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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 26 Jun 07

Would it matter to you if you knew your child's teacher (or other school staff member, little league coach, camp counselor, etc) was a practicing Witch, Pagan, or Wiccan? Why or why not? What would you do, if anything, after...

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highflyingxangel Well, if I found out any of my child's teachers or what not where pagan or wiccan I wouldn't mind because I'm pagan myself. So, as long as they upheld their beliefs and were practising in love and trust, then it's no big deal to me. However, if they were...

18 Oct 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 26 Jun 07

Would it matter to you if you knew your child's teacher (or other school staff member, little league coach, camp counselor, etc) was a practicing Witch, Pagan, or Wiccan? Why or why not? What would you do, if anything, after...

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PurpleTeddyBear In my opinion what matters most is that the teacher is a good teacher. As long as they are doing their job I could really care less what religion they are or aren't. Have a good day! PurpleTeddyBear!

18 Oct 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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theprogamer How do you harden the heart after going through relationship hell? Look at yourself, take a good damn hard look. Always, in the mirror, convince yourself you are somebody, you are worth it, damn worth it, and that no one will hurt you again. If you find...

17 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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staywithpin Hi,DesigningLife, just like pilbara said it's not your fault. Many things in the world are out of our own control, and we can do nothing but influence them. It's not easy to change into another person different from yourself especially in your age, but if it's...

15 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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Rozie37 Okay, listen up very carefully. I have been where you are and I know how you feel and I want to help you. You were right in saying that you let them do it. No one can do these things if we don't allow them to. The Bible simply says, "Do not be angry about the...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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Rozie37 I know that this feeling that you are having will pass. Love can hurt sometimes, like hell. But, it is so worth the risk. Like they say, "It is better to have loved and loss, then never have loved at all." I believe that.

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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eachen2002 I know exactly what you mean.I just had a really rough time with someone I thought I could trust and got tromped on.There alot of cowardly men out there.I think I've dated or gone out with a good many of them.I hate to say it but these days it seems better...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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slickcut You know in order to get a man to respect you, you have to stand up for yourself.Don't take the abuse..Men will only do what you allow them to do..you are probably very sweet and they run over you...I know you do not want to be mean and thats not what im...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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biggerb Yes i feel very sorry to read your story.There is always light at the end of the tunnel,A twinkling star-the greatest gift, strength and women are god's most beautiful creation unravelling the enigma.Cheer up pull yourself up.You have to take charge of your...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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slickcut I am so sorry that you have had to go through so much.I feel that a person gets in a rut, they find someone abusive and it seems they just rotate to abusive men...I think you should change your standards a bit,start to looking in a different area...I have been...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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meemingNEW It is normal for us to like and love someone and it is just up to us on how to handle our feelings towards that particular person. I know how it feels since I have been into some bad relationships too but from what I have learned, it is moving on with my life....

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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ChrisRock619 Well I'm going to try to say this the best I can. These types of things will and DO hurt really bad, Whenever you think you love someone you make your open to a world of weaknesses that can be attacked at any time by people that don't care. There are however...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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creativemind755 I feel your pain, Designing. I completely understand where u're coming from. I think that the excruciating pain makes MOST of us, at some point, want 2 NOT "want" anymore, because it can simply be 2 much 2 bear. But, I don't think u can ever NOT "want"! We're...

13 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 12 Sep 07

I've just turned 40. All of my previous relationships were abusive, controlling and chaotic. I thought I had found one in a million recently...someone who would treat me very well and not snatch it away instantly...but I was...

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pilbara That is a really sad story and I am sorry that I cannot do any more than offer sympathy. You sound a bit like you want it both ways - you don't want to be alone in the future but you don't want to be with anyone either. What you are talking about sounds...

12 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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Manick I fully agree with you. This cannot be classified as work. This is for entertainment, sharing knowledge and probably some social networking. I am here in myLot for close to a year. I read lot of discussions here, even though I do not respond to each and...

3 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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TerryZ I would have to say its alittle bit of having fun and alittle bit of work! But most of the time Im having a blast on mylot. I always want to see how my great friends are doing here on mylot. I guess I would call it work if Im trying to make alot of discussions...

3 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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scarywhitegirl I do consider posting on this sort of site to be a form of work, in that I am expending energy to do this, but I don't consider it work in terms of payment for services rendered or anything. It's a way to pick up some extra spending cash, which I will probably...

3 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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sidheartgadekar i wud rather consider it as a discussion point,cause i even got to learn a lotta things. but plzzz tell me how to upload an avatar?

3 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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ESKARENA1 I AGREE WITH YOU, THIS ISNT WORK, ITS MEANT TO BE FUN. i THINK THE problems come when we get fun and work confused blessed be

3 Sep 07

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DesigningLife @DesigningLife (903) • United States 2 Sep 07

I've read through a lot of discussions since I joined MyLot, and I am confused every time I read something like, "I have been working online for hours and I made 53 cents today". Working? The term just throws me for a loop when I...

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ESKARENA1 I think if you start seeing mylot as work you are going to be very disappointed come pay day blessed be

3 Sep 07

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