Rajitharamesh

@Rajitharamesh (43)

India • Age 44

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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How to improve my communication? Can you have good communication?

powerkaps1987 @powerkaps1987 (68) • India 19 Jan 10

Hi friends.. Im prabhu from bangalore (india).I have completed my bachelor of engineering in computer science..I don't have much more communication skills. Today corporate world need the good communication people.I have attended...

communication

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Rajitharamesh Communication is a skill that has to be developed on a daily basis. Try talking to people in English all day and mingle with people with better communication skills to discuss on topic of your interest. It's just mere practice and nothing big you need to do to...

19 Jan 10

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How to handle children having a bad mood attitude?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 19 Jan 10

i have a niece who is 9 years old she always have this bad moods everytime she jump and cries if shes having a bad mood one example is when she wants to go in neighbor hood in the afternoon her mom didnt allow her to go in the...

attitude

bad mood

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Rajitharamesh Instead of saying them a plain "NO" it is always better to explain them the reason behind the "NO". Give them a better option which would make them feel glad. Divert their attention to something of their interest or promise to take them to the neighbour...

19 Jan 10

If your wife, husband of kids late to lunch time you will eat alone?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 18 Jan 10

How important to you is to have lunch with your family?Is a good place where you can talk with husband, wife, kids, or parents? This is important to keep the family together, to discuss? I remember about my parents and grand...

eating

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Rajitharamesh I try the most to bring the family together at the dining. This is a healthy way to strengthen the relationship among the family members. A lot of positive energy flows in and leaves the whole atmosphere a joyful arena.

19 Jan 10

my husband will leave if i keep the baby

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 19 Jan 10

follow up on the discussion of abortion or not. well i discussed with my hubby today who wants me to have an abortion that i'm not so sure about that. we had discussed not having kids but it's different when the mistake happens...

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Rajitharamesh Try hard to make your hubby understand that nobody has been given the power to end a life. If he still seems to be not convinced then I would suggest you to stand firm on your decision to have the baby. Hope he soon realizes that it's a blessing from God. May...

19 Jan 10

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Chasing ambulances...

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 13 Jan 10

I was sitting in traffic today, on my way home, from work, a little bit miffed that the drive is going to be a little bit long because of the volume of cars on the road. When suddenly, I hear the siren of an ambulance somewhere at...

ambulance

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Rajitharamesh This is what we say as being smarter. However it doesn't sound healthy to be encouraged. Ambulances carry struggling life so it's not advisable to chase ambulances.

14 Jan 10

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Umbrella, rain and errands

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 13 Jan 10

This is an easy one: I'm currently at work, and I have to do some errands on my lunch break today. Unfortunately, it is raining outside, and it's ugly. I have to ship a box so I may get wet lugging it from the parking to the...

umbrella

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Rajitharamesh If I have an umbrella I'll use it. Otherwise if I have forgotten to take it with me I just don't mind getting myself wet in the rain. I always try to take one with me during raing season.

14 Jan 10

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Do you like to appear in movies?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

Well, if you are given a chance, why not? I know it is everybody dream to appear in movies. If given a chance, I would like to be an actress in an action, suspense or flick movies. Besides I heard that to be an actor or actresses...

dream roles

movies potrayal

movies roles

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Rajitharamesh I have absolutely no interest is showing up my face in any entertainment media. However my hubby is totally opposite to me. He is very much interested to enact him in a movie if given a chance.

14 Jan 10

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How different are the ways of raising children now from before?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

In my country most parents discipline their child by talking to them verbally and if they answer back in a rude way they are discipline by spanking their butt by a stick and some by belt, they have to kneel on the beans seed or...

child discipline

parental discipline

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Rajitharamesh Love can achieve anything in life but it doesn't mean that beating up your child shows no love for your child. It's just an act to make them realize that they are repeating a bad behaviour.

14 Jan 10

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How mant credits do u earn per week on trekpay

velocity_186 @velocity_186 (879) • India 14 Jan 10

As we know trekpay gives credit on every click i am very active clicker i earned 456 credits this week and the amount credited to me was 2.38 $ i earned 8 $ this month just being active w/o any refferals i want to know is...

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Rajitharamesh I haven't joined any trekpay so far. I'll look into your profile for further details. Even if I couldn't help you in this I would like anyway to thank you for this piece of information.

14 Jan 10

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Who should pay on the first date?

luckymichelle @luckymichelle (170) • Singapore 13 Jan 10

Its that oh-so-importtant first date which can inject millions of endorphins into one's soul just by the mere thought of it. Guys and gals alike are always dreaming of making that magical date most memorable so as to mark the...

first date

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Rajitharamesh I personally feel that the guy should take care of it. It's not a matter of showing who is richer here but it's the male counterpart to give her an impact that I'll take care of everything.

14 Jan 10

When would you like to Retire?

Chysom Scott @CJscott (4187) • Portage La Prairie, Manitoba 13 Jan 10

When would you like to retire? 1 year? 2 years? 5 years? 10 years? Great! What is your plan to achieve this goal? How much money do you need monthly to retire comfortably? $1000 $2000 $3000 $5000 or more? Great! What is...

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Rajitharamesh I haven't seriously thought about my retirement. I just go ahead in life as it comes. There's no such plan as if now. Sometimes I realize that it is high time to think about it seeriously.

14 Jan 10

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The most peaceful place?

thewayis @thewayis (646) • Bulgaria 14 Jan 10

What is the most peaceful and calming place you have been to? It is near your home or is it some special place which you con't veset often, but when you go there you feel reborn? I love my mauntains and my rocks and I am at peace...

churches

favorite places

peaceful places

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Rajitharamesh I often visit the beach nearby which does something (unexplainable) to me. I feel light after I come back from that place. I prefer to visit the place when it is least crowded. One thing I have learnt is that nature does a lot to us which we appriciate little....

14 Jan 10

Oliver learned the trick!

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63643) • United States 10 Jan 10

You know I talk about how Rygel has a "trick." He will jump into our arms. Well, Oliver has tried once or twice, but always chickened out and not given it a full jump, because he just didn't for whatever reason. Well, today...

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Rajitharamesh My five months baby has started to grab things lying around him with his little fingers. This is my new happy at home. However the sad part is that he is puting anything he grabs into his mouth. I really doubt whether his baby teeth are coming out.

11 Jan 10

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Fetus in a gift box....

froggieslover @froggieslover (3069) • United States 16 Dec 09

I just read this on another site and thought how seriously disturbing people are. What in the heck is wrong with people? This couple is accused of inducing an abortion by taking pills and then after not being able to flush this 7...

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Rajitharamesh Let me ask one question to those who dare to do so. Who gave them the power to execute such a heartbreaking thing. To be blessed with a child is a precious gift from God. If they think they can do anything with their kid then they are absolutely wrong. This...

17 Dec 09

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Do you like wrapping presents?

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 16 Dec 09

I used to love wrapping presents. I had lots of time and was so patient and did a great job... Now, I feel a bit more rushed and frustrated and don't like wrapping as much as I used to. I get lots of gift bags and use them,...

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Rajitharamesh I love to wrap gifts. Whenever my family members have to wrap any gifts, they look for me. They say I do it in a nice way. I look for gift bags only when I don't have enough time to wrap.

17 Dec 09

Is your spouse happy with your position or that you are a stay at home mom?

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 9 Dec 09

When my husband and I first got married we both worked and I thought I would keep working once I had children, my husband wanted me to stay home with the kids. I workd for the first year and a half after my first child was born...

mothering

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Rajitharamesh Hi ladym, we have a common thought, both of us feel that i should stay at home to pay full attention to our four months old kid. However i feel that i should slowly look for some part time job to support my family financially. Nowadays it's pretty difficult to...

10 Dec 09

Family that never sees each other.

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 8 Dec 09

I know that most of us have family that we see on a daily basis. And there are families that hardly get to see each other because of various reasons. It could be their work schedule that is very hectic, a sick family member that...

aunt

distance newjersey relatives long distance relatio

family

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Rajitharamesh That's a real sad story. Feel sorry for your mother-in-law. I can't even imagine myself in her state because I'm very attached to my family. I wonder what could make a person so stubborn and what are they going to fetch at the end??? Cream, never let her feel...

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Do you count your blessings?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58678) • Delhi, India 6 Dec 09

Hi friends! It is always easier to think ‘negative’ things, when we are sad. However, it is said that when we are upset and depressed due to any major happening, we should count our blessings to make us feel happy...

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Rajitharamesh Hi mylotter, Being able to sit in front of a computer and respond to this discussion itself is a blessing. People in far woods, never know a computer. Having born as a human is a big blessing because God thought that i can be given responsibilities to...

7 Dec 09

My Daughter Won 5 Medals on the Weekend!

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 6 Dec 09

She participated in a swimming carnival in the country, and won one gold, two silver and two bronze. She was so pleased with herself. Why is this so exciting to us? She is a competitive swimmer and two weeeks ago was diagnosed...

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Rajitharamesh Hi jennybisbca, i'm so sorry to read this. I'm hearing about scoliosis for the first time. Anyway i appreciate your daughter for having made to this extent. I'm happy for her. Please convey my hearty congrats to her for her achievement. I'll remember her in my...

7 Dec 09

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Which do you prefer? long or short discussion?

ayebelle @ayebelle (367) • Philippines 6 Dec 09

I mean, do you sometimes feel tired of reading those long lines? or you prefer the short one but the detail is still there. honestly sometimes if i see the line is long it's like i'm gonna be lazy to read it. But if...

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Rajitharamesh Hi belle, i prefer short ones but i can't stop myself from reading a discussion that draws my attention even if it's lengthy. So it's the topic that matters and not the length.

7 Dec 09