EternalViolet

@EternalViolet (36)

United States • Age 34

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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A Christmas Tree Up All Year Round?

NailTech @NailTech (6874) • United States 22 Dec 12

My mom actually said to me today that she wants the tree to be up all year long cause the lights are really making the house look nice or something to that effect. I was surprised she said it. I wouldn't mind having a tree up all...

all year round

christmas

christmas tree lights

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EternalViolet I couldn't do it. It is a mental thing for me. I only like certain things for holidays. I don't even eat candy corn past Halloween!

23 Dec 12

how do you calm your nerves when you have a huge problem?

taiwanlife @taiwanlife (745) • Philippines 23 Dec 12

i was crazy for almost three days. i could not sleep and smile. I just put up a fake laughter so that my family won't worry. i smoked a lot. on the first day, i was just so stressed trying to deny this problem of mine and was...

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EternalViolet I am not too sure if my response will help, but I can only speak about what I do. As a teenage I was diagnosed with severe depressed w/ psychotic features. I get anxious a lot sometimes. Yoga, meditation, and exercise is what helps me. I exercise daily and...

23 Dec 12

how some people on facebook annoy me

IDear2Dream @IDear2Dream (140) • United States 21 Dec 12

they always bring drama on facebook nobody wants to hear about u sleepin with this girl baby father or that girl datin your baby father omg nobody cares always postin up fights and debating who won or who lost and also doing vs...

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EternalViolet On Facebook, I just simply unfriend those that annoy me. I don't say anything because it is their page. They have a right to post what they want to on their oage just as i have a right to post what i want to on mine. i just don't post every little secret I...

21 Dec 12

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House wife

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 21 Dec 12

Some housewives think that they have lesser value in the society then that of working women.My wife is suffering from a muscular disease. But when she was normal she use to take all the household responsibilities successfully and...

house wife

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EternalViolet I agree with you to an extent. Being a housewife (with kids) is difficult. I know what it is like to be a working mom and a stay at home mom. I miss going to work but I also enjoy being with the kids. When I worked I felt like I got a break. I had less...

21 Dec 12

Christmas 'money'

nicanorr @nicanorr (1789) • Philippines 21 Dec 12

Sometimes children are gifted cash money from god-parents, uncles, aunts, acquaintances, etc. Do you interfere in the handling of the money? What exactly do you do? Do you have something to say?

christmas money

handling

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EternalViolet My children are still too young for me to answer this. I'm not sure, I don't think I will interfere tho. It would be their gift, not mine. But for 3rd birthdays we will get them a piggy bank which goes a long with learning to save (my daughter gets change for...

21 Dec 12

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what im gettin christmas

IDear2Dream @IDear2Dream (140) • United States 21 Dec 12

i hope i got a ipod for christmas what i been askin for a long time but my grandma say i dont desver it but knowin my grandma she going to get it anyway and i want MONEY!!! for christmas i love money lol just like my grannie i...

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EternalViolet I feel old after reading this and I am only 22. I am married and have to little children. For the past few years I never know what to tell others what I want because I am just focused on my husband and two kids (like always). Of course there are things that I...

21 Dec 12

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Having a Rough Time of It

echoforever @echoforever (5180) • United States 21 Dec 12

I wasn't sure where to put this but I guess mylot is good as any other category for it. Since returning here i am having a rough time. Not just in myLot but in general. I'm feeling depressed and I haven't felt that way in...

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EternalViolet May I ask why you have slow connection? Some people have a slow connection but don't have to. Sometimes the problem is fixable. Or is it your service provider? I am sorry you are having such a rough time. I hold things get better very soon!

21 Dec 12

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Trying to start a business on the side

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 17 Dec 12

I had a friend who I met online, who I haven't actually met. She is a big help, and she is my first customer. She told me I should start something with making animal treats, and critter baskets. So I looked into it, and am...

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EternalViolet Have you tried selling on Etsy? Such a great idea! Good luck!

18 Dec 12

Disciplining children by hitting them...what is your opinion?

KOSTAS499 @KOSTAS499 (1624) • Greece 26 Aug 12

Although I was a quiet kid, I sometimes made some mistakes. My parents hit me a lot of times. You can understand I didn't like it at all! I remember I decided in my teens, that if I ever had children I would find other ways to...

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EternalViolet This is a tough question! I was abused as a child. I told myself I would never lay a hand on my children. I also know the effects of words, yelling, or even just a forceful grab. HOWEVER, I will admit that I have spanked my toddler on the butt a few times...

18 Dec 12

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The end of the World

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 17 Dec 12

If the world really was going to end on 21st December, as allegedly predicted by the Mayan calender, how would you spend your last day?

end of the world

prophecy

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EternalViolet The Mayans never predicted that the world will end December 21, 2012. That is from false interpretations. Bit rather there will be a spiritual shift, evolution in human consciousness. To answer your question, IF it were true, I would spend the day with my...

18 Dec 12

Being open minded

xoxo19 @xoxo19 (13) • Philippines 12 Dec 12

When you are open minded, you allow yourself to have new ideas and thoughts and you challenge the believes you already have. Opening your mind to new ideas allows you to new opportunity to change what you think and how can you see...

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EternalViolet I agree! One thing I hate are judgements or snap judgements. The two things that cause the inability to be open minded. The easiest way I see how to being open minded is to act as if I know nothing at all until I have the complete picture of what is being...

18 Dec 12

Does Cannibalism in this case is not a sin?

toxic_lifestyle @toxic_lifestyle (1213) • Philippines 17 Dec 12

I read this news from the Yahoo Philippines where 2 Russians were rescued from being lost from a remote area. And suddenly admitted that they ate their companion's corpse for the purpose of survival. :)

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EternalViolet I don't mark anything as a sin. In Hebrew sin came from archery and means missing the mark. Therefore, I do not use the word sin. Morally, I do not think cannibalism was wrong in the story you have listed.

18 Dec 12

how often do you clean your email inbox?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 16 Dec 12

I must be the laziest person when it comes to cleaning the inbox. One time my email reached more than 5,000! That's when I started deleting everything. Now I see to it that I clean my inbox at least once a month so it doesn't get...

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EternalViolet I clean my inbox just about daily. I cannot even stand the accumulation of text messages on my phone!

16 Dec 12