yuanruolan

@yuanruolan (61)

China • Age 35

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Is your partner your best friend?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 10 Sep 09

My answer is no. I love my guy but my best friend is another. maybe it is a matter of time. I have known my best friend for years and I just connected with my guy this summer.I love my best friend just a brother,I have no romantic...

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yuanruolan Yes, my partner is my best friend. He is also a guy who helps me a lot. And I am very appreciating him, Frankly, sometimes,I even dream about him.But I also know it is impossible. We are just friend,and I will merry him.In fact, many people have our...

10 Sep 09

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Are you ready for a change?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 9 Sep 09

Have you ever stopped to consider how life begins anew every minute of every day? Our lives can be turned upside down in an instant, as many of us have discovered, but it also means that we can make a new beginning whenever we...

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yuanruolan Yes,I want to change myself quickly.My friend told me about my voice which was too childlike.And I should behave like OL, this is very important to me.

10 Sep 09

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death of a pet

deeds14 @deeds14 (815) • United States 24 Feb 07

How do you deal with the death of a pet? My 13 year old dog, a basenji, was put to sleep earlier this week. He was such an important part of the family, and I miss him a lot. I always thought people were overreacting when they...

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yuanruolan Deeds14,I am very sorry to hear the terrible news that your 13-year-old dog died.Dog is we human the best friend.fathermore,your basenji is 13 years old,I sure there must be some besutiful memories between you and that dog.The dog was your friend and had...

10 Nov 07

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Do u think u have positive attitude?

rashmimenon @rashmimenon (61) 5 Nov 07

Do u think u have positive attitude?

advice

attitude

relation

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yuanruolan Yes, of course. And I think it is important for a person whether he has a positive attitude or not!

8 Nov 07

What you sow, you reap .Do you believe in that?

rb200406 @rb200406 (1824) • India 3 Sep 07

Really, is it true.What you do the same thing comes back to you.Does it really happens?Life is a circle rather than a straight path.

life

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yuanruolan I believe in that.If you work hard,you might succeed. But you are not diligent ,the answer is quite clear that you must be fail.So the saying that what you sow,you reap is truth.

8 Nov 07

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Do you like this beautiful sunset photo that I took?

MarieJ23 @MarieJ23 (1040) • United States 31 Oct 07

Hi everyone,I am just going to share to you one of my best captured photo about nature. Hubby and I were on our way home when I saw this beautiful sunset. It truly mesmerized me so I grabbed my camera and took few pictures of it....

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yuanruolan Humm~~~I don't flatter you that the picture is really beautiful,as soon as I saw it ,I would have an immersed sence.Thank you very much for your beautiful picture.

8 Nov 07

is the ability of read and write more important than before?

jamesarmstrong @jamesarmstrong (251) • China 8 Nov 07

We read news and write commenttion, We communicate friends by IRC, ICQ, Facebook with read and write. Is the ability of read and write more important than before?

read

write

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yuanruolan Yes,of course.The ability of read and write is much more important than before .But at the meantime, I find the command of spoken English is more important.

8 Nov 07

poverty: if you were 12 year old, would you be depressed because of this?

tryxiness @tryxiness (4544) • Philippines 8 Nov 07

Just last week, a 12 year old girl hanged herself, and the very reason was because of the poverty she and her family are into. It's just sad that a kid like her was able to feel depression out of poverty. It's just sad, that the...

depression

poverty

suicide

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yuanruolan First,I am very sorry to hear the news that a 12-year-old girl killed herself just for her family's provety.But in other word,she is only 12 or just a child,so there is no piont in criticizing her too much.howerer,I think all of us can get something from...

8 Nov 07

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Is it ok to accept money from a married guy?

jhoana_joey @jhoana_joey (616) • Philippines 6 Nov 07

"Is it ok to accept money from a married guy?" A shocking text message from my friend and she's really serious on getting my honest opinion, she told me that she has a friend who is dating a married man and that this friend of...

married guy

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yuanruolan OK.I agree with you in some degree.A woman who has self-esteem should not accept money from somebody. I always think that woman can live on herself.So your friend's friend should not accept the guy's money. what's more,he has married.

7 Nov 07

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beautiful place

srizain @srizain (36) • Malaysia 3 Nov 07

when i go to bangkok at 1st time, i see to many amazing design and culture..but i love shopping around bangkok...

trip to bangkok

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yuanruolan OK.I like bangkok very much though I haven't visit there.But I sure I will go there in the near future.

6 Nov 07

Divorce

seabeauty @seabeauty (1480) • United States 31 Oct 07

What would you do if you were a stay at home mom and you had no money and no family in your state and your husband told you he is going to divorce you? See, that is what is happening to me now and I need advice. I live in...

wife

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yuanruolan Seabeauty,First,I am very sorry to hear your bad news.I am almost touched with tears.Second,I sure you will get much sympathy from people all over the world.Humm~~~you can get help from local government.and I Think there are many laws to prevent the womens'...

6 Nov 07

would you marry again?

bhappy2 @bhappy2 (327) • Australia 6 Sep 07

Would you get married again or would you just live with someone? I think people who rush into another marriage after divorce are very brave. How can they be confident that they have made the right choice this time?

brave

divorce

second marriage

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yuanruolan To tell the truth ,I don't want to divorce and marry again.Because I wish I will have the love for a thousand years.but ,on the other hand ,I think what you say is reasonable.

6 Nov 07

Do u think u have positive attitude?

rashmimenon @rashmimenon (61) 5 Nov 07

Do u think u have positive attitude?

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yuanruolan Yes,of course. I always think that I have a sense of humour,which can make people around me laugh.

6 Nov 07

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Love you God? send your message to God.

grreattomas @grreattomas (542) • Pakistan 16 Oct 06

i can not express my love in words. just love you.

god

love

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yuanruolan I don't think there is a God in the world.But I believe everybody has a God in their own heart.So believe youselves!^_^

5 Nov 07