VF1Jtrainer

@VF1Jtrainer (54)

United States • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Good luck and good hunting

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piniongrl @piniongrl (142) • United States 30 Sep 08

What do you WANT in a significant other? What do you NEED in a significant other? If you've been in enough relationships you know what needs are from you S.O. and which of those your not willing to sacrifice to get what you want...

needs

relationships

wants

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VF1Jtrainer I WANT support on personal interests, consideration of differences, similar interests in enough to keep us having fun together, enough differences to make things interesting, a reasonably healthy "love-life." I NEED love, devotion, respect.

2 Jan 09

At what age do you think it is appropriate to start leaving children home alone?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 31 Dec 08

I understand that part of the answer depends on the maturity of the individual child, but I am looking for number ages here. Just give me a guess on your part. Also, are there any laws that answer that question? I know...

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VF1Jtrainer I would guess that a reasonably well behaved ten year old COULD be okay at home alone. To be safe one might wait untill twelve, but certainly by then the concepts of what is and is not dangerous ought to be well understood. My brother was five years older than...

2 Jan 09

Do I have the right to apply a physical discipline to my wife's nephew?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 31 Dec 08

Happy New Year guys! WE have with us a nephew of my wife cause his parents requested us to be his guardian while he was still studying away from their home residence. He was so hard-headed fellow, very lazy one both in helping our...

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VF1Jtrainer No, of course you shouldn't "punch him" BUT I basically feel that physical punishment should be firm enough to make a point, but gentle enough not to bruise. A little smack on the head like you might do to your buddies ought to be fine, and a spanking hurts a...

2 Jan 09

Peeing

pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 1 Jan 09

This is sort of a strange question, but I would like as much advice as I can get. I have 5 boys, 6 if you count dad. They have the biggest trouble peeing in the toilet! It's all over the floor every thing around the toilet,...

bathroom

peeing

toilet

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VF1Jtrainer Another good reason to try and convince everyone to just sit down is that even if their aim is perfect, the force splashes droplets out everywhere anyway. For some reason my mother put arpeting in her bathroom (it matches the rest of the decor) and she asked...

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Nap Schedule

bethyboo @bethyboo (399) • United States 2 Jan 09

My son is 14 months old and usually takes two naps a day. He is beginning to act like he only needs one nap. He will just sit in his crib and play when he is suppose to be taking his afternoon nap. If he doesn't end up taking his...

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VF1Jtrainer My own schedule has been very hectic, and as a result our twin boys never adopted a precise schedule. They 13 months (minus ten weeks pre-mature) and still take two naps a day. BUT they nap when they fall asleep, not because I tell them to. AND they usually...

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Should owning guns be illegal

hkk12369 @hkk12369 (47) • India 1 Jan 09

Well when thinking over this topic both things came to my mind. Why not? Guns can make a simple person a killer. Why ? If somebody acts irresponsibly with a car(or gun) then nobody suggests banning all the cars. Whats your...

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VF1Jtrainer I'd also like to point out that part of the original purpose of everyone being aloud to have a gun was to defend there homes from our own government. That's right, because soldiers used to just walk into people houses like, "Hay, I'm a soldier, I can do what I...

2 Jan 09

Favorite instrument?

bsclarinet @bsclarinet (109) • United States 2 Jan 09

What is your favorite musical instrument to play? I play bass clarinet, flute, clarinet, and some percussion stuff. I really enjoy plaing the bass clarinet, but the music written for this instrument isn't always too exciting. The...

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VF1Jtrainer Well, I'm not very good yet, but I really love my ocarina. (Yes, just like in Zelda.) It can sound haunting or pretty, and while the breath control is important there's little other physical difficulties that I've found like touching the wrongs guitar string,...

2 Jan 09

Which chaacter do you relate to the most...?

Sing2Me @Sing2Me (84) • United States 18 Dec 08

I couldn't find the LOTR book interest (there are so many interests here!), so I posted this here. Which character do you relate to the most and why?

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VF1Jtrainer I feel I relate best to Smeagol. In some ways, I think he is the most "human" charachter. At heart he wants to be good, but life's struggles, hardships and temptations have driven him to warring with himself. It's the eternal struggle of the human spirit, and...

2 Jan 09

Frodo who is in the movie is not the right guy to act Frodo !

Seyduna @Seyduna (129) • Turkey 25 Dec 08

I think Frodo is being pushed too much strees in the movie yes this is ok but the he is always complaining about things despite all he is doing throughout the story is just carrying the ring nothing else..he is holding the ring...

frodo

lord of the rings

middle earth

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VF1Jtrainer But isn't that the whole point? Simply carrying the ring mystically affects Frodo's mind and makes him obsessive and dangerous. Not to mention the psychological burden of having it causing paranoia and despair.

2 Jan 09

do you check your spelling?

jingbautista @jingbautista (2456) • Philippines 2 Jan 09

hehe. i have this with me too. sometimes my spelling are rumbled. sometims or maybe oftentimes, i don't mind my spelling. but mind you, the way you are using them, it may have some effect on your usage later. and worst, you may...

checking of spelling

do you check your spelling

right spelling

right words

spelling check

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VF1Jtrainer I often check my spelling, but it depends on how important the discussion is to me. For instance I might not be concerned if I were talking about video games, but for a topic like religion or other big life issues it just seems more respectful (and intelligent...

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How many do you have?

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 30 Dec 08

I don't know why but I was wondering if any of you have scars....How did you get them and where are they? I have a few, one on my left fore finger where I tried (not purposely) to cut my finger off with my mom's sewing scissors...

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VF1Jtrainer I have three that I can think of. Two on my fingers, and one from when I tried to catch a pencil by forming a lap at the last second. It ended up "landing between my legs and getting jabbed in sideways. Not too deep, but I had to pick a piece of corderoy out...

1 Jan 09

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can you hear it?

camodad @camodad (176) • United States 29 Dec 08

I got The Dark Knight recently and have "watched" it several times now. I have not yet gotten to enjoy the movie. The talking in the movie is so low I have to crank the surround sound up. The action parts of the movie are so loud...

dark knight

disc

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VF1Jtrainer what?! dude, i can't hear you! all i can hear is how awsome the bat-cycle is! and the joker's insideous laughter!

1 Jan 09

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May I Have Your Attention Please!

camodad @camodad (176) • United States 16 Dec 08

I very rarely get on here but I have something very important to say. First off it is 10pm and I need to get up at 3am. Wanted to go to bed an hour ago but really needed to tell you all about this. Ok, so here it goes. CAMOMOM, I...

relay

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VF1Jtrainer Y'know, sometimes you're sweeter than you look. :)

1 Jan 09

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any cha cha's?

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 10 Nov 08

Do you work for chacha? What position do you work? I'm an expeditor and my fiance is a guide. Have you noticed a decline in questions coming through? They limited the number of questions to 20 a month now and it seems like it's...

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VF1Jtrainer Just went there. they aren't accepting new people right now.

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regarding Santa

piniongrl @piniongrl (142) • United States 2 Dec 08

My husband and I are having a discussion on Christmas and I am having some reservations about Santa and the tooth fairy and the easter bunny and all those fictional characters. I think that they are commercial (in some cases)...

fairy

santa

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VF1Jtrainer I see the commercial aspects and religious aspects as seperate things. I don't think the meaning of the holliday has to be lost in order to enjoy the other celebrations. Since every kid is different, I think it would be hard to plan when is the right time to...

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Scary for real

piniongrl @piniongrl (142) • United States 3 Oct 08

Please post the last movie you saw/remember that actually gave you nightmares or kept you from sleeping.

horror

nightmares

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VF1Jtrainer Ferinheit911, lol. No, seriously, though, I think it was something old that I had seen at least once before, but it just struck me wrong way(right way?) that night. It might of been of one the Creepshow movies, or something with zombies. For some reason...

5 Oct 08

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do you remember playing with toys?

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 16 Sep 08

what toys did you play with as a child? do they still make these toys? do you still own them? i remember lincoln logs. i don't know if they still make them like they used too or if they are even called lincoln logs anymore. i do...

lincoln

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VF1Jtrainer I remember Lincoln Logs, I think they still make them. I had Legos, Diacosmos (which I think are like japanese legos), Construx (those were awsome, wish they still made them), I had a Gloworm (which apperently can still be found, but it's much more "cutesy"...

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