Melizzy

@Melizzy (1381)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

The coldest, darkest place you NEVER want to be, is on the wrong side of me!

Melizzy's Responses

I can't throw away my birthday cards

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 20 May 16

I can't throw away my birthday cards or my Wedding Anniversary cards and they are giving me a storage problem. They are my souvenirs, whether of a long life, a happy marriage or simply longevity. Whatever it is I cannot put them...

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Melizzy Use them to decorate. Decoupage a table with them. Recycle them by sending the fronts to a charity. They make new cards for charitable resales out of them. Yes, they mean something to you, but they could help others.

20 May 16

What are you doing for the long weekend?

Ricki Dillane @ricki_911 (21625) • Toronto, Ontario 20 May 16

I know most people go away. I have to work tomorrow 9-530, and Sunday 11-3. I have to petsit in a number of places, and the cat insulin. I will be rather busy and hopefully get some time to relax in between.

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Melizzy Staycation. You know, stay at home. I have found a netflix documentary I want to watch. I also plan 9n binge watching Grace & Frankie.

20 May 16

Do you think it's safe to backpage in Europe at the moment?

Kim @kimknows (3) 20 May 16

I know there is danger no matter where you go or what you do, but it seems that Europe is becoming a less stable place to visit.

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Melizzy Absolutely not. Things are unstable, and backpage is shady. Play it safe. What exactly are you looking for? Housing, "companionship " or what?

20 May 16

Computer time

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 31 Mar 07

Do you find yourself spending less time on the computer when the weather is nice? It is finally not snowy here in NY and I have found myself outside more than in. How do you fit your computer time in during the nicer weather?

weather

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Melizzy It really depends. Due to my MS, I am heat sensitive and if it is too hot outside, I will likely spend the day inside under the air conditioning, surfing the web. I do try to get out and enjoy it, but that is not always possible. So I don't really spend less...

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Have you ever recieve a GIFT from an ONLINE FRIEND?

maribel1218 @maribel1218 (3085) • Philippines 31 Mar 07

I do!!! My heart jump with excitement the moment the LBC carrier knocks on our gate and gave me a small package that came from a MYLOT Friend! Yes my dear mylot friends, someone send me a ANGEL FIGURINE fresh from davao with a...

online friends

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Melizzy I am glad you had a pleasant and positive experience with getting a gift from an online friend. I had a very unsettling gift arrive from an "online friend" and it ended up not going as I felt it should have gone. It freaked me out and I eventually had to cut...

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Edit discussion?

borzack @borzack (597) • Malaysia 31 Mar 07

I'm new and all...but is there a way to edit our postings once it was posted?

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Melizzy Sadly, no there is not. So be careful when you post. You can preview it, but once it is up and live on myLot, it's there for good. This has long been a topic of discussion and apparently not something the admins here on myLot feel compelled to address. But...

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Seeking advice...my "crowning glory" getting grey!!!

ryanphil01 @ryanphil01 (4182) • Philippines 30 Mar 07

the hair is our "crowning glory". it has the tendency to lose its natural color as we age, but premature greying of hair is something i just can't accept because my hair started greying while i was at my mid 30's and that made me...

crowning glory

dyes

grey hair

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Melizzy Dude, I too am greying earlier than I should. And to make matters worse, this week I found not one but two, TWO grey hours south of the border!! That is simply unacceptable! I am not 40 and won't be for quite sometime. I have been told grey hair is a...

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Bedrest again...what about the boredom...

wildguy2 @wildguy2 (1349) • Canada 30 Mar 07

I just had my leg operated on again, this is the second time since November, and the Doctor has sent me home from the hospital with strict orders to remain on bed rest for at least 2 weeks, right now I am as I have been all day...

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Melizzy I sympathize with you. There have been some really good suggestions in this thread. How about trying to do Sudoku? Crossword puzzles? Maybe some way you could figure out how to work an actual picture puzzle? Do you knit?

31 Mar 07

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Is an affair between a student and a teacher acceptable to the society?

kingatul @kingatul (849) • India 30 Mar 07

My friend is having an affair with our economics teacher. She is 29 and really beautiful . I even told my friend that this affair will finally yield nothing but he did not gave a thought to this and now his affair has become...

love

student

teacher

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Melizzy I don't know what country you live in, but here in America it is against the law, even if a student is of age to consent. It is against the law because a teacher and student are not on a level playing field. A teacher always has the dominant role in the...

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Star Jones

rcarey1979 @rcarey1979 (2) • United States 9 Mar 07

What do you all think about Star Jones being on SVU? I think it will be interesting seeing here on the show!

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Melizzy Star Jones annoys the heck out of me. And the girl needs to put some weight back on her body. She looks down right scary and sick! Nancy Grace is also going to be on SVU.

30 Mar 07

I think I'm having a relapse!

scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7225) • United States 29 Mar 07

I noticed about 15 minutes ago that my right index finger, right middle finger and right thumb feel a bit weird, almost as if I'm losing sensation. I suppose I'll have to wait a bit longer, just to make sure that it's truly a...

multiple sclerosis

numbness

relapse

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Melizzy Just calm down and take a few deep breaths, ok? As you said, it ended up being the cold. I have been a bit hinky myself. I attribute it to the change of seasons.

30 Mar 07

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My darling Meg passed away this morning.

Katlady2 @Katlady2 (9904) • United States 30 Mar 07

I am so sad right now, and the pain in my heart is almost unbearable. My Shar Pei, Meg, passed away around 6:00 am this morning. She was 14 1/2 years old, and was diagnosed with a failing liver and cancer last month. This morning,...

in loving memory

my darling meg

my precious baby

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Melizzy I am so sorry for your loss. It hurts and there is no way around that. Losing a pet IS losing a member of your family. Big hug to you and take care.

30 Mar 07

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Limit on posting new discussions?

wildhorse @wildhorse (1293) • Egypt 30 Mar 07

Do you think that maybe mylot admin should limit the number of new discussions a member can start per day. This may help reducing low quality posts, when I check "new discussions" I see people posting a discussion every 10...

abuse

discussions

mylot

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Melizzy Doesn't matter. This topic comes up at least a dozen times every month. It always falls on deaf ears. Just suck it up and deal as it is not going to change. Yes, worthless discussions flood the board and the starters get their literal .02 for everyone. Do 50 a...

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Am i stupid?

jencai @jencai (3412) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

I don't allow my boyfriend to drink alcoholic drinks whenever i am around. When someone told me that he do so, i easily get mad to him, then we argue. Am i stupid for prohibiting him?When i was a child i started seeing the effect...

alcoholic drinks

beer

drunk

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Melizzy Why would that be stupid? It is against your wishes and your wishes matter. However, so do his and either you will come to an agreement on this or you won't. Just ask yourself this: if we continue and start talking about marriage, what will be the outcome of...

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Boys and Kitchen "girl" duties

Modestah @Modestah (11179) • United States 29 Mar 07

Our son is at a boarding school this year, and they put him a year ahead of what we were expecting. One of the requirements for graduation is home-economis. They train the boys one year and the girls the next. Well, it is the off...

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Melizzy I don't think that in this day and time there is any such thing as male or female, girl or boy duties. It's about being able to take care of yourself, period. Good for your son and really, he is lucky. A boy who can cook and sew with all those girls? There you...

29 Mar 07

Sad

Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 29 Mar 07

I am very sad right now My dearest Friend is very sick her Daughter has just sent me a Message to let me know I love this Friend very dearly and she is a wonderful Person So I am asking all of you dear Friends of mine whom I...

sad

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Melizzy My thoughts and prayers are with both you and your friend. Just have positive thoughts and try to keep her in good spirits.

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