DeborahWY

@DeborahWY (306)

Singapore • Age 65

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Try or Skip?

eixie13 @eixie13 (96) • Singapore 15 Mar 07

When you are travelling in a country, will you try their local food or will u try to look for shops selling food that you are used to eating? When I travel, I will like to get a taste of the local cusine. However, some of my...

culture

food

travel

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DeborahWY Like you, I will try the local food as that's adds to my experience of learning and understanding their culture and way of life. Even if I can't adapt to the food, I will still try failing which I fall back on bread.

18 Mar 07

i get ABUSED at home...what should i do?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

i live in a house with my mother, two brothers and my mothers boyfriend. for a long time he has been hitting me. its not always hard enough to leave a bruise but sometimes it is. i love my mum so much and know she loves him, if...

abuse

help

hurt

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DeborahWY You should do something about it; if you are underage, approach an older friend to help you. Alternatively, you should let your mother know the abusive ways of her boyfriend. If he is abusive by nature, he may one day abuse her too. I am sure you mother loves...

25 Feb 07

Do you like to shop or do you only shop when you have to?

rx4life @rx4life (1930) • United States 24 Feb 07

Are you the type of person that gets a "shopper's high" from a new pair of shoes or a new handbag?..Do you run to the mall or the shopping area in your city just to go and see what is there or do you drag yourself there knowing...

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DeborahWY I am a practical person - I shop when I need to buy something or when I am on holidays. I do accompany friends to do their shopping but I do not enjoy it. I do it out of obligation more than the interest in it.

25 Feb 07

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Alone and Contented

lovesfreedom @lovesfreedom (1245) • United States 24 Feb 07

Are you the type of person who has to have alot of people around, or at least one person around to be contented or do you seek the silence of being alone? I have found that I am a mixture of both and it depends on my mood which...

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DeborahWY Well "no man is an island", we all need to have people around us and we need each other. Yet like you, I must have moments alone to just enjoy my personal time when I can reflect over things, spend time in prayer etc. These are moments to restore the soul and...

25 Feb 07

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Would you consider putting your baby up for adoption?

rosedust82 @rosedust82 (2066) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

I've heard of instances where parents had to put up their baby for adoption because of financial constraints. I created this discussion because I know someone who had to give her baby up because she couldn't pay for the child's...

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DeborahWY I would never, never do it unless my health is failing me or I really have no means to support my child and giving him up meant he will have a better chance of survival and future. I am never against adoption - there are a few adoptions in my own family....

19 Feb 07

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Can a person truly be unbiased??

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 19 Feb 07

Everyone has an opinion on something yes? Is it humanly possible to not actually have an opinion on something? Even "sitting on the fence" initially involves having to weigh up various factors of a subject in order to reach the...

indifference

opinions

unbiased

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DeborahWY I agree with you that we all have our own opinions. I suppose the "sitting on the fence" type are the ones who are totally disinterested in the subject. If we are true to ourselves, we will have to admit that it is extremely hard to be unbiased much as we try...

19 Feb 07

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Can you find that Special Someone on the Internet?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 19 Feb 07

I've been with my husband now for 8 years. And we met in a Yahoo chat room almost 8 1/2 yrs. ago. I will hear people talking about internet relationships, and some of it is good and bad. I wasn't looking for a relationship in the...

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DeborahWY I have personally known a number of people who met via the chatrooms and are happily married. I suppose it is about how ready are the 2 persons in wanting to settle down and be responsible in that relationships. I am Chinese and my parents' marriage were...

19 Feb 07

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Have you ever donated your blood?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 19 Feb 07

There are many places where blood donations can be made. There are blood banks and blood donation camps conducted where one can donate blood. you can also donate at a nearby blood bank or hospital. i am O+ a universal donar so i...

blood

donation

life

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DeborahWY Yes, I would like to donate blood to save lives. I had wanted to do so in the past but do not qualify as I was then underweight and anemic. I am not slightly heavier at 46Kg but I am not sure if I qualify to do so.

19 Feb 07

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Making Money online

Miriel @Miriel (1041) • Norway 8 Feb 07

For almost 3 weeks I have been working on my project on finding out if it is possible to make money online without investment. And yes - it is! Well I have not been rich - but that was never my intention either. If you want to...

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DeborahWY I agree with you that we need to be patient. Just like MyLot, income comes in drips and drapes but they do add up. There is really no easy way to make money - although there are, like the HYIPs but they are super high risks. For others, you do have to put in...

9 Feb 07

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House Helpers : Helpful or Stressful???

alfa62603 @alfa62603 (192) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

Sometimes I ponder, do I really need a helper at home??.....I grew up in a household where we are taught how to move around the house on our own, clean our bedroom, wash our clothes, clean the house...it's because we are women and...

helpers

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DeborahWY I had a home help for 4 years. While having one is good, yet no matter how you try, they are still not part of your family. You do not know when to trust and when not too. The one home help I trusted most betrayed me. She got PREGNANT!! When I confronted her,...

9 Feb 07

Are you single

BLesseDmiN @BLesseDmiN (1072) • Singapore 2 Nov 06

And loving it??? I'm single at this moment and have found enjoyment in doing things together with friends and also in serving the Lord =) But i don't wish to remain this way for life! =P

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DeborahWY Yes, single. Happily single and enjoying my freedom.

7 Jan 07

When did you recieve your salvation?

BLesseDmiN @BLesseDmiN (1072) • Singapore 6 Nov 06

For me, i came to know the Lord at a very young age, but only rededicated myself again in 2002. Since then, my life has been totally transformed by His amazing grace and love for me! =)

amazing grace

god

relationship salvation

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DeborahWY When I was 18 but I backslide soon after. I rededicated my life to God again when I was 24 and have been faithfully walking with Him by His grace.

7 Jan 07

Does your

BLesseDmiN @BLesseDmiN (1072) • Singapore 13 Nov 06

mind rule your heart or heart rule your mind?

heart

mind

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DeborahWY I would say it's my mind that rules my heart - I am not the emotional type.

7 Jan 07