02Alexander

@02Alexander (25)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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What is the foundation of a successful marriage

angelako @angelako (280) • Italy 14 Jan 12

I fail in marriage life with my husband before.He loves me a lot when we are still boyfriend and girlfriend stage but when we got married everything change.The importance that i feel before as her girlfriend,i never feel when we...

commitment to marriage

foundation of love

successful marrieage

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02Alexander I believe the foundation of a successful marriage is communicating, love, trust, honesty and friendship. However, it has to go both ways by working together in making a marriage strong. It can't always be a one sided, you need to meet your partner halfway.

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If you are seriously stressed with your job, resign and look for another...

yahnee @yahnee (1243) • Philippines 14 Jan 12

Many of my former co-employees are griping that the boos is getting worse. They are highly stressed on the job fearing for their continued employment in view of the policies being implemented by the management. One of my closest...

employment

stress

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02Alexander I agree, but I don't have any room to talk because I think I am in the same shoes as your friend. Don't take me wrong, I love my job and some of my co-workers but my boss is another story. She honestly needs management training. I have worked for this hospital...

14 Jan 12

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Couples living together

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 14 Jan 12

Should couples live together before getting married ? I say yes because how else will you know you two will get along with out a test drive. But it isn't always the right thing for all couples. Some are still very much...

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02Alexander I agree, couples should live together before they actually decide to get married. This will definitely give them a chance to really know how each others bad and good habits. Also, it will open a lot of eyes whether this is the right person we should commit...

14 Jan 12

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what are your responsibilities at home

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 10 Jan 12

i do envy those people who don't have some responsibility at home. that they can go out any time they wanted to and do things when they wanted to. but i can't do that at home. i do have some responsibilities at home that i can't...

responsibilities

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02Alexander I understand how you feel. I too, worked full-time, clean my house, do laundry for my family, iron, plus cook our breakfast and dinner (sometimes lunch only on the weekend), and last but not least my yard work. Everything seem to stop when I am sick until I am...

11 Jan 12

Why is it so hard to admit when one is wrong?

karin27 @karin27 (141) • South Africa 10 Jan 12

I always hate to admit when im wrong, and its so easy to admit when you are right. Why do us humans deal with certain situations like this, is it ego? or what is it?

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02Alexander I know how you feel. I have the same problem admitting I am wrong. I also, always have to say the last words when in an argument. My husband hates it when I continue to try and talk my way out of a confrontation. He would always say, "you always have to be...

10 Jan 12

Dying Soon.

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 9 Jan 12

I was actually thinking very hard if I wanted to post this. I did not have the guts to post this in facebook but I just thought that I did not know anybody personally in this site and it would be easier to hear their thoughts on...

death

dying

dying soon

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02Alexander My heart and prayers are with you, for the pain you have to endure. I wish I were a millionaire or magician so I could help you in your need for better medical care or to cure you of whatever illness you have. My friend, I pray that God will continue to...

9 Jan 12

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Mean It When You Say It..

xien2xien @xien2xien (1382) • Philippines 9 Jan 12

Sometimes i feel very sick and tired of hearing my friend's frustration about her boyfriend, everytime she and her boyfriend have misunderstanding she will always say she don't like him any more, that she will start to move on,...

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02Alexander Poor you! Your friend sounds like she needs help on making the right choices. However, sometimes we say things out of anger but don't really mean them. She's just venting, but her heart says otherwise. All we could do as her friend is listen and reassure her...

9 Jan 12

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Are People more impolite nowadays....

deodavid @deodavid (4150) • Philippines 8 Jan 12

I think that most people nowadays are less polite or less courteous. Why do I think so for example in buses and Trains most men sit while women and the elderly stand sometimes even some with crutches are left to stand while others...

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02Alexander From my observation, I see that all the time whenever I am in the states (USA). The generation now days aren't being discipline. Parents are afraid of beating sense in their children because they might get locked up. So who is to blame? Legislature who...

8 Jan 12

Do you frequently quarrel with you wife ?

Henryhoney @Henryhoney (82) • China 8 Jan 12

Greeting all! Happy New Year! I want to ask how to deal with frequently quarrels with your wife/spouse? Recently, many quarrels often happened between my wife and me just since some little things, it's awfully bothering to me. But...

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02Alexander Frequent quarrels are never easy to digest. You need to both communicate with one another and learn to listen to each other's gripes. Quarreling only leads to more problems and more exchanged hurtful words that leaves us feeling recentful. Arguing is...

8 Jan 12

Long Distance Relationship

imbecile @imbecile (5) • United States 8 Jan 12

I'm in a distant relationship for almost 4years now. it sucks, big time. all i can do is talk to him via internet, like facebook, yahoo messenger and skype. it is really hard. but how will you survive this? do you think it's gonna...

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02Alexander More power to you! Honestly, only you can ease your mind and heart by asking yourself if this relationshp is worth the wait? Life and love is so unpredictable sometimes we don't realize it, but if it were something else besides love that we want so bad we...

8 Jan 12

Need mylotters help in friendship

marie2052 @marie2052 (3691) • United States 8 Jan 12

I was busy at a local grocery store on Thanksgiving eve. This lady stopped me and talked to me. I found out she had no family here and that she was all alone. I gave her my number and told me to call me on Thanksgiving and I...

being kind

friend

helping

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02Alexander Marie thank you for having a good heart in reaching out to this woman. She seems very strange, since you are only on first name basis. For start, people normally give their full name, where there from and why the relocated to your city or county. If I were you...

8 Jan 12

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What will you when you see a purse with lots of money lying on the road?

thewonderboy @thewonderboy (7501) • India 8 Jan 12

Yesterday while I was walking to my home I saw a purse lying on the road side. When I go through the purse I saw about 700+ India rupee in it. When I go through it I saw a photo inside it. Might it will be the...

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02Alexander Its good to know their are honest people like yourself and your parents in this world. Many would have taken the money and throw away the purse. However, you did the right thing by giving the owner her purse back. Thank you for being honest.

8 Jan 12

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