upstairs was on fire because the house is large.He hears the sirens,goes to the door to look out and smells the smoke and realizes...

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wildflower0921 Sometimes we must empathize first before imposing the law. The officer may be right if it's just about the law. However, there's also a human right that he must also considered before doing an act. What he did was wrong because he shouldn't threat the man like...

22 May 07

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to wait...or to make the first move...

safire @safire (23) • Philippines 17 May 07

Imagine being in a 5-year relationship and things are doing well between you and your guy. However, he hasn't initiated talks about the big " M " thing (marriage) yet. Would you wait for him to open up the topic or you initiate...

marriage

relationships

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wildflower0921 Our basis of getting married shouldn't be of how long your relationship is. We should considered things like our age, our feelings and most specially financially. Are you ready financially? Maybe your guy doesn't mention marriage because financially he's not...

19 May 07

Love <333

babeegracie @babeegracie (109) • Canada 19 May 07

What does love mean to you. do you think you need it to live or you just think its just nothing. well i personally think it a good thing because you depend on it to have a family and thats how we are here and if there wasnt love,...

love

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wildflower0921 Love makes the world go round. It's so powerful that it can change impossible things to possible. Yes we need it to live. Without love is like living in hell. I believe that love is the root of all goodness. When we love someone, we should love...

19 May 07

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Why bride cries on marriage

firumon @firumon (501) • India 19 May 07

I am going to my past times. In my family there are somany weddings that i have attended. The weddings are of sisters of my father. I noted that most of brides relative cries. Her mother, sisters etc... Only ladies cry. When i...

genetic problem

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wildflower0921 Women are more sensitive than men. So basically, in gatherings or in celebration like this, most women shed tears or go emotional. Hey, there's nothing wrong with crying. Women shed tears, mostly on weddings, because they were mostly happy for the one getting...

19 May 07

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