Messymadam

@Messymadam (25)

Age 67

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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In memory...

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 30 Nov 07

so as hard as it is to believe..it was this day 8 yrs ago that my youngest child Tyler passed away...My husband and I were joking about him yesterday wondering what he'd be like right now character/personality wise and I have to...

in memory of

losing a loved one

loss of child

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Messymadam Lovely photo - what a little character - you can see it in his eyes! I understand a little because my niece had a beautiful baby, Sophia, who died when she was 6 months old. She was born with a serious heart condition and spent most of her short life in...

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What does it mean, when a man says he needs some space?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 21 Nov 07

If your boyfriend or significant other told you that he needed space, would you automatically assume that he was trying to break up with you? Or, that he wanted to see other women? Has it ever happened to you before? What in...

boyfriend rejection

catch him and keep him

cheating spouse

understanding your man

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Messymadam "I need some space" is never a good message from a man. Unless you were trying to find a way to dump him. Then it's great news! And if any guy says this to you then you are well rid - it is a very cowardly and cliched way to get out of a relationship,...

22 Nov 07

Do you believe in life after death?

worthy @worthy (2413) • India 16 Nov 07

Do you? Is it true that our departed loved ones live after death,watch us,help us,love us even then? I think its true.I believe in this thought and feel it gives us the strength to cope up with the loss and encourages us to move...

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Messymadam This is a really interesting discussion. Yes I do believe in life after death. I have no scientific basis for my belief, it's just something I feel. And I would prefer to live my life believing that, rather than believing the alternative. After all, if I am...

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My husband.

mamasan34 @mamasan34 (6518) • United States 21 Nov 07

I just got out of a chat with my husband on instant messenger. I got so irritated I had to leave the chat. I told him of a movie that my daughter and I watched called Reign Over Me with Adam Sandler and Don Cheadle. I was really...

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Messymadam You know, sometimes our lovely men just want to fix things for us, we tell them something makes us sad - they don't see we just want a heart to heart, they want to fix it for us. And because your man is away from his family maybe he feels bad enough about not...

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If you were to write the story of your life, what would your overall message be?

writersedge @writersedge (22563) • United States 30 Oct 07

Mine would be multiple messages. For homelife, plan to have a good marriage and to find a good man. For work, if at first you don't succeed, try and try again. For friendships, my friends are my strength and my hope. For animals,...

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Messymadam Hmmm - on past experience - Finish your education Never start smoking Decline credit cards or loans Accept that the man who is best for you may not be who you consider to be Mr Right, Mr Handsome, or Mr Exciting Keep your self respect above all...

21 Nov 07

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Have you ever had to find a substitute for toilet paper?

Amber @AmbiePam (92864) • United States 20 Nov 07

OK, a few weeks ago I got about 20 dollars in groceries. That was all I could afford right then. No problem, I don't mind losing weight. LOL, so I get home and realize I didn't buy toilet paper. I also thought I had some left....

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Messymadam Aw, my heart went out to you when I read your post - I have been there too! (Totally understand the internet connection, I could not survive without my eBay sales!) Anyway, back to toilet paper. Read some of the replies about Kleenex - yeah, if you can buy...

21 Nov 07

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Hey Plant People

TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 3 Nov 07

I have brought alot of my plants inside because its too cold out side for them now. The problem is some of them are too big and I dont have the room in my house. So I put them in the basement. Do you think they will be okay down...

too many plants

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Messymadam Well if they are tender plants - like they don't survive frost, then they are better off in the basement than outside. Even if they don't have enough light they still might live - they just might be a little sickly looking at the end of the winter. If the...

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Do you read the book before the movie?

tayjorbray1 @tayjorbray1 (50) • United States 20 Nov 07

Do you read the book before the movie?I usually try to read the book first.But Mitch Alboms One more day is on and I really want to watch it. Any how the books are so much better as they give more detail and depth to the story.

book or movie

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Messymadam Usually I would read the book first, and then in my head I get a picture of what I think the characters look and sound like. When I later see the movie I usually think "Hey, that's not what they are like!" But I have to think maybe the directors do the same as...

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Does reading a book help you fall asleep?

megumiart @megumiart (3771) • United States 20 Nov 07

Whenever I read before going to bed, it makes me feel more awake than sleepy. What about you?

reading

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Messymadam No, reading late at night always makes me sleepy! If the book is one of my favourite serial killer page-turners, I am even more likely to fall asleep over it - just because I am unable to put it down. I think "I will just read another page" and somewhere along...

20 Nov 07