yyc4220

@yyc4220 (43)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Is it important to loss your virginity with someone you love?

jralivio511 @jralivio511 (480) • Philippines 11 Mar 09

I am twenty-four years old, turning twenty-five this coming May 2009 and I do not even have a first kiss yet. I am hoping that I will experience it soon for I might get turn thirty and still a virgin. Leaving here in the City...

virginity

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yyc4220 As a man from China, I consider it very important whether the women is a virgin who I marry with. To some one, maybe it is not very important. They only pay more attentiong to the action of his wife after marriage. Different country different culture,...

13 Mar 09

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Where you first meet with your girl/boy friend ?

newhotelus @srikandi19 (3391) • Kuta, Indonesia 12 Mar 09

When I was studying at middle school I falling in love with my school friend. I can't forgot my first love, although we are still young and don't know anything about making love . I keep remembered him. We just...

first meet

kiss

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yyc4220 I met mine in a classroom when I'm a college student. Coincidenly, we chose a same course and took a same lesson in a same classroom. How lucky it is! But I haven't noticed her at that time but she did. She paid much attention to me as she said later. But I...

13 Mar 09

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"A friend is a present you give yourself"

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 12 Mar 09

I am very new here and I find making friends is hard work. I want to request for your friendship but I fear I be rejected because I have no proof that I can be a trustworthy friend when you don't see the trail of my participations...

friend request

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yyc4220 It's very like me. I'm a newbie here. I haven't written words like that. But I think what you wrote is very beautiful in language.

12 Mar 09

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Do you naked when you are sleeping?

maxilimian @maxilimian (3099) • Indonesia 26 Feb 09

Simple question Well i don't! haha lol i don't feel comfort to get naked while sleeping or just only wearing underwear when sleeping, cold and i can't sleep ... so how about you?

sleeping form

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yyc4220 I like sleep naked, especially with my honey. Even sleeping myself, I feel it very comfortable. Maybe you're in the lightest state when you're naked. I advise you take a try. Maybe you'll like it too.

12 Mar 09

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Just Plain confusing?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 6 Mar 09

You are right when you say that this is a virtual world and the people we meet here everyday are only virtual friends and can't take their words to be truthful and honest. For all you know they are saying the same rosy words to...

online friends

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yyc4220 I think everything has its two sides, right or wrong, day or night, positive or negative. Someone online maybe is deceitful, while others is honest. They can be all existing on the internet. To me, I rather consider all the friends I meet online is honest...

12 Mar 09

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have you thought of breaking up with a person because you love him too much?

bluangel628 @bluangel628 (383) • Philippines 10 Mar 09

have you thought of breaking up with a person because you just loved him/her so much that you would not afford to lose him? I have thought about it and had numerous times tried breaking up with my boyfriend. I don't know what...

breaking up

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yyc4220 The fact is always inclined to develop to what you think. You think it will be better, then it will be better. I meet a very beautiful girl when I was a post-graduate. She shew her love to me. But I refused because I think I was not good enough to match her....

12 Mar 09

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Is Your Husband King of Your Castle...

AcousticSoul @AcousticSoul (1309) • United States 11 Mar 09

My Grandmother told me no matter what you do as a married women you make sure you make your husband the King of your house hold. Rub his feet when he gets home from work, run his bath water cook his dinner, obey, and be...

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yyc4220 As a married man, I don't like my wife behave as a servant. But I'd like her to do something for me, as well as I do something for her. For example, I'll do cooking when I go home earlier than her, while she does inversely. Man and woman come together because...

11 Mar 09

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Have you ever been bullied ?

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 11 Mar 09

Hi all Today I saw a kid being bullied by some older kids.. The kid was almost crying, it was so horrible to see, I can't even imagine what they must have said to them.. Well I hate bullies, so I rounded up my friends to go...

bullies

kid

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yyc4220 I was taught that you must not allow yourself be in difficulty, when I was a kid. So far, I have not been bullied by any one. No matter animals or human kind, the case that the stronger teases the weaker is very normal. But many kinds of creature have lived...

11 Mar 09

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If you have a poor friend.....

happyforever @happyforever (191) • China 11 Mar 09

Hi mylotters, I'm a college student. I came back to school the other day and started a new term. I was happy to see all my friends again. But i found one of them was too much depressed. There was sadness in her eyes which made me...

friend

poverty

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yyc4220 I used to somebody very like who you described in your discussion. But I was a man, who was born with firm bones all my body. I did everything I could do to earn money and applied any possible method to manage my pitty money. I studied hard and I got many...

11 Mar 09

mylot give me a Alert? can you help me!

jiaruiyang @jiaruiyang (146) • China 11 Mar 09

Today, when I login in at mylot,I suddly received a alert,,,some words is this"Looking for a new way to bring in some estra dough? MyLot is ready to help"..... can you help me ,my lotters? thanks ,my friends,,,, have you ever...

alert

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yyc4220 I has received the alert, too. But I haven't pay more attention to it. I'm sure I have no forbidden action on the website. So I don't care it. Don't worry about it.

11 Mar 09

What anti virus you use ?

newhotelus @srikandi19 (3391) • Kuta, Indonesia 10 Mar 09

Several month ago I use Avira personal, but after get spy ware I use AVG, and I do not sett update every day ( because my connection not stable ). so If my connection fast and stable I will update my anti-virus, that is once a...

avg

avira

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yyc4220 My work has something to do with computer and I know a litte about the anti-virus. Some ones said that Macafee and Kaspersky is the best two anti-virus soft. But I think norton is also very good, as I have used it for many years. If you just use in your own...

11 Mar 09

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Has recession affected you?

nikky28 @nikky28 (1572) • India 10 Mar 09

Recession has affected the entire world and some companies have gone "sneakers up" in the process. Has recession affected you personally? How has it affected you? What changes have you made in your lifestyle as a result of this?...

changes

lifestyle

recession

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yyc4220 I was affected very much. Last year, I had been working steadily in headquarters of our company. When the recession came, many branches' business of our company didn't run well and the profit decreased. At the beginning of this year, I was assigned to Beijing...

11 Mar 09

Do your man shops for you?

maxilimian @maxilimian (3099) • Indonesia 10 Mar 09

Hi, reading the similar things with friends here, i'm interested to start this new discussion Do your man want to shops for you? It can be any man, your husband, boyfriend, kids or even yourself (as man...

man shopping

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yyc4220 I am the one who often shops with my woman. I love my woman. And I think shopping as a entermainment to some degree. Some men don't like to accompany their women. I think it is a problem of love. Love must be built on the base of common favorite, mutual...

11 Mar 09

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Wedding Blues...

AcousticSoul @AcousticSoul (1309) • United States 10 Mar 09

I recently got married a year ago February 23rd and it was a very small wedding with my mom my sister her husband son and a my best friend. after words we went out to eat at a really nice place over looking the City of Burbank....

bride

groom

wedding

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yyc4220 In my opinion, wedding exists only one day, while life is each day.Happy wedding will be a good memory, while happy life is going with you every day. If only one can be chosen, what will you choose? Obviously, happy life is the key. But the plan of big...

11 Mar 09

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Need advice on Steam Rooms

candymarie @candymarie (1368) • Canada 19 Feb 09

Hey all! I have a question, as well as welcome your advice! I'm VERY curious about purchasing a steam room, not a sauna, a steam room. I'm going with a steam room because saunas have dry air, which is so NOT good for my...

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yyc4220 It sounds like that you're the very one who enjoy oneself very much. A good idea but can't be realized to common ones like me. But I have my own way to enjoy my days and night. Anyway, I'd like you get what you want. Best wishes.

10 Mar 09

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Should hate speech be banned?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 9 Mar 09

Now, obviously, myLot has a very diverse set of members, and so obviously no one likes hate speech. But do you think the government can rightfully ban hate speech, or do you think this would impede on our rights of freedom of...

bill of rights

freedom of expression

freedom of speech

hate speech

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yyc4220 I think the freedom is relative. There is not absolute freedom except only one in the world. In the history of world, the one who owns absolute power has the absolute freedom, not everyone. In fact, everything is relative and has two sides, such as day and...

10 Mar 09

Would you step forward to help a tourist?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 9 Mar 09

You notice a person a few strides away from you. He is studying a map. If you take out a coin and flip it 1,000 times, it will come up Head just once, meaning he is a geography student and 999 times Tail, meaning he is a...

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yyc4220 I have met many occasions like that, including some foreign tourists. I always try my best to help them. But onetime I met a very difficult case. He is a Russian and can't speak Chinese and English. I was confused and didn't know what I could do. But I had a...

9 Mar 09

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Do women who gave birth have post partum depression?

NATHALIE27 @NATHALIE27 (61) • Philippines 6 Mar 09

Hi there, I always thought if women or mothers have post partum depressions. I have a friend who is having tough times controlling her temper. She gave birth one year ago and that's when it all started, the mood swings and all. I...

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yyc4220 My wife will give birth in next week. I'm very afraid that she will have post partum depression. But I have heard that if the women give the second birth, the post partum depression will go away, or else will stay for some ten years. Some of my colleagues...

9 Mar 09

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when he stalks...

liaamur @liaamur (417) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

i thought i'll only see them on tv, or read about them in books and novels. i've never prepared myself for having a real stalker. he wanted to get me pregnant so he'd be sure i'll marry him (whatever makes him think that!). and...

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yyc4220 I'm a male who can understand what you are experiencing, as while as how he did such things. He is immature one and don't really understand what love or life is. But in your hand, you should check some reasons and resolutions from yourself. To untie the ties...

9 Mar 09