xenafan

@xenafan (12)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you trust your instincts when it comes to people?

kquiming @kquiming (2997) • Philippines 25 Jan 10

I don't know if I'm just being mean or skeptical or cynnical or whatever, but sometimes I get this feeling that, even if a person appears to be good and harmless, something inside tells me that this person should be avoided and is...

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xenafan I kind of think of this with romantic relationships. You want to have "chemistry", "sparks fly" whatever right? Is that so different in finding a true friend? I guess some people have friendships out of convenience or situational friends, but that's different...

26 Jan 10

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are you in mylot only to earn money??

abhiabhiabhiabhi @abhiabhiabhiabhi (531) • India 26 Jan 10

well when i firsty joined mylot my first impression was just to earn money but as time went i started enjoying this site...its more fun according to me and more interesting than some of the other social networking sites and at the...

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xenafan Well, I was looking for a online community/forum type of thing to find time to contribute to, and when I found one that would pay, and seemed reputable to boot, I figured I could make this work.

26 Jan 10

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Your Friend's Ex Askes You Out...How Would You Feel?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 25 Jan 10

Last week, I was posed with something that I have never dealt with before. I got asked out by someone that I've known for years and at one time, I tried to hook up with. The only problem, I'm friends with his recent ex. When I...

dating

friendship

getting asked out

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xenafan If they were a very close friend, or even someone who I thought had the potential to be, no way would I do it. If the situation was fine after an extended period of time or something and I knew they had no problem, it would be different too. If I hardly know...

26 Jan 10

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Does Your Doctor Get On Your Nerves?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 25 Jan 10

I am sooo angry I could pull my hair out! Earlier I went to see Dr Habib (who I saw 2 weeks ago) and he was the guy who suggested I had a blood test...which I did. He told me to make an appointment once I got the results...which I...

doctors

rip off prescription fees

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xenafan My doctors have been giving me crap for years about my weight. When I was a freshman in hs I was 165lbs. I was a bit chubby (really- not obese or anything). Then I found the weight room. I pretty much have looked like I must have some muscle, but am not cut...

26 Jan 10

Do you wash your hands before eating?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 25 Jan 10

When I was a child, my Grandmother always reminds us to wash our hands before eating. In order to wash away the germs. And now, a lot of people is doing that, not only the ordinary ones but also the prestigious people. And aside...

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xenafan I rarely wash my hands. Unless I did something that got them particularly dirty, I don't bother. (Even then I don't always notice.) Some people think that's gross or disgusting, but it really doesn't bother me. I'd consider some people's personalities gross...

26 Jan 10

Would you donate an organ?

firemom31 @firemom31 (598) • United States 25 Jan 10

I am very curious about why people would not want to donate their organs upon death. I just don't get it. We don't need our organs anymore once we die, so why not help someone else? I am not critical of those who are opposed to...

organ donation

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xenafan See, I think that's a great thing to do. I love science and knowledge and would want to do this myself. My concern though is that last time I was at a funeral home I looked at a pamphlet on becoming a cadaver and it COSTS money?? Now that I don't get. That's...

26 Jan 10

How important the internet to your life?

dedha04 @dedha04 (60) • Indonesia 26 Jan 10

Internet is a tool we can use as a tool to search for informatian from anywhere.We can not escape from the internet,because the internet is one that we need.But with the internet,in addition to the benefits that we can also...

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xenafan Let me start by saying alot of "hackers" don't even need an internet connection to get people's information. Anyone that can make something work in a way useful to them is a "hacker", so the term doesn't just apply to the "hackers" on the internet. I use...

26 Jan 10

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What Did you Learn From you Mom?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 25 Jan 10

What are the things that you learned from your mother that you put into practice with your own children or that you plan to put into practice with your children? For me, I learned that it is important to be patient with your...

learning from mom

patience

tone of voice

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xenafan My mom taught me to always be myself and never apologize for it. She'll be the first to say she doesn't have alot of ambition or self-esteem, and growing up, I saw how that lead to her being upset and not in control. From that, I learned that I was going to...

26 Jan 10

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Were you shy to talk to people when you were young?

b4balaji @b4balaji (410) • India 6 Jan 10

There are people who talk without shy to anybody, no matter who the other person is. At least till they reach an age, they feel shy to talk or smile at them. Have you felt the same?Where you shy or bold?Children of both the...

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xenafan I am certainly not shy now. If anything I'm too outgoing and bold. I used to be really shy though, and it got better as I got older. I actually used to be afraid to do simple things like go in department stores by myself when I was 8ish. lol

7 Jan 10