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devideddi @devideddi (1435) • United States 14 Aug 09

You better believe it is. I believe it is one of the hardest forms of abuse to deal with. So many people just sweep it under the rug. And it comes in different packages. You may first think of the man who screams out horrible...

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Talravean Heck yeah, I do! It's always frustrating to the point of wanting to tear my own hair off when someone screams at me that I'm not good enough, I shouldn't have done that, why didn't I take that out, did I really have to say that, yada, yada, yada. It really...

17 Aug 09

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 16 Aug 09

I have heard that from lots of caucasians that they feel Asians look very similar, they cannot tell which is from which countries. They all have same facial features, do you agree with that? I am a Asian, we have lots of whites...

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Talravean Haha, thanks. =D. And, actually, you're English isn't that bad; I understood what you meant clearly, after all. And for the record, English isn't even my first language =P. Anyway, yeah, I think that's why Indians are Indians and not called Asians. They're...

17 Aug 09

Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 16 Aug 09

I was just wondering... They say that someone who is capable of questioning their sanity is obviously not insane. What if someone was abused when young (just something light, not even terribly scarring) but got out of it...

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Talravean 4- Yes, actually, that's very helpful. =D. And even though I don't really trust wikipedia, sometimes it's a resourceful site from people all over. And this makes sense, kinda... I get it. Bing consciously aware of something subconscious, I mean. Thanks, sri!...

17 Aug 09

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 16 Aug 09

I have heard that from lots of caucasians that they feel Asians look very similar, they cannot tell which is from which countries. They all have same facial features, do you agree with that? I am a Asian, we have lots of whites...

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Talravean Thank you. =D I always try to make my point clear. Anyways, yeah, Indians are just Indians (they're not called Asians, for some reason), but I know India is in Asia, so. Why not join the group, right? =D. ~K~

16 Aug 09

jennifer611 @jennifer611 (2514) • United States 15 Aug 09

Lately I been going through some things. but I don't know if that's it. the "things" kinda left my mind for a minute but I just had this stroooong feeling come over me and I just wanted to cry. Maybe it's my body telling me...

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Talravean Hmmm, it's not good to feel like this. You should go out and do something that would bring you a lotta joy. This kind of feeling sounds like a phase in depression. Some people get depressed without even knowing it, you know? Anyway, I've never felt like...

16 Aug 09

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 16 Aug 09

I have heard that from lots of caucasians that they feel Asians look very similar, they cannot tell which is from which countries. They all have same facial features, do you agree with that? I am a Asian, we have lots of whites...

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Talravean Depends on what Asian nationality a person is. Asia is BIG. Most Asians don't look alike at all. But when it comes to Chinese and Japanese and Koreans, it's kinda hard to tell the difference, yeah. The same goes for Thai and Indonesians. But I don't think...

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byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 23 Jun 09

I talking about the weather temp here. Living in Michigan we get a good share of cold and all winter long complain about the cold, snow, and ice. But now we've moved into summer and it's HOT and HUMID. Personally I prefer the...

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Talravean COLD. I don't care where I am or how much I complain. I would alway prefer freezing to death rather than melting, thank you very much. And just for the record, the country I live in is constantly HOT. As in, there's barely a day that goes by when you're...

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Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 16 Aug 09

I was just wondering... They say that someone who is capable of questioning their sanity is obviously not insane. What if someone was abused when young (just something light, not even terribly scarring) but got out of it...

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Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 15 Aug 09

Okay, I know what you're thinking. Education is always important. But to what extent? Sure, schooling is important, but if a child is someone who isn't academically advanced, is it alright to tell them they should do better? I...

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Talravean I didn't say children should waste away their youth playing. I merely stated that, if a child cannot/does not do well in school, isn't it better, then, to focus on what they ARE good at? Instead of pointing and saying, 'Oh, look, he's an idiot. He failed his...

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Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 15 Aug 09

Okay, I know what you're thinking. Education is always important. But to what extent? Sure, schooling is important, but if a child is someone who isn't academically advanced, is it alright to tell them they should do better? I...

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Talravean Aha! That's EXACTLY what I mean. Is it alright for people to dismiss someone who went to a community college and got a degree there when you have someone who has a degree from Harvard?? What's the difference? Just. A. Name. In the end, the work that they'll...

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Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 15 Aug 09

Mine is actually a random name that I think sounds kinda witchy. =P. I made it up a long time ago, at the age when butterflies scared the crap outta me and sugar was the only thing I'd consume willingly. So, what about yours?

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Talravean Lol to the first part; I do agree. Who IS Mike44?? =P Anyways, haha, thanks! =D. I DID use to pretend I went on cool quests in magical/mythical places, when I was young (I secretly still do; shh! Don't tell anyone! =P). Your name sounded like your own...

16 Aug 09

Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 15 Aug 09

Which would you prefer; a mother who is your friend or one who is your parent? Personally, I think it's obvious; MOTHERS ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND. It's not an insult. It's a fact. Friends are people you do stuff with that you...

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Talravean I'm really happy for you. =D. It's great that there are parents like that. ~K~

15 Aug 09

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 15 Aug 09

I am so mad I could spit! This morning my fiance and I went to get breakfast with a friend. When we got back he went to the store right around the corner(walking). I was coming in to bring the breakfast so I walked around to the...

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Talravean Loving someone is a two-way road. You can't constantly be the one who considers their actions first before speaking their mind harshly. Your partner needs to be willing to do so as well. Otherwise, it's a doomed relationship. In my opinion, if you have...

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ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 15 Aug 09

hehe...i do! when funny things or happy thoughts come to my mind, i sometimes find my self smiling alone! hehehe...no matter where i am when those thoughts came to me, i can't avoid myself from doing this...i think it comes...

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Talravean LMAO. I've lost count of how many times I've suddenly burst out laughing for no apparent reason, even alone. =P My friends constantly ask if I'm okay. ~K~

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Talravean @Talravean (46) • Malaysia 15 Aug 09

Okay, I know what you're thinking. Education is always important. But to what extent? Sure, schooling is important, but if a child is someone who isn't academically advanced, is it alright to tell them they should do better? I...

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Talravean I never thought of it that way, but you make a lot of sense. =D. I especially agree with that last part; there ARE many ways to one goal. There's not just one road in life. ~K~ PS: I love your style, =P.

15 Aug 09

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 15 Aug 09

I know you have superstitious beliefs in your country before marriage and wedding. In my country it is a practice not to allow a bride to wear her dress before wedding or her wedding will be cancel or discontinue. Then, the groom...

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Talravean Well, I can only remember one at the moment... + Anyone who wanders around while eating (snacking or a meal, whichever) will get married numerous times (polygamy isn't illegal here). I think it's funny and do it on purpose in front of my grandmother just...

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vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 14 Aug 09

My passions are : 1. My sons and their future 2. make money 3.music 4. blogging( writing) 5. watching dancing(means I don't know to dance, hehehe) 6. humor ( watching comedy TV programs, make others laugh) 7....

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Talravean 1- Helping people 2- Realizing my dreams 3- Becoming a useful person 4- Keeping my family safe and happy 5- Being happy with myself 6- HAVING CHILDREN (they're so cuuuute.... =P) 7- WRITING (I think this one falls under realizing my...

15 Aug 09

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