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linda345 @linda345 (2661) • Canada 6 Mar 07

As most of you know, I kicked my son out of the house. I have been worried sick about him as to where he is living. So yesterday, I broke down and called his girlfriend. He is staying with her. He asked me for money and I gave it...

abusive

money

son

weak

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HerbLady Linda345, how old is your son? If he is a grown 'a' man, you are not helping him learn to stand on his own. You see that he left his mama's house and went to his girlfriend's house. There's this song that had the lyrics, 'how can a boy learn to be a man when...

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RedEyes @RedEyes (77) • Belgium 7 Mar 07

Hello everyone, i have a big problem. right now i am dating a girl that i realy like and we have lots of fun together but there are a few problems : 1) she is 7 years older than me, so she is looking for a very serius...

love

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HerbLady Hi Red, how old are you? If you were truly in love with her, those doubts would not be there when you are away from her. You would know for sure. I am double that age span over my boyfriend and I know my body is not taut like the girls' his age, but he still...

7 Mar 07

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sweetstacy @sweetstacy (159) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

i terribly need help.since i could not decide for myself.here is my problem.. i have a boyfriend of 6 yrs years.from the very start my parents didn't like him at all,but since i was deeply in love with him,i held on to the...

break up

relationship

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HerbLady I agree with Brandi and Charlene. You need to get this guy out of your life. Anyone that tries to separate you from family cannot be good for you. I was in a mentally abusive relationship and my self-esteem suffered, but I rose above this and am much stronger...

7 Mar 07

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IrishEddie @IrishEddie (18) • Ireland 19 Feb 07

There is currently a debate in Ireland about this issue. In the media it is being argued they should and to be honest nobody is willing to go against this popular opinion even though i know that many people are against it as...

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HerbLady I don't mean to sound anal, but I don't think that gay's should be allowed to adopt children. God created the family with a man and woman for a reason. I think that this alternative relationship is going to have a psychological impact on any children in the...

20 Feb 07

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HerbLady @HerbLady (10) • United States 18 Feb 07

I have been in a relationship with a younger man for four years. He is young enough to be my son. Is it possible for a solid relationship with a future to develop out of such a situation. Is someone out there going through this...

baby love

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HerbLady You're right it does depend on the individuals. I've been concerned about aging and him taking care of me. I have to say that I take care of myself and I am quite active, but years go by and I will still age. The good thing about this guy is that he's not the...

19 Feb 07

angelbear16434 @angelbear16434 (267) • United States 18 Feb 07

i was married for 10 years to a man who mentally abused me and physical. i think i am having some after affects from this but not sure. i feel depressed any more i cry for no reason, i have a hard time talking to people i dont...

meeting new people

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HerbLady Hi Angel, I was in a mentally abusive relationship for 18 years and it is possible to suffer with depression even years later. I found that the most helpful thing for me was seeing a psychologist. She helped me build up my self-esteem and to get past the pain....

19 Feb 07

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HerbLady @HerbLady (10) • United States 18 Feb 07

I have been in a relationship with a younger man for four years. He is young enough to be my son. Is it possible for a solid relationship with a future to develop out of such a situation. Is someone out there going through this...

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HerbLady @HerbLady (10) • United States 18 Feb 07

Can a solid relationship be established if the man is young enough to be a woman's husband? I have been in a relationship with a man that is 25 years my junior for four years. I would like to know is it possible to have a future...

fallen in love again

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