wishjui

@wishjui (271)

India • Age 47

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Do you use a bookmark when you are reading?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 21 Mar 13

Normally I don't use a bookmark when I am reading. I just fold the page. However, since lately I often borrow books from the library. So now I will use a bookmark instead. Because the books from the library are very new and I hope...

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wishjui Very good thing to do it youless! I always prefer using a bookmark! I have A good collection of decorative bookmarks.It not only keeps the book new but also add some spice in reading! I often buy bookmarks from Handcraft fairs,which looks very good in my...

21 Mar 13

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HELP with Long Distance Relationship

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 7 Mar 13

Hiya myLotters and friends! As I have posted about two weeks ago about the love story of the two high school sweethearts who met again after almost three decades. I came to wonder how will their relationship be...

far away lovers

getting successful in love

ldr

long distance relationship

working abroad

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wishjui Hey neildc,it works if there is a hope of meeting in person in near future! With promises to meet and settle can make a long distance relationship works but if there is a probability of uncertainty of being united ,then I am afraid, then the chances of...

7 Mar 13

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myLot Facelift and Quadruple Earnings Days!

myLot! @myLot (127) • Kansas City, Missouri 7 Mar 13

For the past several months, we have been hard at work developing a new and improved myLot. It's getting close! A demo website was built to help test the various new features and iron out the bugs. A developer inadvertently...

mylot

mylot facelift

quadruple earnings

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wishjui Thanks for the alert! looking forward to Thursdays and Fridays! myLot rocks!

7 Mar 13

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Lonely Night

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 5 Mar 13

I married my wife 2 years ago. IN 2 years, we are always together with our son. Yesterday, my wife went to her parents with our son. She is expected to be back home tomorrow. Last night, I was all alone. I can say that it was a...

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wishjui Hey!You guyz are really amazing! I am married and have a son.I have a marriage of 13 yrs and my husband was away from us for last 4 yrs due to his work.He use to visit us twice in a year.I think you can imagine our condition!I couldn't join him due to many...

6 Mar 13

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Do you think it is a waste for a woman to give up her career?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 28 Feb 13

Today although more women have high education and they also have their careers. However, after getting married and especially having the children, some of them will give up their careers and become to be a full time housewife to...

housewife

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wishjui I have given up my 'Full time' career and opted for freelancing after my motherhood and I am very much with my decision.It is how we (men and women/spouses)divide our responsibilities. In some cases like for a single mother it becomes necessary to work full...

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how can people starve themeselves

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 7 Jan 13

i don't get people who can starve themeselves, i love food too much to be able to do that. i don't over eat or anything like that but i could never go with out eating.

eating

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wishjui I agree with you and you reminded me this issue.There are people who can starve but I consider it as their 'great skill' and admire it.Thanks.

8 Jan 13

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when your friend asks borrow money

Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 2 Jan 13

Hello all.I face a delemma recently. my hunsband's best friend asking borrow money from us again. personally,i really do not like to borrow money to other people ,espeically this friend. He kept borrowed money from my husband...

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wishjui Simply ask your husband to refuse his friend.It might damage their friendship but this kind of friendship is worthless! he is going to cause lots of trouble to you in future but once denying will help you guys and will get rid of him for all your life. If...

2 Jan 13

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Can you think in a foreign language?

else22 @else22 (4317) • India 30 Dec 12

I am not a native speaker of English.My mother tongue is Hindi.I can write and speak in English.When I have to write a response or an article in English,I first think it in my mother tongue and then get it translated into...

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wishjui I am bit confused about this because my parents are from two different states of India and I am fluent in four Indian languages.I sometimes suffer from language crisis because I think and dream in two languages but both are my native ones for me,now I am...

30 Dec 12

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Working hard or wasting time?

else22 @else22 (4317) • India 17 Dec 12

A guy has joined Mylot and then keeps participating here everyday for hours.Some say,'He keeps working tirelessly for hours' whereas others say,'He is wasting his time being on Mylot and working for hours just for a few...

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wishjui Hi! I find Mylot as a stress buster!This is a platform where I speak my heart and also get responses which soothes me and directs me in a right direction.About the earning part,I haven't earned anything big and not yet received my first payment.... still I...

20 Dec 12

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Feelings of someone who fell in love

apriadiq @apriadiq (51) • Indonesia 13 Dec 12

Falling in love is something awesome, so beautiful to the world seemed just belong together. We will be realized when we have failed that love is no longer beautiful

fell

love

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wishjui Its the side effect!Each and everything good and bad thing has got a side effect...so if you find the past relationship ugly so its the bad side effect. Failure is always ugly and bitter...so just relax! Look forward to a new and better one with some past...

13 Dec 12

Do you look at the door viewer before opening the door?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 6 Dec 12

Today we shall be careful since the crimes are becoming serious. Will you look at the door viewer before you open the door? Usually I will not look at the door viewer since there is still an iron door outside. I have a wooden door...

door viewer

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wishjui Hi! I too don't look at the door viewer before opening.I know it is necessary but most of the time I fail to do that.We have security people at our complex's main gate.Still I think its always safer to check before opening!

6 Dec 12

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Super Typhoon Pablo

pahak627 @pahak627 (4558) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I'm home cause we have no work as we are among the areas in Northern Mindanao with warning signal no. 3. The worst thing is that we have no electricity as of now. Hope it will be back soon. Those who can read this please pray to...

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wishjui I pray to God for all the people out there.All will be well.Take care.

4 Dec 12

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Do you like the remixed songs?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 4 Dec 12

I still prefer to the original songs because I get used to it. I can't adjust to the new melody of the remixed version. I seldom will like a remixed song because it seems to be a new song for me. How about you?

remix

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wishjui Hi youless! I think remixes are doing pretty well!Undoubtedly old is gold but sometimes we go for some imitations.Remixes are kind of imitations or fake jeweleries but one can have it once in a while. It is unfair to judge or compare because the word 'mix' is...

4 Dec 12

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Why does love have to be so hard on you?

cpan516 @cpan516 (2) 28 Nov 12

I really need some help with this. I'm really in a spot where I don't know which way to go.I love him but somedays he can be so mean. He's never physically hurt me but some of the things that are said just kills me. I don't know...

love is hard

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wishjui Hi dear friend.Love is love not true or false, if it is false then you can't call it love.Physical scars can be removed or erased but mental scars are not treatable. If you are hurt and asking our opinion then there must be something very serious.Dear don't...

29 Nov 12

when relationship ends...

graysky @graysky (132) • Philippines 26 Nov 12

i have a friend who just broke up with his boyfriend because of him having other girlfriends.prior to that,they planned to be together in the future as husband and wife.my friend being a single mother,introduced him to all her...

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wishjui Hi! Whatever happened with your friend is really unfortunate but since it can not be rewind or changed,now she has to face it with courage.The only idea this incident gives us that too much of everything is dangerous!Its really good to start a new relation...

27 Nov 12

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Almost Over

Bluebell18 @Bluebell18 (636) • United States 23 Nov 12

Not to get off on a rant or a sad Sally, but 2012 has been unkind to me. I'm glad that towards the end of the year I had some good things happen to me. (MyLot) And a lot of not-so-good things happen (got fired, yelled at, drank...

be happy

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wishjui Hi! Bluebell, i liked your confession and resolution.I think 2013 is going to rock for all of us! I am also looking forward to 2013,as my 2012 went very non happening and boring! I just started MyLotting so now I think I will have some spice in my life.I am...

23 Nov 12

Indian Women

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 22 Nov 12

When she is born,the parents think of her as an additional expense to the family,She is most unwelcome,because the family has to spend money for her dowry and ornaments.The parents sometimes deliberately snuff the female kids...

dispensable

official

slavery

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wishjui I just want to add up that it is not about the country or religion but about the culture , education and awareness! I am an Indian women and can say this very confidently that I have being treated with pride and love in my family,given equal importance in my...

23 Nov 12

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Have You Betrayed By Some One...

sourabharoy1992 @sourabharoy1992 (730) • India 22 Nov 12

Leave me alone.. I want to spent sometimes lonely. But why? I love you so much and you love me too. I did but I don't..please for give me. I still love my ex-boyfriend. After spent one years how can she said that! I totally...

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wishjui Hi Sourab! Why do you still want to cling with a confused creature???She can never give you happiness .Rather she will be a 'baggage with no address' to you.So I advise to forget the episode and move ahead...also don't forget to Thank God! I think you are...

22 Nov 12

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Do you ever get tired of posting discussions here in mylot? What do you do?

nrtan2ooo @nrtan2ooo (110) • Philippines 22 Nov 12

I wasn't very active for a few days, due to emotional problems and busyness. There are times that I am in the mood of talking and posting a lot, but there are also times that there's nothing on my mind. In times when I don't feel...

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wishjui Hi ! I really liked the topic and feel that most of all face the same problem.Though I am new in Mylot but still find it really difficult to reply to all them those who have participated in my discussion. I sometimes reply in general, mentioning each of their...

22 Nov 12

Do you agree to it?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 21 Nov 12

It seems that the daughters will be closer with their fathers and sons are closer with their moms. Is it that true? I think so. My husband has a colleague, and we often see his daughter to be with him many times. As to me, my son...

relationship

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wishjui Hi Youless! I am only blessed with a son so I can say that my son is very much attached to me.Same time I find my son copying my husband that is his Dadd lot! He is his role model.Sometimes I get confused that who is his favorite.Well i don't mind him to be...

22 Nov 12

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