DOITHERE

@DOITHERE (18)

United States • Age 78

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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How many good friends do you have in real-life?

angelhuihui @angelhuihui (264) • China 12 Feb 07

I have only two,and you? A good friend someone who changes your life by being part of it.someone who makes you laugh untill you can't stop;someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world;someone who...

friendship

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DOITHERE If you have only two friends, I feel sorry for you. I have more friends than I can count, and am expecting more. There are so many people without friends that no one should be without a bunch. Start looking for people who have needs and meet them.

12 Feb 07

Music Therapy - Is this absurd?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 12 Feb 07

I thought of music therapy as some alternative medicine that did brighten your spirits when you were down, and had some effect similar to yoga. But quite recently, one of my friend's mother who is in the secondary stage of liver...

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DOITHERE I give music therapy a thumbs-up. Recently I saw a website account of a dairy farmer who wanted to make his workers' environment more enjoyable. He put loudspeakers in his barns and played Mozart, Beethoven and Schubert. The article didn't say how the workers...

12 Feb 07

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How Is Your Relationship With Your Mother????

cabergren @cabergren (1181) • United States 12 Feb 07

My mother is in her 60s and his pretty hard to get along with. She is one of those who likes to give advice all the time and expects you to follow it. She means well but can drive you crazy with all the advice. No matter what you...

mother

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DOITHERE My mother is the best. I could not want for anything more. Every time I talk to her I tell her that I love her, and not because she has a poor memory. You should be so lucky.

12 Feb 07

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17-yr olds shoot and kill horses. Should they be tried as adults?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 10 Feb 07

My community is reeling in shock. Two boys, aged 17, drove to a reclaimed mine site and shot 40-50 shots at a herd of horses who were grazing on grass. Three horses were killed and several others wounded. The killed horses were...

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DOITHERE yes.

11 Feb 07

wats the secret of succesful relationship

schummi @schummi (924) • India 10 Feb 07

what is it that makes a relationship succesful.i donno why but i strongly feel that it has nothing to do with how many years you have been together but by the thing how much youmiss the person when you are away from him/her for...

love

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DOITHERE Good relationships are marked by mutual respect. Accept another for who he or she is and do not try make changes. The biggest reason for failed relationships is the lack of communication. Where joys and pains are shared, relationships grow.

11 Feb 07

Are you defined by the way you dress?

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 10 Feb 07

Do you ever feel that people define you by the way you dress. As in stereotype you based on what you're wearing. I dress conservatively and people feel like I'm dull and boring, but I'm really an outgoing person who likes to take...

clothing

gothic clothing

personality

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DOITHERE The way you dress indicates a lot about you. At the very least, if you are broke and can't afford to buy decent clothes the rags you wear will reflect your poverty status. But until you have a personal conversation with someone about matters of consequence,...

11 Feb 07

DO I Stay or Do I Go? Truly need advice

moonmagick @moonmagick (1458) • United States 10 Feb 07

I am looking for advice from people who have truly "been there and done that." My husband and I are having some major problems. We have been married just over a year and a half now. Things were great in the beginning, and now they...

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DOITHERE Dear MM: You have my sympathies. My wife and I have been married for nearly 38 years. It hasn't always been a picnic, but we have made it this far. Your husband likely has a poor self image. It may be justified. At any rate, if he does, the least inquiry from...

11 Feb 07

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MY PARENTS ARE DRIFTIN APART.... after 27 years of their marriage...

style21f @style21f (60) • India 8 Feb 07

yes.. its true i m 18 year old and my parents after their successful 27 year of marriage they are driftin apart..they are on the verge of divorce.. they jus wanna go away from each other.. i m totally deprressed by their daily...

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DOITHERE Dear Style: Sorry you have to feel the pain of your parents driftin'. The best you can do is keep loving both of them. If their personal relationship is, well, no longer so personal, there is not much you can do about it. You can't force another person to...

9 Feb 07

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My best friend is cheating on his wife, please tell me what to do?

destroyer @destroyer (784) • Pakistan 8 Feb 07

It aint as simple as it sounds! let me tell you the whole deal! during college days, we were best of buddies, me my friend Hammie (not revealing any real names for obvious reasons), sandara and Allison! we used to hang out...

cheating best friends

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DOITHERE You didn't choose to know about Hammie and Sandy's indiscretion. There is no reason for you to feel guilty about anything. Give your friends the benefit of the doubt; they yielded to the temptation of an opportunity. Many of us might do the same. This may...

9 Feb 07

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My brother is in the hospital

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 8 Feb 07

I was awaken this morning by my mom who called me and told me that my younger brother was in the E.R and that he had been beaten pretty bad. I ofcourse rushed there only to find my brother unconsious. I had such a shock when I...

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DOITHERE You have my sympathies Marie. I have no words to make your pain go away. All I can say is that you need to do your best to keep a positive attitude and offer support and assistance to your brother. Do not let fear or hate rule you. Seize every opportunity...

8 Feb 07

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Global Warming - it's official now!

angelicEmu @angelicEmu (1311) 8 Feb 07

So who thinks the US will finally change their polluting ways, following the international conference of scientists at Davros in Switzerland a couple of weeks ago? The concensus of the scientists was that global warming is being...

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DOITHERE Why don't the global warming hoaxers comment on the other planets whose temperatures are warming. And why don't they remember the folks who were predicting doom from an imminent ice age in the 1970's. The universe is not static; change is a sign of life....

8 Feb 07

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My Brother..... please read

KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 7 Feb 07

My brother is a great man- He's 37 and a sargaent in the US Army. He is a wonderful father of 3 children (15,12 & 7). My brother is shipping out tomorrow a.m for Iraq. I am so scared-- I knew the day would come (He told us back...

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DOITHERE Dear Kris: I appreciate your situation and hope you find the strength to endure. I am proud of your brother and all of our nation's armed forces; I pray for them and their families continually. Look at your situation this way: the odds are in your, and your...

8 Feb 07

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I'm bored of mylo t!!!?????? tell what to do...........

sanjaychawla @sanjaychawla (366) • India 7 Feb 07

i've been here for about 2 months. initially i was very excited to see that you earn the money here. But when i started using this, I realised that here we are getting the money very slowly..... I'm earning very very slowly. I've...

mylot

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DOITHERE Quit.

7 Feb 07

Difficult Situation. I could use some advice here...

ljcapps @ljcapps (1925) • United States 6 Feb 07

Okay, this is a story. And it's kinda long, so bear with me. My brother in law, Russ, and my sister in law, Megan. Okay, Russ is my wife's brother whom she adores. Russ walks on water to my wife. He's a good man, a good family...

family

relationships

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DOITHERE Megan has a screw loose and doesn't want to find it. She refuses to seek help in counselling. Show Russ the letter and tell him to cut his losses and get rid of Megan. Russ is young enough to find a sensible woman to step-mother his child.

7 Feb 07

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